Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyebrows and smiled softly.
"Many men have this problem, some are different, but generally they have this kind of trouble."
Xue Ling asked in surprise: "How do you know?"
Cheng Tianyuan laughed and hugged her into his arms, whispering: "When men are with men, they like to tell dirty jokes. Occasionally they will show off how powerful they are, and they will talk about all kinds of nonsense."
Regarding this point, Xue Ling was really shocked!
"Really? I-we girls don't have that."
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It's probably because of the difference between men and women. Among men, there are so many topics and jokes like this that it's ridiculous."
Xue Ling's pretty face turned red and she muttered: "Then you won't tell other people what happened between the two of us in bed?!"
When she thought of this, she immediately wanted to dig a hole in the ground!
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head quickly and whispered: "I don't like to tell these dirty jokes. I won't tell nonsense about my wife and me. Besides, after I married you, I didn't go to the dock much, so I didn't have the chance to listen.
, and I didn’t have the chance to say it. Even if I had the chance, I wouldn’t say it.”
When he worked as a day laborer at the dock, a lot of men would squat together at night, either smoking and chatting, or playing cards and smoking.
He doesn't smoke, and usually listens to their conversation, occasionally adding a word or two.
At that time, he was not married, had no wife, and had no experience. Others would brag and talk about everything, and he was usually only responsible for listening.
Xue Ling can still trust this.
He is a serious man both inside and outside.
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "Some men will have this problem when they are older, and some are not good at it from the beginning. Like Liu Xing, it is probably not good at the beginning, and it will not last long. He feels depressed and nervous.
It’s even shameless. The more you think about it, the worse it becomes. I’ve heard of this situation too many times.”
Xue Ling has been married to him for more than a year and knows that he has no worries about this at all. On the contrary, she occasionally blames him for being too physical and pestering her, making her so tired that she doesn't want to get up.
"He...could it be that he just got married, so he is inexperienced?"
Cheng Tianyuan reached out and flicked her pretty face.
"Definitely not. Men are instinctive in this area. They may be impulsive or too excited for the first time and cannot control it well. But after only one or two times, they will soon be able to master it without a teacher."
Xue Ling blushed with embarrassment and muttered: "Then Liu Xing must be an obstacle in this area."
Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "Some people get a little hard and soon become weak. This should be the case for Liu Xing. This is his privacy. You can remind his wife to ask him to see a doctor or find someone to ask. This is also a way.
"
"Is this a psychological or physical problem?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask.
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "It should be possible. However, it also has something to do with the wife in the bed. This matter has always been on both sides, and one cannot all be blamed on one of them. Of course, the man is still in charge, and the main responsibility lies with him."
"Oh..." Xue Ling blushed, embarrassed to dwell on this shy topic again.
Cheng Tianyuan was very calm and explained: "Where men gather together, they will talk about such topics, and some experienced seniors will teach people. The ratio of men to women in your newspaper office is almost the same. Everyone works and eats together, so Liu Xing doesn't have much chance to talk to him.
There are a lot of men together, so I don’t have the chance to consult with my seniors.”
"This... I don't know." Xue Ling muttered: "Maybe we can still talk in private. After all, this is one of the bad qualities of men!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and whispered: "This is part of nature, not a bad trait. Men are not as shy as women, so they dare to do things and speak out. There are also some aunties who talk outside without any hesitation, but you have no chance to come into contact with them.
"
"Really?!" Xue Ling was completely shocked and blurted out: "Chatting loudly outside?"
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "In the streets and alleys of the village, some aunts will also say such dirty jokes, and occasionally chat while eating melon seeds, without any hesitation. The people you come into contact with are all serious and educated people, so they make such a fuss.
.”
Xue Ling didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "It turns out... I am still ignorant! This was originally a very private and intimate matter between the two of us, how could I say it out loud! I - I really can't stand it!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled fondly: "It varies from person to person. Your temperament has something to do with your age and your experience. Maybe we are talking shyly here now, maybe in ten years, you will talk to me
It's like talking about whether it will be windy or rainy tomorrow."
"Maybe!" Xue Ling murmured: "I am still very able to accept new environments and new concepts."
Cheng Tianyuan leaned down and kissed her pretty face.
"Daughter-in-law, this is not a new concept! It is human instinct, food and sex. As early as the history of our ancestors, there are a lot of such topics and stories. You, please be more natural and open-minded."
Xue Ling smiled softly and agreed: "You seem to be right."
Cheng Tianyuan's eyes dimmed, and his big hand touched her waist and went straight up.
"I not only say the right things, but I also like to do the right things and do them well."
Xue Ling was ashamed and muttered: "My son hasn't slept yet!"
Cheng Tianyuan secretly grinded his teeth and complained dissatisfiedly: "Ever since this guy slept next to us, I have been holding back my anger."
When the two of them are intimate, they are afraid of disturbing the little one or making too many movements and waking the little one up, so they never dare to be too wanton.
He is a young man, and the woman he loves is sleeping next to him. It is easy for him to get carried away, and it is normal for him to want to do some shameful things with her.
But now there is an extra little guy...
He said in a deep voice: "When he gets older, let him sleep with my parents."
Dad spoke, ruthlessly and without mercy.
Xue Ling, as a mother, was really reluctant to let go: "He is still so young! Let's wait until he grows up."
Cheng Tianyuan looked at her angrily and couldn't help but ask: "How old is he? When he gets older, he will understand some things and speak simple words. What if he accidentally sees it one day and talks nonsense or chases after you to ask,
How should you answer?"
Xue Ling: "..." She didn't think that far-term at all!
"Then... that..." Xue Ling weighed the embarrassment and distress, and finally chose to feel distressed, "Then when the weather gets warmer, let him sleep with grandma at night."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and kissed her pretty face.
"That's it!"
Xiao Ranran on the side was playing with her little fingers, occasionally biting her thumb, licking it back and forth, dancing with joy, not knowing that her father had begun to dislike him.
Two days later, they packed up two big bags of new year's goods and Xiao Ranran's clothes, and prepared to leave for the imperial capital.
Ahu came early in the morning and had breakfast at their house.
Cheng Tianyuan picked up his luggage, Xue Ling hugged his son, said goodbye to the elderly at home, then hurriedly got in the car and headed to the provincial capital.
The little guy rarely rides in the car. He sees the scenery passing by quickly outside the car window and shouts happily, seemingly very excited.
Ahu laughed loudly: "Xiao Ranran is very happy riding in the car! This child is very active at first glance!"
Cheng Tianyuan disagreed and argued: "He is very well-behaved. He only sleeps and plays. He is not very naughty or active."
"That's because he's still young!" Ahu said with a smile: "You won't say that in two years!"