Xue Huan felt that his eldest brother was a little too nervous and even worried.
"Xiaohan has grown up, and she doesn't like to quarrel with you like she did when she was rebellious before.
She is becoming more sensible now, and by the time she gets married in a few years, her ability to recognize people will be even better."
Xue Heng, however, did not have much confidence in his daughter and smiled bitterly: "She is a little sensitive by nature, and she doesn't know how to refuse other people's kindness to her.
With a temperament like hers, as long as any man shows his attentiveness to her, she will be attracted to him very quickly."
"It's okay if you can be nice to her!"
Xue Huan teased: "Are your demands on your son-in-law too high?
You haven't even written your horoscope yet, and you've already set your requirements?"
Xue Ling laughed loudly: "Yes! You have already listed the standards for your future son-in-law in your heart, right?"
"No."
Xue Heng smiled and shook his head: "She is the one getting married, not me, so why should I set standards?
is that useful?
It’s no use! I’m just making complete preparations just in case.
If you can treat Xiaohan sincerely, then everyone will be happy, right?
But if the other party has ulterior motives and is just coaxing her temporarily for supplies, then I have to be careful."
Xue Ling nodded in agreement: "You really need to be careful.
If it's someone who knows the basics, we don't have to worry.
But now that the child is traveling far away and knows many people, it is impossible for us to take care of them all.
People's hearts are unpredictable, so it's good to keep an eye on things."
"yes."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh lowly: "Xiaohan is a child who hides his thoughts deeply, but the emotions on his face are obvious. Such a person will easily suffer in the future."
Xue Huan advised: "When she graduates, it will be much safer to recruit her to the nursing home. With our help, it will be much safer."
"This is a good idea."
Xue Ling was very approving: "Xiaohan has a sensitive temperament and is not suitable to work in an outside company or unit, otherwise he may easily suffer losses or offend others.
With you taking care of her and nurturing her, when she is in her early thirties and matures, you will be able to rest assured."
Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "We think it's good, but will she agree?
Today's young people like to be lively and don't like to live in the suburbs.
We are half old people, so we like the quiet environment of a nursing home.
Young people love to play and have fun, so why would they want to stay in a nursing home!"
"Please advise."
Xue Ling said: "At that time, you can find an excuse, saying that you are too busy, or that you are in poor health, and ask her to help temporarily.
Just help, and as time goes by, maybe she will like the environment there, but that's not necessarily the case.
There are always more solutions than difficulties.”
Xue Heng nodded: "Let's try it then.
I'm just worried that she'll fall in love with someone out of town during college and run away with him as soon as she graduates.
At that time, we won’t even have a chance to react, and any plans will be in vain.”
Xue Ling and Xue Huan both laughed and said, "If that's really the case, there's nothing we can do about it."
"If that's true..." Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "There's really nothing we can do.
The path of her life must be walked by herself.
As parents, we can only do our best to teach her, love her, and protect her as much as possible.
But it is beyond our reach. If we are really far away, we will only be able to do as much as we can.”
"Don't think too much."
Xue Huan gave up: "The opportunities in life are very wonderful, and most of the time they are unpredictable.
If you encounter it, try your best to accept it calmly, otherwise what else can you do?"
Xue Ling nodded in agreement: "Yes, at our age, we can also see it."
"able."
Xue Heng chuckled: "My mentality is much better now than before.
Since I got used to living in the suburbs, surrounded by quiet mountains and forests, my mood has become calmer without realizing it.
I feel less irritable and anxious, and I feel more calm and collected when encountering problems.”
Xue Ling couldn't help but ridicule: "The eminent monks and masters in the world all live in seclusion, otherwise how could they have such high cultivation?
If you stay a few more years, you may be able to see through the world of mortals."
"I have already seen through it."
Xue Heng laughed loudly: "It's just that there is no need to become a monk!"
Xue Huan joked: "You don't have to lose your hair, it's almost all gone."
The three of them laughed again! The time of chatting passed quickly, and it was soon noon.
Xue Ling stayed with them for lunch in Xinyuan and told them that they would be engaged on the Mid-Autumn Festival and would hold a wedding in the back garden at the end of the year.
Mother Xue said with a smile: "Ran Ran said, step by step, so we don't have to worry.
They are not in a hurry, but we are in a hurry all day long!"
"Can you not be in a hurry?"
Xue Zhilan raised his eyebrows and said: "Yang Yang is the second child, and he is already the father of four children.
However, if we don’t catch up, we will fall far behind!”
"It's already quite a bit bigger."
Dad Xue smiled and said: "I told them that we can't catch up in time, so we can only catch up with them in quantity."
"Hahaha!"
Everyone laughed.
"What a great idea! Try to have six children!"
"Of course you are the eldest son and eldest grandson, so you should have more children!"
Xue Ling explained: "They said they didn't want to go to a fancy hotel and just invite some of their best friends and relatives to come to Xinyuan to witness their happiness.
I originally thought that since he was the eldest son and the boss, he had to make things more lively.
With our current manpower and material resources, our family is still capable of hosting a grand wedding.
But they all insisted not to."
"An An seems to be a very quiet girl."
Xue Zhilan nodded: "She probably doesn't like too much excitement."
Xue Ling chuckled: "They insist not to do it, and we can't force it.
They are the ones who want to get married, so let them make their own decisions."
"Yeah."
Xue Heng nodded: "The elders nowadays have to have this correct attitude.
Times have changed, and people's concepts must also change.
Respect young people's choices and don't regard their weddings as a grand occasion for our older generation's interpersonal relationships.
Today’s young people don’t like this.”
"I respect it very much!"
Xue Ling laughed: "I told them to ask for anything they need and let them arrange it themselves.
Ran Ran said that the brothers and sisters will do it on their own then, and we only have to be responsible for watching the fun, eating and drinking."
"Wow!"
Xue Huan was extremely envious and said, "That's great! Just wait with your legs crossed to become a mother-in-law!"
Xue Ling greeted: "I won't invite friends from outside, only our relatives.
Your whole family, plus Ahu's family, and cousin Xue Cong's family - that's all.
You should arrive early and see what tricks those kids can come up with."
"Don't worry, no matter what you do, it will be better than us."
Xue Heng smiled.
"I'll definitely come!"
Xue Huan replied: "The children should have a holiday by then, so they all called over one by one to join in the fun."
Xue Zhilan nodded hurriedly: "With these families alone, the scene is lively enough.
By any calculation, there must be dozens of people, right?"