Ahu couldn't help but frown and asked, "Not at all?"
"No ah!"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "The eldest son is similar to Yang Yang from Ayuan's family, but Yang Yang is already the father of four children! There is no one for the three of them, and they still refuse to look for them - I am worried to death!"
Ahu also had a look of disbelief: "At their age, if I could get a fixed salary a month, I would definitely find a partner! When I was in my twenties, my heart was burning with passion every day, and no matter what the obstacles were, I would find a partner.
Don’t live like that!”
Everyone laughed.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "We were different back then than we are now.
Materials were not as abundant as they are now, and they were very simple. I was lucky enough to be able to barely fill my stomach.
At that time, marriage was simple, just send a wedding candy, wear a formal suit of clothes, wear a red flower, and put a "happy" word on it, and you were considered married.
For families with a better financial situation, it would be grand enough to put out a few dishes and invite friends over."
"Yep!"
Ahu laughed and said: "If the employer can pay you thirty yuan, you can be considered a top-notch person! So I don't understand the young people nowadays. They have everything and their lives are so good. Why don't they get married and find a job?"
Object?"
"Influence it."
Chen Min frowned and explained: "My daughter loves to watch TV dramas on TV and mobile phones all day long. She always tells me that the divorce rate is so high now. If we will eventually get divorced, why should we get married?
The target can make money, and she can make money too.
When you get married, the woman must bear and take care of the children, and she must do the housework. What can you get from the exhausting work?
Eventually life gets boring and you have to get divorced.
You are divorced, your children are pitiful, and you have to work and take care of your children, so where can you find the energy to make money and live a happy life?
She is neither right nor left, anyway, she is afraid of marriage and childbirth, and she also said that unless she can marry a rich and handsome CEO like her cousin, she would rather stay single for the rest of her life."
"Little Tong?"
Ahu asked: "Duoduo's wife?
right?"
Chen Min nodded: "Among all my sisters, the younger one, Xiao Tong, has the best marriage.
She is beautiful, has good academic performance, stays in the imperial capital after graduation, and can find such an excellent and rich husband, which makes all her relatives envious.
Young girls think that others can marry well, why can't she?
So I picked on all kinds of things and disliked them, and my vision was ridiculously high.
That’s how my daughter was affected.”
"Where are there so many CEOs!"
Ahu laughed: "With so many companies and groups in the imperial capital, how many young CEOs are there who are not yet married?
Ten fingers are enough for counting, right?”
"yes!"
Chen Min gave up and said: "We have to choose each one well. With such high standards, how can we find so many outstanding CEOs to marry, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan said with a smile: "Little Tong may not be that happy.
She has to study and take care of her family and children at the same time, which is quite hard.
Besides, Duoduo is a workaholic who puts work first and works overtime every three days.
The husband and wife are busy on their own, and I'm afraid they can't even get together more on weekends.
It looks very beautiful and looks good, but how many people can understand the hard work and bitterness involved?"
"Look!"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Xiao Tong also has Xiao Tong's depression!"
Wang Qing's hands trembled and trembled, and she whispered: "Mindset...it's all a matter of mentality and three outlooks."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "It is indeed a matter of mentality."
"But I don't know how to persuade them."
Chen Min shook his head: "I can't persuade him, and I don't know how to persuade him.
Say more, they think I'm nagging.
I won't say it, it doesn't seem right.
As a parent, how can you be willing to let your children live alone without finding a partner, right?"
Ahu patted his shoulder and sighed: "Brother, don't think too much, there are really not many things we can take care of.
Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If they think it is good, then let them do it."
"There's nothing you can do if you don't follow."
Chen Min chuckled and said, "They can do whatever they want, I don't care.
I ended up getting divorced myself, so I am not qualified to teach children how to organize a family and take care of it."
"You can't say that."
Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "There are still many things that we can't do! Is it possible that we are not qualified to care about our children?
right?"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Parents are role models for their children, but if I can't do that well, the children... must be quite disappointed with their marriage and family.
They are afraid of marriage and childbearing, and this is also due to the failure of their parents’ marriage.”
"I can't blame you."
Ahu comforted: "You have always been a good father, and they all know it in their hearts.
Now that they are close to you and very filial to you, that is enough."
Chen Min's eyes turned slightly red and he whispered: "If my family was harmonious and beautiful, why would my children be like this?
Look at A Yuan's house, he and his sister-in-law have always been very loving, and their children are doing well.
Even if you find a partner later, you will eventually find one, and you won’t be afraid of getting married, let alone insist on not getting married and having children.
Family and parents are the main factors...I know."
"It's up to them to figure it out."
Cheng Tianyuan reassured: "There will be some impact, but not all.
The main reason is that the current media propaganda concepts are not very correct.
Any optimistic view of consumption is incorrect.
That life is short, love yourself more, buy all kinds of luxuries, spend too much, etc., are all wrong."
Ahu frowned and shook his head: "It's all wrong! It's harmful to people!"
Cheng Tianyuan continued to explain: "Some young people spend their money and even use their credit cards to buy luxury goods - these will harm the younger generation.
How much do you earn and spend, so that your parents and family don’t have to bear the burden?
Even if they don't have to bear the burden for the time being, they don't have to make plans for the future?
We older generations are all afraid of running out of savings.
When I have no money around me, I feel unsure of myself and feel all kinds of panic and uneasiness.
Young people must taste the pain and panic of not having any savings before they finally wake up.
Some misconceptions spread too quickly and have a very bad impact.
It sounds very reasonable. Young people are prone to make mistakes due to all kinds of coaxing and temptations, and in the end they pay a heavy price."
"Young people have soft ears and little social experience, so they are easily deceived!"
"That's right! Recently there has been a lot of propaganda about favoring boys over girls, which has made family relationships indifferent and caused all kinds of conflicts with parents.
My little Yun'er can't help but get angry every time she sees her! Girls are also born and raised by their parents, how can they occasionally engage in antagonism and confrontation just because their parents treat them differently?
Family relationships are getting worse and worse because of all kinds of messy TV dramas and media videos.
Fortunately, little Yun'er has grown up and knows how to distinguish what is right and what is wrong."
"Not necessarily. If one generation escapes by luck, won't there be another generation?
Don't let your children see those messy things, we should promote correct values and family values to avoid being taught bad things!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyes and unconsciously realized that the sunset had already set, and quickly got up.
"We can't rest anymore. Let's quickly go back and wash the river clams.
If we continue talking, there will be no dinner left!"