Cheng Tianfang glared at him coldly and hummed: "You said it so nicely, what did you curse just now?! Why didn't you dare to say it in front of my brother and sister-in-law?"
Xue Heng hesitated and whispered: "I said it when I was excited...how can I count it? I have already forgotten what I said."
Cheng Tianyuan was not one to grasp the pain of others, and said quietly: "Afang, stop making trouble. How can the words you say during the quarrel count? You have to be merciful and merciful. You are not a perfect person, are you?
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Cheng Tianfang was always afraid of his eldest brother, so he didn't dare to say anything and remained silent.
Xue Heng laughed and apologized: "I'm really sorry for having you come here in the middle of the night."
"My family, what are you talking about?" Xue Ling said: "Go and pour a few glasses of water. We are both thirsty. Drink some water and go to bed early."
Xue Heng said: "You guys wait, I'll go to the kitchen to pour it."
Xue Ling sat next to Cheng Tianfang and whispered: "Afang, look at your kitchen. It's been so long since you moved in, you probably haven't cooked a meal yet, right?"
Cheng Tianfang was slightly stunned, then shook his head.
She has moved here since she married Xue Heng. When she was in the imperial capital, she would eat and drink at her parents' place in the morning and evening, and eat in the canteen of the work unit at noon.
Naturally, there is no need to cook when you go out for training.
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and asked in a low voice: "How much do you think you can get as a wife? Ah Heng doesn't know how to cook, but you know how to cook, but you don't do it either. He is busy in and out, and when he is busy, he is several times busier than you.
.You go out for training for a month, and he lives in the factory and works. Think about it for yourself. You are married and have your own family, so you must have some sense of family responsibility. Your work is important, but your family is also important.
It's equally important. Look at your house, the floor is covered with dust. Did he blame you? No. When he came back, he also helped clean it. But he was too busy, so he didn't take care of it.
Home. Have you ever calculated how much you have contributed to this home?"
Cheng Tianfang fell silent, not daring to speak.
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "He is a man. He makes money to support his family. He buys houses and cars, including your car. He buys whatever you need. Whatever the family needs, he tries to pay for it himself."
You said that your company is important, as are your career and making money. Then have you ever asked yourself, where does all the money you earn go? It all goes into your own pocket, and you have never paid for this family at all, right?
Bar?"
Cheng Tianfang buried his head and nodded.
Cheng Tianyuan sneered: "Then why do you have to let him fully cooperate with your work and career? If you pay less, you will get less. Have you ever asked yourself, why do you make money? What is the purpose of your promotion and salary increase?
What?"
"I..." Cheng Tianfang couldn't answer for a while.
Cheng Tianyuan said solemnly: "If you still can't figure out what you need and what is most important, then you will always do the wrong things and do errands."
Xue Ling hurriedly grabbed her husband and whispered: "Okay, okay, don't say too much."
Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly and said: "Career is important, but career is a job. You make money for your life and your family. If you abandon your family, then what are you making money for? You should work hard for your career, but your family
For you, it is a lifetime of happiness, and you should put it first. Now that you have no children, the elderly are not old, and you can still make money, it is the most relaxed moment for the family. If you are still so dissatisfied with reality, then in the future
What should I do? Ah? Don’t you need to take care of the children when they are young and the elderly? You are not young anymore, why are your brains still so unreliable? "
Xue Ling took Cheng Tianfang's hand and whispered: "Although your brother's words are a bit rough, there is still some truth. You have performed very well on the TV station for more than a year, that's why you were promoted to team leader so quickly. This
It's your boss who affirms you. Next, you can slowly strive for promotions again and again. There is no need to compete so urgently. This can be planned slowly. But children... cannot be planned. You are still young,
I know this. But being pregnant is not something you just want. I was very busy before I was pregnant with Xiaoxin and Xiaochong. I stayed in the mall all day long and was under great physical and mental stress. I was never pregnant during those days.
Although we have never used contraception. Some things cannot be planned step by step, so try not to try."
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Taking contraceptive pills is harmful to the body. If it is injured, it will be more difficult to have children in the future. What should we do? Medical progress can give you medical treatment, but who knows what the future will be like.
.Now your mother-in-law and father-in-law are still strong and can help you take care of your children. If you wait until you are promoted to a satisfactory stage and you wait to have more children, the children will still be young and the elderly will be old. You will be needed.
Take care of it. When the time comes, there will be an old man and a young man, and you will still have a job. I ask you how to balance it? Have you thought about it? "
Cheng Tianfang's eyes were red and he shook his head.
Xue Ling whispered: "Don't cry, it's not a big deal. Don't put pressure on yourself, work hard, eat when you should, sleep when you should. Children should just let things happen, don't rush, don't avoid, don't feel pressure."
Cheng Tianyuan went around to the kitchen and saw him standing next to the electric kettle, waiting to boil water.
Xue Heng apologized and explained: "There is no water in the thermos pot and it is boiling."
Cheng Tianyuan stood at the door of the kitchen and said, "Look at how your life is like for you two. Just imagine what your life would be like without the help of the old man and without us living so close to each other."
Xue Heng apologized and smiled.
Cheng Tianfang couldn't answer.
Xue Ling shrugged and said with a smile: "Fortunately we are close now."
"But it can't always be like this." Cheng Tianyuan said: "My father and my mother will eventually grow old, and so will my uncle and aunt Zhilan. You should take care of your own small family first, and then you can take care of the big family. Don't be careful now.
Be prepared. If you encounter a situation in the future, you will definitely be in a hurry and unable to cope with it."
Xue Heng nodded in agreement.
Cheng Tianfang stood up and walked to the kitchen to help wash the cups.
Xue Heng rushed to help.
The state of the two of them drawing swords and crossbows has long since disappeared. Although they are not as sweet as before, they are obviously better.
"Okay, okay." Cheng Tianyuan led Xue Ling away and said, "I don't know how long it will take to drink some water from you. The water at my house is just right. Let's go back and drink it and go to bed. Let's go to bed early."
Xue Heng watched them go out before closing the door.
Cheng Tianfang wiped her hands and whispered: "...the water hasn't boiled yet."
"Wait a minute." Xue Heng said warmly: "You go back to the house first, and when the water is cooler, I will bring it in to you."
Cheng Tianfang's eyes were red, and she walked out and hugged his waist.
"...I'm sorry. I was busy with work, and the house was a mess...I didn't even have a sip of drinkable water. I just focused on quarreling with you to vent my anger and stress."
Xue Heng smiled softly and stroked her hair.
"There is something wrong with me. I was too excited at the moment. I also have half of the responsibilities at home, and I also failed to fulfill my responsibilities."
Cheng Tianfang whispered: "Then we will correct it in the future."
"Yeah." Xue Heng kissed her forehead and whispered: "Don't put too much pressure on yourself, work can't be achieved overnight. Look at my parents, they both worked for decades to achieve such a high professional title and status.
When I was a few years old, they were just ordinary doctors. They had to go step by step and not rush."
Cheng Tianfang buried her head on his shoulder and nodded heavily.