Xue Xin was frightened and rushed forward to hug her mother's arm.
"Mom, I was wrong, I was wrong! Don't be angry! I didn't mean to quarrel with him, it's because he always doesn't listen to me."
When Chen Xinzhi saw that his mother-in-law was angry, he did not dare to speak anymore and stood aside with his head hanging down.
Xue Xin acted coquettishly: "Mom, I am really, really busy, otherwise I would have gone home long ago.
I want to go home every day——" "My mother's family."
Xue Ling interrupted her and corrected her mistake: "You are already married. Your and Xinzhi's home is your home. This is just your natal home."
"Mom~~" Xue Xin pouted aggrievedly: "Why are you willing to push me outside?
I know you're angry with me, but there's nothing I can do about it! I'm so busy in the studio that I can't spare the time to come back."
Xue Ling snorted coldly and asked: "Your Aunt Wang Qing has been ill for several months, so you just hurried to the hospital with a few bags of nutritional supplements, said hello in a hurry, and then left in a hurry.
Let me ask you - who told you to be so cold-hearted?
Who taught it?"
The large living room suddenly became quiet, and the atmosphere became stagnant.
Xue Xin's face turned red and white, and she was extremely embarrassed. She didn't know how to explain it.
Chen Xinzhi on the side felt sorry for her and apologized in a low voice: "Mom, it's my fault.
She goes out early and comes back late, and even reverses day and night.
She was always chirping and had no memory.
She originally thought about going to the hospital to visit Aunt Wang Qing, but unexpectedly she forgot about it.
It's all my fault for not reminding her, it was my negligence."
"Do not blame you."
Xue Ling said solemnly: "It's your fault that your father and I neglected to discipline her.
The third child is the same child as her. Even though he is thousands of miles away and very busy every day, he will still send us videos every now and then.
Greetings to Wang Qing and Ahu, I will video chat with your grandparents. When I have time, I will also video chat with a few nephews and nieces, and send them small toys and gadgets from abroad.
what about you?
And you?"
Xue Xin shrank her head and buried her face in embarrassment, not daring to refute even a word.
Chen Xinzhi secretly thought something was wrong, and was about to step forward, but was stared back by Xue Ling.
Xue Ling said softly: "Xinzhi, although she is married to you and is the daughter-in-law of your Chen family, no matter how long she has been married or whose wife she is, the fact that she is my daughter will never change.
She is my daughter. Even if she is eighty years old, as long as I am alive, I will be her mother.
If she does something wrong, it is my responsibility to teach her."
"……yes."
Chen Xinzhi nodded hurriedly and whispered: "Mom, don't be angry. If you have something to say, speak slowly."
Xue Ling didn't want to speak slowly, so she gently shook her daughter's hand away.
"Xiao Xin, you are the youngest in the family. You are loved and pampered by your grandparents, parents, and several brothers, so you have enjoyed more love and pampering than other brothers since you were a child.
Because of this, as long as no one mentions anything, you will get carried away and only know that you are the center and you have to do everything according to your ideas.
As time goes by, you will not know how to be considerate of other people, and will neglect to respect the elders and love the younger ones."
"Mom..." Xue Xin's eyes turned red, she retreated to Chen Xinzhi and murmured: "I... I'm really just too busy."
Xue Ling couldn't accept such a reason and said: "You are still young, pursuing a career is a good thing and what you should do.
But have your dad and I taught you that there are many other important things in life besides career?"
Xue Xin was stunned and did not dare to speak again.
Xue Ling snorted: "Looking around, who doesn't have a career?
Responsible adults all have their own careers, big or small.
When your father and your mother were pursuing their careers, they were busy day and night.
But have we ever left the elderly alone?
Have you ever left you alone?
Career is important, but why do we pursue career?
Tell me - why are you pursuing your career?"
"I...I..." Xue Xin murmured: "Pursue my dream and make more money."
Xue Ling nodded: "It's right to pursue your dreams, and it's right to make money, but you should understand why you make money.
Come on, come and talk to me again.
What do you make money for?”
"Just...just to realize my dream."
Xue Xin whispered: "Have your own business, buy whatever you want, and realize your own financial freedom."
After hearing this, Xue Ling couldn't help but let out a long sigh.
"It seems like your dream is only for you.
My child, I was right, if no one mentions you, you will become a selfish guy who will only focus on yourself."
Xue Xin shed tears of grievance and nestled beside Chen Xinzhi.
Chen Xinzhi hugged her, but still didn't dare to interrupt.
Xue Ling stared at her daughter and said, "I was young too, and I also pursued my dreams.
My dream also includes making a lot of money, but my purpose of making money is for my family, my family.
I hope you can live a richer life and have more security.
Moreover, I will not ignore the people around me, especially you, just to make money.
I will clearly distinguish the priorities and never confuse them.
If you ignore your family and loved ones in order to make money, then there is no point in making more money."
Xue Xin even lowered her voice: "Mom, I... I'm just dizzy from being busy lately..." "I hope so."
Xue Ling said: "You have done something wrong, and it is my duty as a mother to remind you.
What should you focus on, how should you balance career and family, relatives and friends - these are all problems that you must face and solve."
Xue Xin couldn't help but protest: "Mom, sometimes I really can't balance it - unless I give it up, there's no way I can balance it all."
"Who said that!"
Xue Ling said solemnly: "Isn't everyone trying their best to take care of both?
You have just gotten married now, you don’t have children yet, and the elderly don’t need you to take care of them yet. You can’t take care of them now, so what will you do in the future?
There are no absolutes in life.
There is not only white or black in the world.
If you can't take both into account, then you can only give up?
Who said that?"
"I...I was wrong."
Xue Xin whispered repeatedly: "I just don't know how to balance."
Xue Ling was a little helpless and reminded: "Remember, if you give up, you will gain.
If you don't give up one part, you won't get the other part.
There is no need to discard them, but to make reasonable arrangements to discard some of them.
You may not be able to see what you get for the time being, but as time goes by, you will slowly discover it.”
After a pause, she added: "Also, don't be too tight and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
Nothing is too much and too little is too much. Only by exerting all your energy can you have the strongest strength.
Relax appropriately and maybe you can walk faster."
Xue Xin didn't know if she understood, so she whispered "Oh".
Chen Xinzhi nodded in agreement: "Mom is right."
"Stop talking about it yet."
Xue Ling glared at her daughter: "Don't keep grandpa and grandma waiting for too long. Let's go eat first.