After a lot of "life and death", Wang Qing lost her youthful ignorance and now she is more mature and peaceful.
"When I was a child, my mother originally wanted my younger brother to go to school instead of me. My family was too poor to have two children go to school at the same time, but my mother almost did not hesitate to consider my younger brother. Until later
My brother refused to study, but my mother saw that I could answer all the questions by studying my brother's books by myself, and that I was obsessed with reading, so she finally agreed to give me this opportunity."
"Later, I got an employer, got a job in a newspaper, and published several small collections of poems. My mother was very pleased at that time and told me repeatedly every day that I must repay my kindness and repay this family. My
She took care of all the money, and the family's life gradually improved. The house began to be renovated, and the food at home became better."
"My mother loves me very much, but she loves my brother the most. Even though my brother is naughty and makes trouble, she said that he is the hope of our family's future, and the future of our family depends on my brother. So I must help
My brother married a wife because I have a stable job and I am not afraid of bad times in the future."
"My mother disliked Liu Xing for being poor. This is a fact. Later, she didn't spend any of the bride price given by Liu Xing. All of it was given to my brother to marry his sister-in-law. All the money I earned before was also used by my mother to renovate the house. Self
After I got married, my mother told me that my parents’ family would have nothing to do with me from now on, and I shouldn’t go back often for dinner or anything else, so as not to annoy my sister-in-law.”
"She said that if a married daughter always goes back to her parents' house for dinner or something, her sister-in-law will definitely be unhappy because you always take advantage of her parents' family. So, I married my sister-in-law at home, so how could I dare to go back?
Lingling, I don’t know why, and I don’t know if you feel this way. After this woman gets married, she will be like Zhu Bajie looking in the mirror, she is no longer human inside or out."
Xue Ling was slightly stunned and whispered: "I understand your idea... However, my husband's family treated me very well and made me feel like home very quickly."
Wang Qing's eyes turned red and she swallowed more: "After I married Liu Xing, my mother-in-law treated me as an outsider, but my mother-in-law and father-in-law were very strange. Every time they were around, they acted like elders. They
When I came, I had to make tea for them, prepare three meals by myself, and wash the dishes by myself. I think these are what I, a daughter-in-law, should do. No matter how busy or tired I am, no one will feel sorry for you.
Every little bit is your responsibility, so you should act appropriately."
Wang Qing didn't dare to cry and quickly smiled.
"I'm sorry... I shouldn't cry. I'm here to pay New Year's greetings, why am I making you unhappy instead?"
"No, no, no." Xue Ling chuckled: "I hope you can say it. Only by saying it will I feel better. We are good friends and understand each other's situation very well. There is no need to be secretive at all. We can just say whatever we want.
What can I say? It’s already the first day of the new year, and the New Year has already passed, so there’s no need to pay so much attention to it, and I don’t pay attention to it either.”
Wang Qing breathed a sigh of relief and smiled: "Only in front of you, I am the most relaxed. Ling Ling, only in front of you can I dare to say anything. Usually I... don't dare to speak.
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Wang Qing is a very shy and quiet girl. Even in front of her colleagues, she does not dare to say anything. Basically, she listens quietly to what everyone says, and occasionally adds a sentence or two about her own family.
She hardly talked about it, partly because she was shy, and partly because she valued privacy.
"Ever since I got married to him, I have felt very busy. When I was at home, my mother did all the housework, and occasionally I would help. But after I got married, I was responsible for preparing three meals a day.
I do all the housework alone... I feel really tired."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly and whispered: "I'm not good at cooking so many dishes, and I don't work quickly. No one helped me, and I was very tired. I got up early in the morning, and after preparing breakfast, Liu Xing got up to eat. After finishing his meal, he turned around
Just leave, I have to wash up after eating, and then rush to work."
"When I'm at work, I can relax more. I can write, read, review manuscripts, and listen to my colleagues chatting and joking. When I get off work in the afternoon, I start to get nervous again. I ride a bicycle to buy groceries in a hurry, and occasionally have to run several times.
Place. After returning home, most of the time I don’t even have time to wash my face. I cook and clean at the same time.”
"Liu Xing doesn't know anything. He even needs my help to set up chopsticks when eating. I serve the rice, set the dishes and chopsticks, and call him to come and eat, so he lazily comes over to eat. After eating, I wash the dishes and chopsticks and clean the kitchen.
, and then I had to continue cleaning. I boiled water for him to take a bath, and then took a bath myself. After washing, I went to wash and hang the clothes. It was past nine o'clock when I finished."
"I read a book for a while and go to bed at ten o'clock, otherwise I won't be able to get up tomorrow and will be late for work. Occasionally I go to the photo studio to help after get off work, and it's almost dark when I get home to cook. I do housework too slowly. It was not until this winter that I managed to move faster. But... it was too late. Liu Xing started not going home for dinner, and started having an affair with that woman. I had to throw away most of the food I cooked."
"I can't imagine those mothers who have to work and take care of their children at the same time. How do they do it? How busy they are! I do housework and three meals a day, and go to the market to buy groceries. This alone is enough to keep me busy.
Dizzy."
Xue Ling smiled and whispered: "Maybe you love cleanliness too much. If I'm too busy, I won't clean. I won't care. I'll go to bed first. Things must be prioritized. If you have to do something, then I
Just do it first. If you can save it for tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, let’s talk about it then. To be honest, I barely have any housework to do.”
"That's because you have a good lover." Wang Qing looked towards the kitchen and whispered: "Your lover can do almost any job, right?"
"Yes." Xue Ling explained: "He is very diligent. He and my mother-in-law basically do the grocery shopping at home. I don't have to go to the market. My mother-in-law cleans the house opposite, and he cleans here. He works quickly and neatly, and he is also very good.
Clean. He basically has no leisure time. He has to finish the work when he sees it. After eating, he washes the dishes, and after taking a shower, he washes and hangs the clothes. I told him that I can’t cook, and he said that he
Just come. We didn't make a clear distinction on purpose. A family belongs to two people and one family. Naturally, everyone has to bear the responsibility together. Why are you doing all the housework? "
"I..." Wang Qing lowered his eyes and whispered: "I have told him many times and asked him to help with some... He always shied away and said he didn't know how."
Xue Ling said angrily: "He was spoiled by his parents! He is the only child at home, and his parents do all the work. His parents always help him with anything, even if he talks to you about divorce.
He wants help from his own mother, that’s why he is so weak and incompetent!”
"He never thought so." Wang Qing chuckled sadly, "He said housework was originally a woman's job."
Xue Ling couldn't help but roll her eyes and asked: "Why do you make money to support your family, and he also makes money to support his family, and he also has to work if you want to work, but all the housework is yours? Why?"
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "That's why I said that women... are inherently unfair."
"This is a misconception of men. They subconsciously think that women have to do this, and they don't have to do it." Xue Ling snorted: "A kind of male chauvinism!"