Cheng Tianyuan shook his head and smiled bitterly: "Aren't you tired of doing housework like this?"
"There's nothing we can do about it!" Xue Ling whispered: "The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem for the family. Whether it can be solved well affects the stability and happiness of the family."
For a daughter-in-law, she grew up in her mother's family and got along with her parents and sisters. Suddenly marrying into her husband's family means that she has entered a new and unfamiliar environment.
She must work hard to adapt to the personality traits and living habits of her husband's family.
Those who are adaptable can barely adapt quickly. Those who are not adaptable will inevitably become noisy.
"If you are your own parents, even if they scold you and hit you, it may be fine after a day or two. Because they have lived under the same roof for so many years, flesh and blood are connected, and blood is thicker than water, so even if they are noisy
, will disappear quickly. Just like you and your mother had a quarrel just now, if you call her twice later, she will probably forget it in the afternoon. Because you are her biological son."
Xue Ling sighed and shook his head: "But if I quarrel with her, even if she loves me and cares about me, once the quarrel breaks out, it will be difficult to repair. My mother-in-law's tolerance for her daughter-in-law cannot be compared to her own son.
Correspondingly, daughters-in-law can be coquettish and mischievous with their mothers, but most mothers-in-law cannot tolerate it. In fact, being a woman is really not easy."
Just like Sister Chen, she and her husband grew up as childhood sweethearts and had a deep relationship, and now they have a cute and beautiful little daughter. What a happy little family it should be.
But her mother-in-law and father-in-law came to her house every two days to cause trouble, which made her unbearable again and again, making her feel sad and uncomfortable, and she even acted out with her husband.
She is not saying that Chen Shuiyu is the right party, but she feels that getting along is not a matter of one party, but of both parties.
"The parents-in-law should not just ask for money, but should also consider the actual situation of the family. Don't always think that I gave birth to my son and raised him. It is only natural for me to come to my son's house to take his money. Although my daughter-in-law is someone else's daughter, she is also yours.
The daughter-in-law of the family. She has lived in her parents' family for more than twenty years at most, but she has to live the rest of her life in her husband's family. Don't always treat her as an outsider, otherwise how can you get along well with her."
Cheng Tianyuan was stunned when he heard this, and felt that Xue Ling's mood seemed a little heavy.
He is not a married daughter, so it is difficult for him to understand that feeling.
However, when he heard what she said, he felt distressed deep in his heart.
She traveled thousands of miles to get married here, and her family was very poor at first. She was able to endure hardships and stand hard work, support the family step by step, honor her parents, and take care of her sister-in-law... She has done her best!
But as her husband, he ignored the grievances and hardships she had endured deep in her heart.
"daughter in law……"
"I'm fine." Xue Ling quickly regained her smile and chuckled: "I just... I just felt it for a moment. I am very lucky. There is no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in my family."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded.
He remembered the scene where she had stood between him and his old mother just now.
As a mother, how could she be willing to let her son get cold and sick? She should have advised her mother earlier, but the old woman refused to listen and wanted to pamper her grandson.
She resisted and did not quarrel with her mother-in-law. Instead, she stood aside and watched the old man and the young child playing in the snow.
If she was like him and immediately scolded the old man with a sullen face, and even said unpleasant words, then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would probably have already started to quarrel.
I have to say that he admired her forbearance and moved her.
If you want to get along well with someone, there must be someone who is silently forbearing and retreating.
He took Xue Ling's hand and squeezed it hard.
Xue Ling smiled at him and shook his head, indicating that he didn't take it to heart.
At this time, Liu Ying in the kitchen shouted: "Ling, the ginger water has been boiled. I added some sugar and it is drying."
"Hey!" Xue Ling let go of Cheng Tianyuan and hurried to the kitchen, "Mom, it's really cold outside. Let's drink a bowl each before setting off. Xiao Ranran should drink more sugar, otherwise he won't dare to drink."
Liu Ying nodded and asked worriedly: "Is he still sneezing? No more runny nose, right?"
"I don't sneeze anymore." Xue Ling explained: "But there is still some runny nose. It's okay. I can coax him to drink ginger water and it will stop flowing soon."
Liu Ying whispered: "It's all my fault for being soft-hearted...I can't bear to let my eldest grandson cry...When he cries, my heart aches and hurts! It's so uncomfortable!"
Xue Ling smiled and said, "That's because you love him too much!"
Liu Ying laughed and said: "Who doesn't love his eldest grandson?"
Xue Ling shouted: "Brother Yuan! Come here and drink ginger water! Mom is already done!"
Cheng Tianyuan came over, Liu Ying gestured to the kitchen with her chin, and said: "The sugar has been poured, drink it quickly."
"Okay." Cheng Tianyuan nodded.
Xue Ling looked at the mother and son and smiled secretly.
That's it, between mother and son, as long as they call you to come for dinner, nothing will happen.
But if it is between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, it will take a long time, and even the estrangement will last for a long time.
Therefore, she asked Chen Shuiyu to seek support from Shan Yue and let Shan Yue take care of his parents. This was an excellent suggestion.
Xiao Ranran was afraid of the spicy ginger water at first, so she only drank a little bit.
Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan coaxed him to drink a few more sips and added a little more honey. The little guy finally drank it all.
After drinking ginger water, the family set out for the development zone.
The shops haven't been open these days. Today is a big day, so there's no business in the shop.
Chen Min's relatives and friends have already arrived. Fortunately, the store is wide and there are many chairs. Everyone can sit in twos and threes. Everyone eats, chats and laughs, and the atmosphere is very good.
Liu Ying took a look in the car and said with a smile: "It's great to have small restaurants now! You just have to pay for food and drink! You see, relatives and friends don't have to help with the work at all, they just have to sit and wait for food."
"Yes!" Xue Ling explained: "The hotel is just outside the development zone. You just need to walk there. It's really convenient."
Cheng Tianyuan stopped the car and took his son into his arms.
"The snow on the ground is a bit thick, it's better for you to walk."
Xue Ling quickly went around and helped her mother-in-law walk together.
Ahu Mom was inviting everyone to eat melon seeds and peanuts. When she saw them coming, she laughed happily.
"Sister-in-law! I'm waiting for you!"
Liu Ying strode forward and asked with a smile: "Where is the bride? Hurry! Let's go see the bride first!"
Ahu's mother was very happy when she saw Xiao Ranran.
"Quick! Hold Xiao Ranran in the arms of the bride first! Next year she will give birth to a boy as cute as Xiao Ranran!"
Everyone on the side laughed one after another.
Cheng Tianyuan hugged his son to Xue Ling and whispered: "They are all on the second floor. You take Xiao Ranran and mom up, and I will help greet the guests."
Several bridesmaids were chattering on the second floor, and the bride was also there. It was not convenient for him, a grown man, to get up there.
Xue Ling nodded and took her mother-in-law and Xiao Ranran to the second floor.
Cheng Tianyuan ran to the big kitchen and saw that his father was boiling water. There were several large hot water kettles waiting next to him, while Ahu was still sleeping soundly.
The coffee last night was so effective that he and Chen Min didn't feel sleepy until early in the morning.
Ahu was greedy and drank too much. He tossed and turned on the bed for a long time before falling asleep. He still can't wake up until now.