Eating whole grains will not prevent you from getting sick and causing disasters.
Being sick is not scary, what is scary is mental breakdown.
As the saying goes, 30% of the disease is 70% of recovery, and it all depends on a good attitude. Cancer is not incurable, most patients are scared to death.
Having said that, no one knows who the disease has not developed in. No matter how good the mentality is, no matter how strong-willed the person is, it is not easy to feel when they know that they have cancer, and they need to adjust for a period of time.
Heaven has three treasures, water, fire, and wind; humans have three treasures, essence, qi, and spirit.
When will you have a good attitude and be immune to all kinds of poisons, you will at least live a few more years.
Half a month later, Zhang Li was discharged from the hospital after a reexamination and went home to take care of herself.
Since it was a uterus removal surgery, I still had a urine bag hanging on my body, which looked very funny.
Lao Tan has been busy with work in the provincial capital during this period, so he takes time to see her every day, chat with her, relieve loneliness, and adjust his mood. As a friend, that's all he can do, and the rest is to wish her a speedy day.
Recover.
Some patients are delicate, lose their temper easily, and often make unreasonable demands. Lao Tan is patient and satisfies them one by one. For example, when Zhang Li just brought an apple, she said she didn’t want to eat it and wanted to eat an orange. She thought about it again when the oranges were brought.
After eating an apple, Lao Tan went to get another apple.
Every time when Lao Tan left, Zhang Li was reluctant to leave and wanted to make a fuss for a while. Either saying that she was sick and no one would take care of her, or just saying that no one would take care of her, or else she would shed tears for no reason, which was pitiful. This was so embarrassing for Lao Tan.
It was so uncomfortable that I couldn't get out of the house for an hour.
Yanhua also often went to see Zhang Li. Lao Tan asked Yanhua if Zhang Li was making trouble when she left. Yanhua said it was fine if she was not making trouble. Old Tan smiled bitterly, it seemed that the trouble was divided between people.
Anyway, Zhang Li is getting better day by day. She quickly removed the urine bag and looks like a normal person. However, her body is still weak and needs to be nursed back to health slowly. She needs to take medicine every day and go to the hospital for a review every other week.
During this period, Gu Yi called and said that the house contract was signed for eight years. The house would be handed over on May 10th and asked when Lao Tan would come over.
Seeing that nothing happened in the provincial capital, Lao Tan saw that everything was going smoothly and orderly, and Zhang Li was getting better day by day, so he greeted Yanhua and went to Suzhou.
In May, Wang Shulan's Jining store and the second store in Xilinhot opened one after another. The two stores in Baotou and the Chifeng store are under renovation and are expected to open in July.
Zhang Yu and Zhou Xiaomei bought a hotel in Hohhot Development Zone and started decorating it.
Zhang Xiangdong has negotiated for two cooperative stores in the provincial capital, one in Hunnan and one in Dadong, and plans to open them in August.
Mr. Xiang, who has been working with Ah Qiao, is now traveling back and forth between the provincial capitals in Inner Mongolia, rushing to renovate. These stores are enough for him to keep busy. When Lao Tan asked him if he could accept the store in Suzhou, he immediately shook his head and asked Lao Tan to look for it locally.
Decoration company.
It seems that General Xiang’s development can’t catch Ah Qiao.
Zhou Xiaomei is in Hohhot and her children are in her hometown. It is inevitable for a mother to miss her children.
After the Chinese New Year, she planned to buy a house in Hohhot and bring her parents over so that she could see her every day. However, her parents were reluctant to leave their old home in their hometown and have not yet agreed.
Now that the weather is getting warmer, the old man seemed to be enlightened by the weather and agreed. So with the help of Wang Shulan, he bought a second-hand house near Jinqiao store, with three bedrooms and two living rooms, finely decorated, and moved in with his bags. He quickly brought his parents with him
The child took it.
The two old people were not used to it at first. They always looked for a kang when sleeping. They were nervous when going out, fearing that they would not be able to find it home. After living there for a while, they gradually got used to it. Especially their father, who liked to play chess and drink two cups of wine at home, and soon became accustomed to it.
Qi became acquainted with the old man downstairs and made two drinking buddies. He would go to the dumpling restaurant for a drink if he had nothing to do.
My sons Xiaogang and Xiaoying go to the same kindergarten. The two old men drop them off every morning and pick them up in the evening.
Xiaoying and Xiaogang are the same age, and the two children quickly became good friends. Xiaoying has a sweet mouth, and calls her brother all day long, following Xiaogang. When she sees Xiaogang's grandparents, she also calls her grandpa and grandma, and the little girl follows suit.
He is good at coaxing people, and the two old men also like him.
Sometimes the two children fell in love and wanted to be together after they left kindergarten. Xiaoying would beg her father who came to pick her up to ask her to go home with Xiaogang. Every time at this time, Xiaogang would beg for Xiaoying: "Uncle Cao, my name is Xiaoying.
Come to my house, let’s play together, don’t be naughty, and we’ll go to kindergarten together tomorrow.”
Xiaogang's grandparents also said to let the children go, as the two little guys are good companions together.
So Xiaoying became a frequent visitor to the house. The two children often turned the living room upside down. The two old men looked on with smiles. Not only were they not angry, but they also served them well and ate them well. They slept with each other in their arms at night.
This is life, it looks plain, but it is interesting.
Since Cao Jiadong started working in a hotel, although his income is less than before, it is stable and his monthly salary is guaranteed, so his life is guaranteed.
The biggest advantage is that I can cook for my children every morning. Xiaojun goes to school by himself after eating, and he packs up and sends Xiaoying to kindergarten. After get off work, he has time to pick up Xiaoying, and Xiaojun is also after school. The family of three comes home together, and he cooks and Xiaojun Doing homework, Xiaoying plays with himself.
When he sat at the dining table and watched the two children eating deliciously, his heart was sweet and satisfied.
Cao Jiadong drank and smoked. He stopped doing both after going to a restaurant. It was not just for good health, but because his job was stable and he no longer had to worry about his livelihood. By quitting, he could save some money and provide more support for his two children.
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Of course, we still need to save money. Xiaoying will go to school for two more years, and Xiaojun will go to junior high school during the Chinese New Year. Studying is expensive, and it’s hard to do without money, so you have to save some money in advance. When your children grow up, they will have to go to high school and take college entrance exams, all of which will cost money.
It’s impossible if you don’t save.
Fortunately, I have three days off every month, so I can go out and do some work, and I can earn a lot of money. I can earn up to 1,800 yuan.
Cao Jiadong is honest, affordable and careful in his work. He is always there when he is in the hotel. He is always there when repairs are needed, and he goes around to repair the ones that are not repaired. After he came, the lights were less broken, the faucets kept working, and the sewers were no longer repaired.
Anyone who has sought help from a professional has done it himself.
The tables, chairs and benches at the front desk are always inspected and if any are found to be broken, they are repaired without any reminder from the waiter.
He also learned to repair electric baking pans and freezers in the kitchen, and bought himself a lot of repair items, becoming more and more like a jack-of-all-trades.
Because of his good service attitude, people in the hotel affectionately call him Brother Cao. No matter what happens, the first thing he says is: "Call Brother Cao."
Summer was about to come, and the air conditioners in all stores needed to be inspected and repaired. He was not familiar with air conditioners. Thinking of his coworkers who worked together to install air conditioners, he called his coworkers to help with the inspections and learn from them.
At the end of the day, all the air conditioners in the four stores were overhauled, and he learned almost the same thing. He gave his coworkers money, but they didn't want it, so he bought him a meal at the Jinqiao store. He was going to spend money, but when he paid, the bar counter said that Mr. Zhou had told him not to pay. This was
Doing business for the company is free of charge.
He felt a little embarrassed, and just when Zhou Xiaomei entered the store, he said to him: "Brother Cao, Xiaoying asked my mother to pick me up."
He told Xiaojun when he went to work in the morning that he might come home later and asked him to pick up his sister from school. It seemed that Xiaojun was late, so he said embarrassedly: "I'm bothering my aunt again."
"What's the trouble? One sheep is raised, and two sheep are herded. My mother also misses Xiaoying." Zhou Xiaomei said.
Cao Jiadong nodded gratefully. He wanted to say thank you but felt that he couldn't say it well, so he said in a nonchalant voice: "Always causing trouble to my aunt, Xiao Yingtao, you are dishonest------"
"Haha, my mother and father have nothing to do. They are happy to have children and have fun." Zhou Xiaomei continued: "Go back quickly. Xiaojun is at home. You have finished eating and he is still hungry.
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Cao Jiadong blushed, nodded, opened the door and walked out.
Zhou Xiaomei watched Cao Jiadong unlock the electric car, then rode it away and stood there in a daze for a while. She thought that such a man might not have a big future in his life, but he was honest and kind, did not have those twists and turns, and knew how to care for his children in life.
In a way, he is a good housekeeper.
Or a good person.
It's a pity that good people don't have a good life. His wife ran away with someone and left the two children behind. It's hard to get married again unless he meets someone with worse conditions than him.
Hey, who is the person? His belly is curved like a sickle, and his rectum is straight and black. As for others, I am no better than others. I am alone with a child, right?
Thinking of her children, she couldn't help but think of the phone call she had with Zhang Li in the afternoon.
She was thinking about Zhang Li and wanted to go back to the provincial capital for a visit, but she never found the time. After Zhang Li finished the operation, Yanhua called to say that the operation was successful and that she would be fine with the treatment in the future. Then she took a breather.
But I also kept in mind that after all, it was cancer, not a cold or fever.
When we were on the phone, I heard Zhang Li's voice sounding pretty good, and she felt a lot more confident than the previous few days.
She comforted Zhang Li not to think too much, to keep a good attitude, to recover from her illness, and to take good care of herself, and she would be fine in a year and a half. Zhang Li was very optimistic and did not worry about her illness. She was just very depressed and sad that she would be fine for the rest of her life.
I can no longer have children at all. My uterus has been removed. How can I give birth to one?
"This is my fate, I will die alone, and I won't even have anyone to cry on the day I die." After experiencing life and death during an operation, Zhang Li understood many things clearly, became more open-minded, and did not shy away from talking about life and death.
"What are you talking about? I haven't heard anyone say that having many sons and daughters will create many obstacles, and a Bodhisattva without sons and daughters will live like a Bodhisattva." Zhou Xiaomei said.
"That being said, it's better to have a child. I don't have any in this life, so I still want to secretly have one with Lao Tan. It's better this time. There's nothing down there for me to fan."
Zhang Li didn't know why the word "fan" came up, and she made herself laugh first.
Zhou Xiaomei laughed and said, "I feel more relaxed this time."
"Go away -" Zhang Li laughed and scolded, feeling very happy, and then said: "This time your brother-in-law doesn't want me at all. I can't give him a son and a half. It's a pity -"
Regret? Regret?
Zhou Xiaomei thought that the real regret in life is not not having children, but not having love, the unforgettable kind.