Xue Ling laughed dumbly: "Then do you want to consider buying it in advance?"
"Not buying."
Zheng Duoduo explained: "There are several small companies working on the same type at the same time. I can buy one and spend a lot of money on it, but I can't buy them all.
First, this is not an area that she and I are familiar with, and we should not act rashly.
Second, even if they succeed in buying it, they may not be able to run it successfully."
"oh?"
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "Is it because of Xiao Tong and her classmates?"
Zheng Duoduo nodded: "Sister, you have always been very accurate in judging people.
You should know that Xiao Tong is not the kind of person suitable to be a leader."
"Um."
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "Some people are suitable to be generals, and some people are only suitable to be soldiers.
Xiao Tong has very good abilities, and her reaction and learning abilities are very good, but she does not have the courage, scheming, and aura to be a big leader."
Zheng Duoduo: "Alas!"
She made a sound and said: "She always thought that she had a good personality, good academic performance, and strong working ability. Now that she has finally graduated, it is time to show her talents.
It's not bad to be ambitious, but you have to face reality! Don't think that graduate students from prestigious universities are so amazing.
Now, no more than a dozen years ago, highly educated people are everywhere. If you go out and grab someone with a master's degree or a doctorate! But a high diploma does not mean high ability."
Xue Ling listened for a long time and finally heard his specific troubles.
"So, you and Xiao Tong are deadlocked here?
There are other?"
Zheng Duoduo thought that since he had said it, he would tell it all.
"It's not just that! She is also a mother for the first time, so it is inevitable that she has no experience, but she can't check her mobile phone and computer all day long to study randomly! Sometimes it's just a small problem, and she insists on looking at this and this, and then
Just scare yourself and come up with a lot of theories.
I haven’t even started taking care of my children yet, and I’m already making myself anxious.”
Xue Ling chuckled and asked, "Is there any more?"
"Yes, I have!"
Zheng Duoduo sighed and replied: "My mother is the mother of two sons. She personally raised Tietou and me up.
She is very experienced in raising children, but little Tong always secretly dislikes the fact that my mother’s way of raising children is not correct, saying that failing to cultivate the child’s learning ability may cause the child to lose at the starting line.”
Xue Ling: "..." Zheng Duoduo rolled his eyes secretly and said angrily: "The child is only over one year old, where is his starting line?
!A little kid who only knows how to drink milk and eat sticky food every day, there is no need to worry about his future, right?
!As I said, Sister Lingling’s children were not even one or two years old when they were engaged in some kind of ‘education class’ education. Wouldn’t all of them become top students?
She said things were different now, and that children should pay more attention to quality education and the cultivation of various abilities. I was so angry that I told her directly that after she graduated, she would raise her children by herself! My mother worked hard for
She took care of her children, and she worked hard without any credit, so my mother's efforts should not be denied! When she graduates, I will ask Tietou to find an excuse to bring my mother here."
Xue Ling was amused for a while and then stopped.
"Don't be angry, it's just a small problem."
Zheng Duoduo didn't think so, explaining: "Sister, employment issues and childcare issues are both big problems.
I really didn't expect that we would have such big differences on these two issues.
She wants to start her own business, and I can support her.
But she is really not suitable! I tried to persuade her, but she didn’t listen, thinking that I just wanted to keep her working for me in the group.
There are so many people in the group, am I missing her?
ah?"
"There is no shortage of her as an employee."
Xue Ling chuckled: "She is the only wife, isn't she?"
Zheng Duoduo curled her lips aggrievedly: "Stop it, ever since she entered graduate school, she has been surrounded by a bunch of self-righteous leftover women.
Every day they boast about the idea that women are omnipotent and all kinds of feminist rhetoric, which makes me a little annoyed.
Sister, it’s not that I look down on women, what I love most is my mother and her! The woman I admire the most is you - you are all amazing women."
"Uh-huh."
Xue Ling pursed her lips and smiled: "Okay, okay, it's really not a big deal."
Zheng Duoduo was delighted when he heard this: "Sister, what do you mean..." "Leave her alone and wait and see what happens."
Xue Ling expressed her thoughts directly and said warmly: "Xiao Tong came to work in the group after graduation. It can be said that she has climbed to the top in one step and came to work under you.
You and I have specially trained her, but she may think that this good platform is also one of her abilities.
If she really wants to start a business, you should let her give it a try.
She is now the CEO's wife, a master's student at a prestigious university, beautiful and capable, and this is when she is at her most high-spirited.
If you stop her and pour cold water on her, will she be willing to do so?
It would be weird if I didn’t make trouble with you."
Zheng Duoduo laughed bitterly and explained: "Sister, aren't I afraid that she will be frustrated and hurt?
She is my wife, how could I let her be whipped and tortured by society.
What am I working so hard for?
Isn’t it just for the whole family to live peacefully, comfortably and well?”
"Women nowadays don't like to be little women under the protection of men."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "She is still young, and it will be very good for her to get some training.
Xiao Tong is not the kind of weak woman who cannot bear setbacks, so there is no need for you to worry unfounded."
Zheng Duoduo couldn't help but ask again: "What about the children's education?"
Xue Ling chuckled: "It's still the same sentence - just wait and see what happens.
If she wants to take care of her own children after graduation, you can let her.
Xinzhi has always been very resourceful. When the time comes, you can secretly discuss it with him and let Xinzhi find a good reason to take Sister Achun away.
Sister Achun is gone, and she can raise her son however she wants."
"What if she can't handle it?"
Zheng Duoduo was extremely worried and asked: "She has to start a business and take care of her children - how can she be so busy?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "Don't be afraid, let her try.
Anyway, there is a nanny at home to help, and sooner or later she has you as her husband, so she is not alone.
Sometimes loving her is not about helping her do everything, nor is it about helping her make decisions, nor is it about persuading her with sincere words, or arguing with her or being in a stalemate with her.
You should relax, give her time and space, and let her endure and hit the wall. Maybe she can truly appreciate the preciousness of having someone to protect her."
Zheng Duoduo hesitated, feeling extremely reluctant and tormented.
Xue Ling chuckled: "Everyone has a different personality.
If it were my Xiaoxin, I wouldn't dare to make such a suggestion to Xinzhi.
Xin Zhi himself also knew very well that Xiao Xin was the kind of delicate girl who couldn't live without the protection of others.
But Xiao Tong is different. You can let her try appropriately. If she falls and is dead, you can take action again.
At that time, the effect was completely different.”
"...It doesn't seem very good if my father-in-law and mother-in-law know that I won't help her."
Zheng Duoduo hesitated: "Sister, you have to help me then."
Xue Ling was amused for a while: "If you don't stop her or help her in starting a business outside, you are just helping her.
You can't ignore the children at home, you have a share in them too.
Don’t worry, if you control things appropriately, I will definitely help you.”
"Thank you sister!"
Zheng Duoduo finally smiled: "I love you the most!"
"Okay, okay, let's go back early to spend time with our children."