Cheng Tianyuan retorted: "What kind of husband do you think he is? That's what kind of husband he is. You completely ignored him, ignored him, and even drove him away. Now that he's gone, isn't that what you want?"
Cheng Tianfang was speechless again, and after a long while he muttered: "I was so angry at that time. That bastard didn't listen to anything from me, and he didn't tell me why. He almost made me angry to death!"
"Are you less angry with him?" Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "You two have little quarrels? He is angry with you, and you are angry with him. What do you two get? Let me ask you, what exactly do you get?"
"That -" Cheng Tianfang whispered in embarrassment: "What else can there be..."
Cheng Tianyuan sneered: "Since it's nothing, then why are you angry with him? Ah? Cheng Tianfang, when will you have a ruler in your heart to think about things and measure things properly?"
Cheng Tianfang rolled his eyes and whispered: "Brother, I am also under too much pressure. You said we have had children for so many years, especially in the second half of the year, I drink tonics almost every day. Life can't go on like this! Wan
What should I do if I can’t get pregnant? You have to find appropriate measures to help quickly, right? What I’m angry about is that his family members are all studying medicine and becoming doctors, but he hides the disease and refuses to treat it, which makes me mad to death!”
Cheng Tianyuan understood the whole story and said: "Your father-in-law and mother-in-law are also opposed to it. They are both expert-level doctors. They can't agree, so why are you anxious? You are under great pressure, so maybe A Heng is not under great pressure.
Are you justified if you take all your anger out on him? Uncle and Aunt Zhilan both said that this technology has indeed been around for a long time, but you are still young, so there is no need to worry too much, just relax and wait.
. Wait a year or two, and if it really doesn’t work, then ask for help with this technology. They also said that the longer it takes, the more advanced the technology will be, and it will be better in time.”
"I - I'm already tired of waiting, and you still make me wait?!" Cheng Tianfang said irritably: "Brother, I'm not young anymore! Do you know?! They are anxious to let me give birth, but they still make me wait?! You
Don’t you think this is very contradictory?”
Cheng Tianyuan got angry and put down his chopsticks.
"You are still a person who has read a book. Why don't you listen to people's reasoning? Do you still have brains? If so, think about it carefully. Everyone hopes that you will get pregnant as soon as possible, but you don't.
People are forcing you. Uncle and Aunt Lan are both very gentle and considerate people. I have never heard them say that they want to force you. A Heng analyzed it for you, but you didn’t listen. I analyzed it for you, and you didn’t.
Don’t listen. Since you can’t listen, get out of here now! Stop bothering me!”
"Brother!" Cheng Tianfang's eyes turned red and he hummed: "Aren't you my brother?! We are biological siblings, right? Why don't you help me?"
Cheng Tianyuan said with a sullen face: "How can I help you? I listen to you in everything and let you do whatever you want. How can I help you?! Don't you have the brains to think about it?! You are my biological sister, I
But I still scold you and say you - is this all other people's fault? It's my fault as a big brother?! If I weren't doing it for your own good, I wouldn't be too lazy to speak. I'm not a nosy person. If you were someone else, I would
I don’t even care about you!”
Cheng Tianfang cried and whispered: "Brother, I... I may be too stressed. I'm sorry, I feel dizzy every day. I don't know what I should do, what I should do, and how to do it."
Yes."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his eyes and said solemnly: "You are not a child anymore. When you were a child, my father's hands were not easy to work in the fields. My mother was busy outside every day. I had to study and take care of you, and I had to help.
Do housework here and at home. Although our family is poor, we have never let you go hungry for a day. You have what the children in the village have. Your parents would rather suffer themselves than let you suffer even a little bit. But what about you?
?What do you look like? Fortunately, you stepped back from the brink, corrected your mistakes, and started over. But you have only been at ease for a few years, and your true nature has been revealed again."
"I...I didn't." Cheng Tianfang argued.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed: "Yes or no, you have to think carefully in your mind. I don't want to quarrel with you. You need to read and study from time to time, and suppress the irritability and selfishness in your heart."
Cheng Tianfang looked around and asked, "Brother, is he really not here?"
"Going abroad." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "He said that you got annoyed and angry when he saw you. He felt unhappy when he saw you, so he planned to take this opportunity to go out for a walk and relax. I also advised him to change the environment.
, for a change of mood, I hope I can recover as soon as possible.”
Cheng Tianfang was a little stunned and asked: "He went abroad again? Did he go far away? When will he come back?"
"The return date has not yet been determined." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "I'll definitely let him relax and come back after he's done with his work. Don't you want to see him? Now, let's spend this Chinese New Year alone, so as not to get annoyed and angry when we see each other."
Cheng Tianfang looked unhappy and whispered: "It's not... as serious as you said. I just lost my temper with him."
"But he is already very serious." Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "The relationship between people is the most unable to withstand trial and injury. When people live together, they should accommodate each other and understand each other.
.If you can't do it, other people will not be able to bear it unless you are parents to their children. Parents love their children because their children are their life inheritance and a part of their lives, so they have to love them and are willing to do it for their children.
Blindly tolerating and blindly accommodating. But husbands and wives are different. They are two people with equal status. No matter whether either party keeps accommodating, they will eventually lose their balance. No matter how deep the love is, it cannot withstand repeated imbalances. Men and women
Love, as time goes by and wears away, soon loses its intensity and becomes just ordinary. If you don't maintain this relationship properly, you will lose him sooner or later."
Cheng Tianfang sobbed softly and whispered: "Brother, I was wrong."
"You are wrong more than this time." Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "It's just that you know your mistakes and don't change them. What's the use of knowing your mistakes? What's the use of your actions and your mouth never matching up? Sister, you should reflect on yourself. Don't
Just rely on the fact that the other person loves you and is your husband, so you can do whatever you want. The relationship between husband and wife can suddenly be as deep as the ocean. Once it breaks down, you may become an 'ex-husband' or 'ex-wife' whom you will never see again in your life."
Cheng Tianfang's lips moved, but she couldn't speak.
She didn't know what to say, and it seemed that everything she said was wrong. Brother was right, because what she said and what she did no longer matched at all.
Cheng Tianyuan turned around to clear the table and said softly: "Don't look at it. My sister-in-law and I have always had a good relationship, so we don't have to worry about anything. Everything depends on management and dedication, and marriage is the same. Your sister-in-law is busy making money, and I have to be busy too.
Making money. There has always been a gap between me and her, but I have to try not to be too far away from her and not let the gap separate us. She is busy outside, and I am busy at home. I never argue with her about housework, and she never
I didn’t care about money. If I care about everything or engage in male chauvinism, do you think your sister-in-law would be able to handle it? She accommodated me to being poorer than she, and I accommodated her by not doing much housework. We were understanding and accommodating each other.
Always live a good life. Girl, marriage is for two people, not just you. Take good care of yourself."