After the meal, everyone was very happy except Sanbo's two sons.
The two of them finished eating with forced smiles, and saw that everyone was happy. They were a pair, but they were alone. Fortunately, they had a son and daughter with them, otherwise they would have been laughed at.
On the wonderful day of Lantern Festival reunion, my daughter-in-law was quarreling with them at home. She didn't cook the food, didn't wash the clothes, didn't tidy up the house, and started shouting about quarreling as soon as she came in.
How can I return to a home like that?
The two brothers looked at each other and then sighed.
Sanbo glanced at them and didn't want to go over at all.
Xue Zhilan was used to watching people's opinions and soon discovered that there was a small conflict between the father and son. He took the opportunity of toasting to get around it.
"Third brother, are everything okay? The Chinese New Year has just ended, so you shouldn't be too busy."
"I'm not busy." Sanbo explained: "The project at the hospital is still in progress, but this period of time is a free period, and I will not be busy until next month. Ah Huan is also free, and he is only busy with the surgery department recently. He is
I had a major surgery in two days and it was quite exciting.”
"I'm not here to ask you to ask him." Xue Zhilan didn't have any objections to his two sons for the time being. The wine glass secretly pointed in the direction of his two nephews and asked in a low voice: "What's going on? Both brothers have sad faces."
San Bo rolled his eyes and explained in a few words just like before.
"Ling Ling has persuaded me just now. Even if I don't think about it, I still have to think about it. There is no way, they are all people who can't control their wives. If they want to make a fuss, is it possible for me, a father, to help deal with it? I have a family.
I sweep the snow in front of my house, and my children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. I really can’t stretch my hands that far, and it’s not easy to stretch them that far.”
Xue Zhilan sighed softly and said: "No matter how old your son is, he is still your son. It is you who should teach and take the initiative. After all, in terms of how to behave in the world, if my son is more than twenty years younger than me, he will always be more than twenty years younger.
Experience. You only gave birth to them when you were in your forties, so you have rich experience. There are still many things to mention."
"Have I not taught enough? Didn't I speak enough?" Sanbo said angrily: "They can't learn it, and they can't learn it well. Do I have to talk like an old woman? I'm so old, can someone enlighten me?
They are good enough!”
Xue Zhilan chuckled and said warmly: "Don't be angry. Sometimes bystanders can tell. I'll give you some advice. Maybe it will be more effective."
"You go." The third uncle clinked glasses for him, then put down the glasses and said, "I just drank two glasses, I can't drink more, this is considered a toast."
Xue Zhilan smiled, moved towards his two nephews, and sat between them.
"Uncle Zhilan, hello!"
"Hello, uncle!"
Xue Zhilan asked with a smile: "Where are the children? They were here just now! Why did they all go out as soon as they turned around?"
The eldest nephew smiled honestly: "I said I was going to the mall to buy something, so we went in together."
Xue Zhilan nodded: "The relationship between cousins is good, and they stay together, which is very good."
The second nephew chuckled: "They are about the same age and have always gotten along well."
Xue Zhilan took the opportunity to ask: "What about you? I remember that you two brothers have been close since childhood. You eat together, sleep together, and go to school together."
The two nephews looked at each other and smiled softly.
"Uncle, we have always been pretty good."
Xue Zhilan smiled thoughtfully and whispered: "Brothers have a good relationship, that's because you are born from the same blood, with the same blood flowing in your body, and you are brothers. Only with a good relationship, a good family relationship, and a harmonious family can everything be prosperous.
,Right?"
"Yeah." The nephews nodded in agreement.
Xue Zhilan took advantage of the situation and said: "So, you not only need to be good friends, but also learn to handle the relationship with your wives. You introduced them to this family, so if they get along well, so will you. If they don't get along well, you will also get along well.
It will also be affected. No, your dad is in a bad mood tonight because your daughter-in-law had a little quarrel."
The two sons shook their heads and sighed, both looking helpless.
"Uncle, you are right...but we are really powerless. We have tried many ways, but they always have to argue and make trouble. Tell me, we are two brothers and we are not the same person, how can we
Compare them every day? But that’s what they like. They don’t like to compare with others, they just compare with each other. If my brother is better than me, my wife won’t be happy. I am better than my brother in a certain way.
A little better, but my sister-in-law is not happy. How can their relationship be good like this? My brother and I are two different people. Although our parents have the same parents, we have different personalities and different jobs.
Of course everything can't be exactly the same? But they just can't figure it out."
"Uncle, things are just like what my brother said. My brother and I have already married and started a business. We each have our own stable jobs and families. How could everything be exactly the same? It is even more difficult for my father. The palms and backs of his hands are all flesh. Is it possible?
Which one will he be partial to? What should he do to be partial? He can't let his old man stand in the middle with a scale all day [ www.biqugetv.xyz], measuring this, measuring that, keep measuring, right? My dad is not happy,
We all have responsibilities too.”
Xue Zhilan smiled softly and said: "We in the Xue family are all people who are reasonable and love to live in harmony, and we are also honest people."
"It's useless to be honest." The eldest nephew smiled bitterly and shook his head: "I am too honest, so my wife will ride on my head all day long. She won't listen to anything I say. It's fine if she doesn't listen, and she will make trouble with me from time to time.
I could handle the trouble at home alone, but when I turned around, she went to my dad’s small courtyard, and I simply couldn’t bear it.”
The little nephew sighed: "Both of them are dishonest, it can be said that they are too much. They said a lot of disgraceful things in front of dad, and they kept scolding my dad for being biased. My dad is the only two of us sons, so he can be biased.
Who? Everyone is his biological son, how can he be biased? Uncle, you also have two sons, is it possible that you will favor the eldest or the second?"
Xue Zhilan laughed and said: "You understand this truth, but your wives don't! Your most important task now is to persuade your wives. Even if the sisters-in-law are not good friends, don't make trouble in front of the elderly.
Get up. How innocent the old man is! He gave birth to you and raised you. You are now his parents, and your children are now teenagers. You should know that being a parent is not easy, so don’t let the old man worry."
"Yes." Both of them nodded in agreement.
Xue Zhilan patted their shoulders and whispered: "If your wives always think that each other is good, you can go back and ask them to change their units and residences, and ask them if they want it or not. Tell them again, if
If you dare to go to your father's place to make trouble, he will ignore you from now on. If anything happens to your two small families in the future, don't go to his father's place."
The two looked at each other, both looking a little unhappy.
"Uncle, did my dad say this? That's what he said just now? He must be very angry, right?"
"Can you not be angry?" Xue Zhilan shook his head and said: "But you are angry!"