In the blink of an eye, Xue Ling was almost ready to give birth.
Xue's mother and mother-in-law Liu Ying have been staying with her at home, cooking three meals and helping to take care of the children.
After all, Xue Ling was young. Apart from feeling a little uncomfortable for the first few days, he gradually got better and was almost as usual. There was nothing uncomfortable at all.
"Except for the two days when my breasts increased, I didn't feel uncomfortable at all." Xue Ling said.
Wang Qing and Editor Lin looked at each other, one blushed and smiled, while the other couldn't hide his envy: "It's good to be young. When I was pregnant with my third child, I was already in my thirties, and it took me more than half a month to give birth.
Got the bed."
Editor Lin had always wanted to see her, so he took Wang Qing to come with him during the weekend.
She is already in her forties, and the children at home are getting older, so she no longer has to take the trouble to keep them with her.
She has three children at home, and she is very experienced in taking care of them. She tells Xue Ling a lot of parenting tips and gives her advice.
Wang Qing listened with great interest and memorized it again and again.
Xue Ling laughed and said: "I don't take care of it myself. Now my mother-in-law and my mother are taking care of it. When I have free time in the morning and noon, I just give him a hug and don't pay much attention to it."
Editor Lin said: "The main reason is that you are in confinement now, and they don't want you to be tired and want you to rest more. When you are out of confinement, you have to take care of it yourself, right?"
"My mother-in-law said she would help me take care of it," Xue Ling explained: "I discussed it with my wife. She will help take care of it during the day and we will take care of it ourselves at night. The old lady is old and doesn't sleep well at night. Let her sleep more.
We can bring some ourselves."
Editor-in-chief Lin praised: "It's good that you know how to be considerate of the elderly! I had to go to work and take care of the children again, and I was so busy that I couldn't keep my feet on the ground. Fortunately, my mother-in-law was in good health at the time and came to help me take care of the children for a few years. Otherwise, I would
It will definitely be too busy."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "We are the first one, and we still have enough manpower."
"Don't be in a hurry to have a second child too soon." Editor Lin hooked his fingers at her, "Although you are young and in good health, you can't squander it too much. It's a very difficult and painful process for a woman to conceive and give birth to a child. She has to raise her well first.
Recover slowly, and then decide to have one more child. Firstly, it will increase the age of the child, so that it will not be too tiring to carry the child, and the child will be taken care of more thoughtfully. Secondly, your body can rest well and there will not be too much damage.
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Xue Ling nodded.
Wang Qing on the side couldn't help but be curious: "Being pregnant...isn't it hard? I see many friends say that they will suffer from morning sickness and so on."
"It's more than just this hard work." Editor Lin explained: "The main reason is that after you become pregnant, the hormones in your body will change everywhere in your chest, and they will be big changes. This process needs to be transformed, and then slowly repaired. In short,
It’s not easy for women to give birth!”
Wang Qingqiao blushed and couldn't ask any more questions.
Xue Ling, who had already gone through the process of giving birth, immediately nodded again and again, echoing: "It hurts like hell! You don't know until you give birth. Only after you give birth do you know how painful labor pain is!"
Editor Lin shook his head and smiled bitterly: "When I gave birth to my first child, I was in pain for three days and three nights in the hospital."
Wang Qing turned pale with fright and asked: "Three days and three nights?! Are you kidding me?"
"Of course, it's not the kind that hurts all the time." Editor Lin laughed and explained: "Labor pain is pain in waves. Otherwise, it hurts all the time - that person would have died of pain long ago! Haha! At that time, I took advantage of my free time.
I ate quickly and fell down to sleep when I was tired. My spouse had not yet become a father at the time, and he was so scared that he barely had any rest for three days and three nights. I almost collapsed after giving birth, but I was still in good spirits, but my spouse fell head over heels.
He fainted and was so frightened that the doctors and nurses rushed to him."
Xue Ling and Wang Qing both laughed.
Editor Lin ran to see Xiao Ranran and couldn't stop praising her when he came back.
"The little boy is so handsome. I don't know how many women he will hurt when he grows up! I just said he was called 'Huanran', right? Oh! This is a good name, it has charm and a good meaning."
Wang Qing chuckled: "It must have been Lingling, the mother-in-law, who took it, right?"
"No." Xue Ling explained: "It was named by my lover. He said that after having me and the child, his life and family have taken on a completely new look. So he named the child 'Huanran'. Now we all just call him "Huanran".
My nickname is Ran Ran."
"Ah..." Editor Lin laughed so much that he almost clapped: "It's so romantic! It sounds nice and romantic!"
Wang Qing's eyes were also shining: "Your lover looks a bit rigid and serious, but I didn't expect that he is so soft and considerate in his heart. How much he recognizes you!"
Xue Ling covered her mouth and smiled, "I don't know about that!"
"You don't know?" Editor Lin laughed sarcastically: "Just pretend!"
All three of them laughed.
Editor Lin said: "Other colleagues asked me to greet you. We can't all come here together, for fear that it will be troublesome for you to greet you. They have prepared gifts for your Xiao Ranran. When you are out of confinement, remember to go to the newspaper office to get them when you have time."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "Thank them for me. My wife has also prepared some gifts in return. When I am out of confinement, I will bring them to you."
Editor Lin was quickly surprised by the decoration of her house, "The wooden structure decoration is very attractive and has an ancient charm! Your place is really big! Can I go out and take a look?"
“Feel free to visit.”
"Okay! Then I'll go take a look. I've wanted to see the legendary 'Wangjiang Garden' elevator room for a long time!"
After Editor Lin walked out, Wang Qing quickly approached Xue Ling and lowered his voice to talk about things at home.
"Ling Ling, I listened to your suggestion about last time and talked to my mother for several days. She finally nodded and agreed. She agreed that I would give the family 100 yuan a month for household expenses, and the other half would be provided by
I allocate it myself.”
Xue Ling laughed after hearing this and held her hand.
"This way you don't have to worry, that's great! No matter what you say, you are still your mother's daughter, and she will still feel sorry for you."
Wang Qing sighed softly, "It hurts, but compared to my brother, I am nothing. She said this was a decision after marriage, and I still have to hand it over in the past few months."
Xue Ling whispered: "Your mother has compromised halfway at once, so you should be satisfied. It was not easy for her to raise you. As a child, you also have the right to support your parents!"
Wang Qing nodded and suddenly remembered something.
"By the way, Ling Ling, you are an only child, right? Then when your parents get old, you will be responsible for their support."
"Yes." Xue Ling was not worried at all and explained: "My parents are still young, but I have made a pension plan for them, which is very detailed and comprehensive. Of course, when they get older, I will
Bring them over to live with us. They are old acquaintances of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and we have a very good relationship, so we are not afraid that they will not get along with each other."
"Then...does your lover agree?" Wang Qing couldn't help but remind: "Some rural men marry a daughter-in-law and don't pay much attention to the daughter-in-law's family."
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and replied with a smile: "I should agree! I will discuss it carefully with him then, and I will never let him suffer too much."