Xue Ling chuckled and said: "All living beings suffer, you suffer and I suffer. Everyone is running for life, but the suffering is different. Everything else is almost the same."
"Far away..." Xiao Jiaxue drank the sour plum juice and muttered: "My parents told me that I must get married within this year. A poor young man, a native of the Imperial Capital, lives in the old city, in your
That mall sells shoes."
"Then what?" Xue Ling asked: "Are you sure? Parents' orders? Do you agree?"
Xiao Jiaxue's eyes were red and she whispered: "My dad told me, he said that I have no right to despise others! They don't think I'm fat, I don't think they're poor, that's enough. They don't want any betrothal gifts, they just want me
Shunshun should marry a down-to-earth man. My mother also scolded me, saying that I was in my late thirties, so I still wanted to stay at home and be an old girl? She said that she and my father would not dislike me, but now we already have a sister-in-law at home.
It's one thing for them to be housekeepers, just turn a blind eye. If it were my sister-in-law...then I would definitely be looked down upon."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and asked: "What do you mean? How is the other person like? If he is really a down-to-earth and reliable person, you might as well get to know him better."
"Honestly, I can't even say a word." Xiao Jiaxue swallowed: "How do I understand? I don't even have a chance. My mother said that I can't lose weight day by day, and I will be forty if I delay any longer. That must be
I can’t get married. While there are still people who want me, I should nod immediately. I am fat, but I also have dignity! As a result, I am disliked wherever I go, even your jeans!"
Xue Ling secretly felt so innocent and whispered: "You have wronged me! Others place orders for jeans, and I produce them according to the orders. I can't control the size."
Xiao Jiaxue couldn't drink any more and put down the bowl.
"I just can't control myself. I always want to eat. I can't stop eating every three meals. There's nothing I can do about it! I'm disgusted by others because I'm fat. I don't expect anything from others, but I didn't expect that now even my family dislikes me.
.My parents are eager for me to get married immediately. The man is a bit ugly, but he is quite tall, and there is nothing else to like about him. My family is poor, they only have an old house, and now they rent a small shop in a shopping mall and hire someone.
One person sold him shoes and did some small business. He said his income was fairly stable, but there was nothing else."
Xue Ling sighed softly: "If you really don't like it, then don't do it. You have money and a stable job now. If you are afraid of being rejected by your sister-in-law, then go out and buy a house to live in. Marriage is not a transaction. If you weigh this
, measure that, in the end, because of these things, you will lose or disappear, and you will lose the reliance of your marriage."
Xiao Jiaxue sniffed and swallowed: "But my parents said... I have no choice."
"The world is so big and there are so many people on the earth!" Xue Ling shook his head: "What do you mean by having no choice? I don't agree. You are a new-age woman with a stable job and thoughtful ideas. You should have your own ideas. If that person
It's really not what you like, but you choose him because you have no choice for a while. Then such a marriage will soon be unable to last. When the time comes, it will be neither divorce nor separation. That is the real pain. You should calm down.
, keep looking.”
Xiao Jiaxue said: "But I am so fat..."
"People in some countries regard fatness as beauty!" Xue Ling retorted: "Didn't you tell me last time? Some tribe in such and such a country regards fatness as beauty. The thinner the girl, the less desirable she is. You
Such a figure is not considered fat in the eyes of foreigners. Why don't you look further ahead? You are not the kind of person who can just give in. If you are confused and give in now, you will definitely regret it in the future."
"I'm not married yet... I'm already regretting it in my heart." Xiao Jiaxue snorted: "A man who can't even communicate, a man who makes me want to vomit just by looking at him! Let me spend the rest of my life with him... This is not what I want.
My life?”
Xue Ling shrugged: "Look, I'm right. You're not the kind of person who can compromise and live a life of make-or-break."
Xiao Jiaxue continued to drink sour plum juice and whispered: "Then I will listen to you and push it away when I get back. I have saved a lot of money over the years, and I will use this money to buy a house to live in..."
"But we can't stop looking for a partner." Xue Ling said: "Don't always hide in the publishing house or at home. Go out for a walk when you have time. You can't keep fat forever! Go for a walk in the morning and evening to exercise. It doesn't matter if you are fat.
But you must be healthy! I see that your face looks much worse than before."
"Isn't it bad?" Xiao Jiaxue sighed: "I am forced to rush to get married every day. I can't eat or sleep well."
Xue Ling patted her shoulder and asked funnyly: "You can't eat [Biqudao www.biqudao.vip], but why are you still so fat?"
"Fuck you!" Xiao Jiaxue scolded with a smile: "I'm still in a bad mood, please stop messing with me!"
Xue Ling laughed and asked her to continue drinking plum juice, "It's hot outside, so you have to pay attention to avoid the heat."
"The sun is very poisonous." Xiao Jiaxue wiped her sweat and asked, "Summer vacation is coming soon, right? Is your child on vacation?"
"Not yet." Xue Ling explained: "In two weeks, my parents will pick him up to live in Chuncheng."
"Spring City?!" Xiao Jiaxue suddenly became energetic and said, "I heard that it's like spring all year round there, and the weather is very comfortable. The mountains are good, the water is good, the air is good, and the most important thing is the scenery is good."
"Yes." Xue Ling said with a smile: "My parents, father-in-law, and young son have lived there for half a year, and they still can't bear to come back. They moved to several places, and recently they chose a mountainside to live. I
Dad said he would pick up his eldest son and come back together after the summer vacation."
"It's nice to have rich people." Xiao Jiaxue muttered: "You can travel wherever you want and stay as long as you want."
Xue Ling snorted coldly on the tip of her nose: "My father and my mother worked hard until they were over sixty before retiring. How old are you? You want to do whatever you want?"
"Hee hee!" Xiao Jiaxue smiled, knocked on the edge of the bowl, and whispered: "I'll feel a lot better after talking to you. I'll have a detailed chat with my parents when I get back, and then find a suitable place to buy it.
"
"Does your unit have separate rooms?" Xue Ling asked.
Xiao Jiaxue shook his head: "Old colleagues have it. Our generation is gone, but there will be a certain subsidy for buying a house. I have made money for more than ten years and saved some money, which is enough to buy it. The house next to the publishing house is not expensive, and I plan to
Go buy the building next to the Foreign Languages School. Many teachers buy houses there, and they are surrounded by educated people, so they get along relatively well. High intellectuals generally do not need to carefully decide whether to make friends with someone because of whether they are obese or not."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "You are more familiar with Imperial City than me, so you naturally know where to buy the best things. Anyway, it is close to the work and easy to get in and out, so it is a good place."
The two chatted until evening, before Xiao Jiaxue reluctantly left.
She gave Xiao Jiaxue a dozen meters of denim fabric, and he happily thanked her.
Xue Ling was just about to go home, so he drove her back to the city and dropped her near her home before turning the car back to the city center.