Xie Yuheng was not unhappy, but poured a glass of water for Li Yun and asked, "How do you say it?"
"I don't even know whether I should say this."
Li Yun smiled bitterly: "After all, we have only known each other for a short time, and we have not yet reached the point of confiding in each other.
But you and I have hit it off and have perfect cooperation, so I can’t just watch you fall into the trap.”
"It's okay, just tell me.
How old am I?
Can’t you bear this?”
There was something different in Xie Yuheng's eyes: "Besides, you also said that although we knew each other at the same time, we felt like old friends at first sight.
There are people whose eyes last a thousand years!"
"A glance of ten thousand years is not for this purpose."
Li Yun said with a smile: "Actually, it was reasonable for your parents to stop you and Zhang Yurou ten years ago.
Now, you should have come to your senses.
:"
Li Yun picked up the water cup and rinsed his mouth, and continued: "It's always the truth if we are well matched.
It was only later that I understood this truth.
Otherwise, how can I understand your mood?
Because I am just like you. I once made the same mistake because I was young and energetic and thought love was too great.
It's just that you couldn't beat the family members, but I did, but I suffered a big loss."
"I don't know if you know that my ex-husband is Li Yingnan's biological father.
The mental journey I went through when we were together was exactly the same as when you met Zhang Yurou.
At that time, my wealthy daughter came from a poor family, a real poor family, even poorer than Zhang Yurou.
But I just fell in love with the poor boy, and then I was so coaxed by his sweet words that I insisted on marrying him regardless of family opposition."
"After we got married and spent a lot of money on food, rice, oil and salt, I realized how big the gap between two people was.
Because we were born in different backgrounds, grew up in different environments, and experienced different worlds, we have great differences.
To give the simplest example, eating leftovers.
You should know that families like ours don’t eat leftovers, right?
Because I have never eaten leftovers since I was a child.
But he is different. Even if he keeps the vegetable soup, he will have to mix it into rice and eat it tomorrow."
"Besides small things like leftovers, what else?
Parents are short-lived.
He can quarrel with people for three days over trivial things that I don't think need to be fussed over.
What he thinks is a big thing, I think is just a small thing.
The differences in outlook are gradually revealed."
"Because of different concepts, there will naturally be quarrels. If there are more quarrels, the relationship will gradually fade away.
So, when I was pregnant, he cheated on me.
Not only did he cheat on me, he also favored boys over girls and disliked me for giving birth to a daughter.
But in a family like ours, it would be unbelievable. What happened to our daughter?
Daughters are also treasures, and they can also inherit the family business!"
"Because of my blindness and naivety, I almost lost my daughter.
That bastard actually wanted to sell my child. I finally couldn't bear it anymore and divorced him with the help of my family."
"So, if you and Zhang Yurou really got together ten years ago, do you think there would be any differences between you?
Are there any differences in views?
As the old saying goes, if a person is in a good place, he will be in a good place.
Only when these schools are equivalent can we have a common language.
At least it won't happen. When you talk to her about the economy, she will talk to you about celebrity gossip.
I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with gossiping about celebrities, but it’s just that we can’t talk about it together.”
“There are also successful examples, such as Momo and Yanchuan.
Momo's background was not good either. She was found by my aunt later.
For the first twenty years, I was just a little cabbage, and my life was very hard.
However, one thing is that Momo is a top student and a god of learning.
Her knowledge is very broad, and the people she comes into contact with are all top academics.
Naturally, there are many children from wealthy families among the top academics. The more exposure they have, the wider their horizons will naturally be.
Therefore, Momo, my scumbag ex-husband and Zhang Yurou are two completely different worlds."
"And Momo is a very independent, capable, and self-controlled person.
Why do you think Yanchuan likes her so much that he can't help himself?
Is it because Momo is beautiful?
There are so many beautiful women, and only if one person's soul can catch up with the footsteps of another person, can they resonate with each other."
"If Zhang Yurou could be as good as Momo, I wouldn't say these things to you.
But Zhang Yurou is not.
Her agility has been tempered by life to the point where it is almost gone.
And what you liked at first was her agility.
But, people will change and people will grow old.
Things you once liked will gradually disappear, so you will have an awkward feeling towards her."
"Ordinarily, Zhang Yurou is also a person who has gone to school. When she was beaten by her ex-husband, she only knew how to hide instead of fighting back.
She knew that her hands were very important, but she did not protect her hands properly and allowed them to get damaged.
She knew clearly that she needed skills and techniques to make a living, but she refused to learn a skill to make a living and instead did some work that did not require technical content.
Would you say she is a smart person?"
"I sympathize with her experience, but I don't agree with her philosophy on life.
If after leaving her ex-husband, she worked hard, relied on her own hands, and learned some skills to make a living, she would live like a green pine, unruly and determined.
I think the first time you see her, you will rekindle your love.
Because what you loved in the beginning was your unruly and determined spirit!"
Li Yun's words, like an enlightenment, suddenly opened up Xie Yuheng's thoughts.
He finally understood why he couldn't fall in love with Zhang Yurou no matter what.
So that’s it!
Yes, that's right.
The Zhang Yurou he met back then was a girl full of vigor for life, with ideals, ambitions, backbone, sharpness and edge.
But now Zhang Yurou, all the spikes on her body have been removed, and she has disappeared from everyone.
"You see, Momo studied accounting, but she also studied pharmacy.
She can't work as an accountant and still get medicine for others.
Yi Yuxin is studying pharmacy, but she can write scripts. She can't work in a pharmacy, but she can still go to the film crew to write scripts.
They are not of high origin, but they have never given up on themselves. They have always maintained their edge. They are like the sun, never defeated.
Therefore, both Yanchuan and Cui Jin will be attracted to them."
“The strong will attract the strong.
This is the law."
Li Yun felt the water glass was a little cold, so he planned to end today's conversation: "I talked a bit too much today, please don't mind.
I just want to tell you that only a qualified mother can teach better children.
Look at Jiang Censhuo, look at Cui Yixu and Cui Yijiao, how great they are, how great their mothers are.
And you are also a rich person, and your children should have an excellent mother to teach them.