It's understandable that men can't control their eyes. Once they can't control what's in their crotch, things can easily go wrong, and serious problems can happen.
Women can tolerate a man's lust, but they cannot tolerate cheating. The same goes for men.
The most direct, effective and common way to resolve an affair is divorce.
After the divorce, Zhou Xiaomei returned to her parents' home with her child. Wang Gang also fought for custody of the child, but she did not give it to her.
When the parents saw their daughter coming back with their children, they knew they were getting divorced and didn't say anything.
What can I say? My daughter knows that she has a strong temper and cannot tolerate her son-in-law's cheating. Of course, they can't tolerate it either. It's just that they are old and they can't help but feel sad when they can't see their daughter living alone with their children.
Zhou Xiaomei stayed at home for a month, and the sadness after the divorce was almost over. There was still one month left to celebrate the New Year. She thought that this was the case a year ago. She would have to find a job after the new year, so she couldn't stay like this all the time.
When I think of looking for a job, I think of Lao Tan, and I have to find this classmate and my brother-in-law.
On the third day after Lao Tan arrived home, he received a call from Zhou Xiaomei. He didn't know about Zhou Xiaomei's divorce and was surprised when he heard about it at first. Zhou Xiaomei simply told him the reason for the divorce, and then asked if he could arrange a job.
Lao Tan thought for a while and asked: "Are you going to go to the provincial capital or Hohhot?"
"Let's go to Hohhot. If we change places, we will feel better." Zhou Xiaomei said.
"What should we do with the child? Can you not think about it?" Lao Tan asked.
"It's okay. My mother has been carrying her for the past two years. Why don't I come back and see if I can do anything after thinking about it?" Zhou Xiaomei sighed after finishing speaking.
"Let's go to Hohhot after the New Year." Lao Tan said.
The Central Kitchen store in Hohhot opened a few years later, and Mulan was transferred to be the store manager. The Haidong Road store manager had not yet been selected, so Zhou Xiaomei was just in time. Logically speaking, Zhou Xiaomei could be the regional manager with her ability, but she was a newcomer to Ah Qiao after all.
You can't give such a big position, let's start with the store manager.
"Uncle, is it my grandma's birthday?" Zhou Xiaomei asked.
"Um."
"I happen to be at home this year. I'll go there then."
After talking to Zhou Xiaomei on the phone, the fifth sister said: "Last two days I went back to Heshanggou to get land money for my mother, and I met the second sister-in-law in the backyard. She said that Xiaomei was divorced and she was at home with her children."
"I just found out." Lao Tan said, "She never called me."
"I remember that the second sister-in-law wanted to introduce her to you." The old brother-in-law said with a hint of ridicule.
"Everything has happened, I have already recorded it," said Lao Tan.
The old brother-in-law smiled maliciously and said, "Be careful and bring her to work. Don't let Lin Yan know."
"Lin Yan has known for a long time." Lao Tan said: "They have been working with me for these years, and we have not been together for the past two years. Her ex-husband is a very good man, and my buddy also made mistakes when we worked together.
I made similar mistakes before, but I changed them after having children, and who knew I would make them again.”
"The girls in the old Zhou family are very powerful. They must be strictly controlled. There will be resistance under high pressure. The man must have been unable to bear it and went out to have fun." The old brother-in-law said.
"You can quite imagine it." Old Tan smiled.
"What? What else do you have in mind? I'm going to go out and find one." The fifth sister rolled her eyes at her old brother-in-law and said in a bad tone.
The old brother-in-law stopped the fire immediately.
The fifth sister was attracted by Zhou Xiaomei's incident to Lao Tan, and said to her younger brother: "Even if you don't tell me, I know what you and Lin Yan are like. I told you not to do anything deviant. It's good to look after Hengduo, why don't you still
You have such a big son, do you know?"
Lao Tan nodded and said: "Yeah, I know, don't worry, I can't."
The fifth sister said seriously. "No matter how we say Lin Yan is the biological mother, the children have to be with their biological parents at all times. Look at those divorced, single-parent families, the children are fearful and have unhealthy personalities.
There are two children in my class who are from a single-parent family. At first glance, they are different from those in a two-parent family. Other children are playing there in full swing, but these two children are watching from the side, not leaning forward, and not showing affection.
Speaking. It was normal for them not to behave like this when their parents were not divorced.
Divorce has a huge impact on children. When you look at your children and don’t say anything, they actually know everything, and you feel inferior. Other classmates have fathers and mothers, but I don’t, and I feel aggrieved. Especially those who live with their fathers.
You can tell it when you put on your clothes. If you have a mother, your clothes are clean and you stand at attention. But if you don't have a mother, your clothes are dirty and your shoes are dirty. It's like no one cares about you. It makes you feel bad."
Lao Tan said: "I can't ------"
"My mother is old and can't bear the trouble. You know everything, and you understand some things even if I don't say them. No matter whether you are an old person or a child, you can't get divorced," said the fifth sister.
"Your fifth sister is right. Divorce is not a good thing. Besides, our family can't do that. You are already forty, and it is 41st in the Chinese New Year. You are no longer a young man. Living an honest life is better than anything else."
said the old brother-in-law.
"Don't worry, I won't do that." Lao Tan promised.
This is true. Lao Tan has no plans to divorce. He is a person who is easily satisfied with the status quo. This kind of person looks good, has no desires and demands, is happy with the situation, and is easy-going.
But such people have a shortcoming: they are not attentive to family life, they are not able to consider the people around them in every detail, and they do not even care enough about their loved ones. They are broad-brush types.
But he is extremely passionate about his work and career, and even forgets to eat and sleep.
In the past, people like this were called model workers and were respected by others. Nowadays, they are called career-minded and dedicated. Although they are also respected, few people do it anymore.
To be honest, although career is good, family is equally important. If you focus only on career, your family will inevitably have rifts. If you want family instead of career, it will be difficult to maintain your life.
We should find a balance between family and career, so as to achieve double harvest in family and career as people say.
From another perspective, a happy family is the cornerstone of a career. This is an eternal truth.
Many people's careers are soaring, but they stop working and go downhill. Why?
The capital chain is broken, the market competition is fierce, the general environment is sluggish, and management is not in place - although these reasons exist, they are not the main ones. If you look closely, more than 80% of them are due to family disharmony.
Chinese people have always cultivated their moral character, managed their families, governed their country, and brought peace to the world.
The foundation of self-cultivation is virtue. That’s why Confucius said, “If I don’t cultivate virtue, I will be worried.”
Cultivate it in your body, and its virtue will be true. Cultivate it in your family, and its virtue will be residual. Cultivate it in your hometown, and its virtue will be long. Cultivate it in the country, and its virtue will be abundant. Cultivate it in the world, and its virtue will be universal.
We may not be able to cultivate the country and the world, but we must do it for ourselves and our families. Therefore, we must cultivate ourselves first, and then manage our families. We should observe our bodies with our bodies, our families with our families, our hometown with our hometown, and filial piety as our foundation.
, peace is the most important thing, and finally "everything prospers when the family is in harmony".
Therefore, it is not wrong to say that a happy family is the cornerstone of a career.
In fact, we don’t talk about these great principles of the ancients. Even if you think about it with a stupid mind, you can understand that if a person cannot even manage his family well, his career will not get much better, and the good things will be temporary.
As soon as the twelfth lunar month entered, Third Sister Lao Tan's family killed the pig.
On the day of the pig killing, the third sister sent her son Jin Sheng to drive her younger brother and eldest nephew to their home.
Lao Tan hasn't been to the third sister's house for four years, and he almost doesn't recognize her.
The courtyard with two entrances is as luxurious as the landlord's house in the past. The five brand-new main houses face north and south, with a car and a bakery parked in front, and a motorcycle parked in front of the window.
Various agricultural machinery are parked in the east wing, including tricycles, large four-wheelers, rotary cultivators, seeders, sprinklers, and various agricultural tools. At first glance, it looks like an agricultural machinery repair shop.
The west wing is a duck coop, a chicken coop, a pig pen, a livestock shed, and a grain house. Chickens and ducks roam leisurely in the yard, making two cheerful calls from time to time, and there are two fat geese, swaying and twisting.
He held his neck, showing off his power like a leader.
The third sister and the third brother-in-law had already walked out the door and looked at Old Tan and his son walking up the steps with a smile.
"Third aunt, how are you doing, third uncle!" Jiaheng ran up to him and said loudly.
The third sister happily agreed, patted her eldest nephew's head and said, "He is so tall, he is taller than the third aunt."
"Not as tall as my eldest brother." Jia Heng looked at Jin Sheng and said.
"How old you are, you are still tall. When you are eighteen or nineteen, you will be taller than me." Jin Sheng said.
The third sister led Jia Heng into the house first. The third brother-in-law exchanged greetings with Lao Tan and followed her into the house.
The pigs have been killed, and the butcher is carving the meat. The whole outhouse is steaming hot, and several women are busy at the stove, cutting meat, cutting sauerkraut, and stuffing sausages. The meat is not yet