Wang Qinggen swallowed and wiped her tears: "There is no way, who made me a daughter! My mother said that raising a daughter is a loss. If she allows me to study, I have to know how to repay her."
Xue Ling frowned and smiled: "This concept is a bit extreme!"
If every family thinks this way, then where will men find wives to marry in the future?
If giving birth to children is about losing money, then no one would want to give birth! This is not a business, how can it be measured by money? This is too extreme!
Wang Qing probably found someone he knew to talk to, and once he started talking, he couldn't stop talking.
"My mother was originally dissatisfied with Liu Xing, saying that he was just an ordinary person with a low salary and an ordinary family. Fortunately, he had a stable job, otherwise my mother would have refused. I have known Liu Xing for many years.
I also really like him, and after a lot of hard work with my mother, she finally nodded."
"However, she wants a suite soon, and when she has a suite, she wants a big one. Now she is finally engaged, and she has also set a standard for the bride price. Now that Liu Xing can open a photo studio, she insists on me discussing the marriage with Liu Xing.
In the end, my salary will still have to support my family.”
"Liu Xing's photo studio has just opened. She immediately made such a request - I was really speechless. I didn't dare to speak to Liu Xing these two days. I tried my best to help during lunch break and after get off work. I just hope he can do more. If you make a little money, it won’t be too difficult in the future.”
Xue Ling sighed softly and said: "It's understandable for parents to raise children to protect themselves from old age. But your mother doesn't consider the actual situation of you and Liu Xing, which is really too much. What are your plans now?"
Wang Qing wiped her tears and said, "I...what other plans can I have...I will talk to Liu Xing after we get married. Now he is working hard for his career, and I don't want to hold him back anymore."
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Maybe you can discuss it with your mother and say that if you have a family of your own, you have to pay for it every day and live a life. If you rely on your husband to support you, sooner or later you will not be able to talk to your husband's family.
It’s even looked down upon. Let’s discuss whether we can give half to my mother’s family and half to my husband’s family.”
Wang Qing bit her lower lip lightly, not daring to say anything.
Xue Ling was embarrassed to pay too much attention to her. After all, this was a family matter. If one was willing to fight and the other was willing to suffer, then she, an outsider, shouldn't interfere too much, otherwise she would be meddling in her own business.
Xue Ling had no choice but to analyze his actual situation to her.
"I have been married into this family for more than a year, and I am more experienced than you! My father-in-law and mother-in-law know my parents well, and they know each other's families well. Both of them are very honest and simple rural people. They are very familiar with each other.
I'm fine and you love me very much."
"However, if I had no financial contribution in this family and relied entirely on my spouse to support me, then they would not be like now, discussing everything with me and trying to respect me in everything."
"My sister-in-law once said in front of many people that since I married into their family, the money I earned belongs to their family. My husband is very stubborn and never cares how much I earn, but he never
With this kind of thinking, I also know how to protect me in front of my family."
"But even so, I am still self-reliant, making money by myself, saving money by myself, and helping him support the whole family when necessary. In this way, my parents-in-law will see me, and they will naturally respect me more and love me more."
Wang Qing was a little puzzled and asked: "What if you don't pay for this family?"
Xue Ling replied: "That's different. If I was just a housewife who relied on my husband to support me, then I would have to obey his arrangements in everything. My parents-in-law think that I have to rely on my husband to live my life, so naturally they won't value me too much.
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She reached out and patted Wang Qing's arm and whispered: "But you can make money. This is something Liu Xing's parents know. If you don't have a job and are just an ordinary woman, Liu Xing, a top student, may not be able to tell you."
If you fall in love with you, you will make money, but everyone in their family already knows this. They also want you and Liu Xing to support the family and work together for the family."
She changed the topic and explained: "But after you get married, you can only rely on Liu Xing to support you, and your salary cannot contribute to the family. Then they will be disappointed at first, and slowly they will become dissatisfied. It will be a matter of time."
After hearing this, Wang Qing burst into tears again.
"Liu Xing's mother once held my hand and said that from now on, their family will only rely on us two young people. They are already old."
Xue Ling sighed softly and whispered: "So, you should understand this sense of propriety, otherwise your mother-in-law, father-in-law and lover will be dissatisfied with you in the future. You must know that you will marry in the future, you will marry
When you go to Liu Xing's house and live with him, you face him and his in-laws every day, so you have to consider your situation in your in-laws' house."
Wang Qing finally understood and swallowed: "Then... I'll discuss it with my mother, and I'll beg her."
Xue Ling nodded and said: "You should show your righteousness and analyze the matter to her. You said that if you act like this for a long time, you will have no place in your husband's family, and sooner or later you will not be able to last long. She will raise you as an adult.
, it’s not easy either. You won’t abandon her and will definitely help support the family. But you only have such a small salary, so you have to distribute it well.”
Wang Qing nodded hurriedly, "Fortunately, 'Wangjiangyuan' is not very far from our newspaper office. I can skip taking the bus in the future and have some money left. I will discuss with my mother, and I will give half of my salary and the rest."
Half of them have to allow me and Liu Xing to support the family together."
"Can you ride a bicycle?" Xue Ling asked.
In this era, most young people know how to ride bicycles.
Wang Qing nodded and whispered: "I have learned it!"
Xue Ling smiled and said: "That's great! I was worried about what gift to give you when you get married. In this case, I will give you a bicycle as a wedding gift. Then you can ride a bicycle to and from get off work every day. Come to When we lived in the same community, you would often come and check on me."
Wang Qing was flattered and shook his head quickly.
"No, no, no! The bicycle is too expensive, one hundred or two hundred yuan. No, it's too expensive."
Xue Ling tightened her hand and whispered: "I made a lot of money selling clothes, so buying this gift is not a problem. If you treat me as a good friend, don't refuse. You and Liu Xing are both me
My friends, when you get married, I have to buy a gift to celebrate!"
Wang Qing couldn't say anything else and smiled: "Then...then don't buy something too expensive, it won't cost you too much."
She held Xue Ling's hand and pressed it hard.
"Ling Ling, you have helped me and Liu Xing so much. I am not good at expressing myself, but Liu Xing and I are very, very grateful to you. We will always remember your kindness and kindness."
The sky darkened and Wang Qing left.
Cheng Tianyuan walked her downstairs, watched her walk out of the community, and then took the elevator upstairs.
After he entered the door, he asked: "Daughter-in-law, why are Wang Qing's eyes so red? Are you okay?"
"No!" Xue Ling explained: "It's her family's business. Chat with me for a while. Girls will inevitably shed tears when encountering embarrassing things. I have already talked to her and she has already figured it out.
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Cheng Tianyuan was relieved and said, "It'll be fine."
Mother Xue knocked on the door and shouted with a smile: "Dinner is ready, Ayuan, please help her come out to eat together."
"No need to help." Xue Ling got out of bed and walked slowly to the dining hall.
Liu Ying couldn't help but laugh and praise: "Recovering so fast! It's good to be young!"
Xue's mother joked: "Hurry up and give birth to one more child next year!"