There is no perfect person in the world, everyone has more or less shortcomings or imperfections.
Because I am not perfect, I long for perfection. I hope others can do what I cannot do.
We like to listen to perfect stories, watch touching movies, and even hope that we can be the protagonists in them, be upright heroes, or be gentle and virtuous women, and experience the joy and sorrow in them------
But in reality, we cannot be as happy and happy as in novels or movies. In real life, we face daily household chores, daily necessities, daily necessities, husbands and wives, parents and children, as well as work pressure and relationships with colleagues.
The subtle handling of superiors and subordinates, as well as various human ways.
It is impossible for a person to live simply without any worries, although we all hope to live like that.
For example, Lao Tan and Ya Ru, a pair of lovers in the past, are now reunited. According to our imagination, they are a lonely man and a widow. Although they are not a raging match, they are also a thunderstorm. The two of them should have no worries about their relationship.
What?
But the real situation is this. Regardless of the eyes of the employees living in the hospital, the two of them cannot get over the hurdle in their hearts.
It is these beautiful imperfections in life that make people fondly remember them.
When Lao Tan arrived in Hohhot at six o'clock in the evening, Zhang Li and Yanhua had arrived early and were waiting for him at Haidong Store. Zhang Yu, Yanzi's family of three were also there, as well as Zhou Xiaomei and Yang Zhijun.
Yanzi is plumper than before and looks like a good wife and mother. She and Yanhua have not seen each other in nearly two years and are chatting enthusiastically.
After Lao Tan said hello to everyone, he sat down and first asked Zhang Li's health condition with concern.
"Very good, everything is normal." Zhang Lijian said with a smile.
"That's good, don't be tired and take your medicine on time." Lao Tan said.
"Thank you for your concern, the leader."
Zhang Li's words made everyone laugh.
It was rare for everyone to be together like this, everyone was happy, except Zhang Li who drank a lot. After drinking, Zhang Li said she wanted to see where Lao Tan lived, so she followed Zhou Xiaomei and Lao Tan to the apartment. Yanhua was taken away by Yanzi.
The two sisters want to talk all night long.
After returning to the apartment, Zhang Li saw that the house was clean and tidy, and she joked: "Old Tan, it seems you are not being honest here."
"Why are you being dishonest?" Lao Tan asked.
"The house is in order, don't tell me you did it yourself." Zhang Li said in an interrogating tone.
Zhou Xiaomei, who was standing next to her, gave Zhang Li a slap with her hand and said, "I took care of it for my uncle. I knew he would come back today."
Zhang Li was a little embarrassed and whispered: "I'll just ask------"
Zhou Xiaomei made the tea and knew that Zhang Li was going to be alone with Lao Tan for a while, so she told her to go back to the house and change clothes, and then left.
After Zhou Xiaomei left, Zhang Li leaned against Lao Tan on the sofa, her body close to Lao Tan.
A woman's fragrance wafted over, and Lao Tan enjoyed it a little nervously. The scene of Yaru closing her eyes and stretching her waist last night appeared in front of her eyes——
Neither of them spoke.
The room was quiet, everything was still, only the air with an ambiguous smell and the slow flow of time that never stopped.
Slowly, Zhang Li rested her head on Lao Tan's shoulder, just like she fantasized about every day before going to bed, leaning against her beloved man, thinking about nothing and enjoying the warmth.
Although this man does not belong to me, I am content to rely on him.
"Old Tan, do you have a room like this in Suzhou? Are you alone?" Zhang Li asked after a while.
"A person is alone, but the room is not like this. It's like a courtyard house, a tile-roofed house, or the kind in Jiangnan water towns." Lao Tan said.
"Li Shuang and Xiao Gao also live there?" Zhang Li asked.
"Well, don't you know, I've never been there before." Lao Tan said.
"Didn't I go to the place where you live? I only have three days to work. When the day arrived, it was dark. After dinner, I went back to the hotel to sleep. I helped with the opening the next day and was exhausted. The third day was shopping.
The Humble Administrator’s Garden, then Taihu Lake, and then came back.” Zhang Li said with some dissatisfaction.
"I'll go there when I have time and have a nice walk with you," Lao Tan said.
"It's the year of the monkey and the month of the horse. You may be right. It's been so many years in Hohhot. If I didn't say it, I still wouldn't be able to come." Zhang Li complained.
"Aren't you busy with work? You don't have time------"
"I think you are afraid that I will spoil your good deeds. Who doesn't know about your relationship with Yaru? Don't tell me that you two are fine."
Old Tan laughed, bowed, and lit a cigarette.
Zhang Li took her head off Lao Tan's shoulder, picked up the tea cup and took a sip, and then said resentfully: "I am not a complete woman now, no one can appreciate her--"
Lao Tan turned his face to look at her and said, "It's so beautiful if it's not complete, but if it's complete, it wouldn't be a living thing."
Zhang Li laughed and hit Lao Tan.
The atmosphere is warm and harmonious.
"Are you tired?" Lao Tan asked.
"A bit——--I slept in your room today." Zhang Li said.
"Okay, don't test me, go to Xiaomei's house and sleep." Lao Tan said.
"You think I------" Zhang Li pouted, looking so aggrieved that she was about to shed tears, pitiful.
Lao Tan was amused, and his heart skipped a beat. But Zhang Li could not be asked to sleep in this room, and Zhang Li would not sleep here either.
The identities of the two people are there, and no mistakes are allowed - although Zhou Xiaomei will not tell outsiders, that is not okay.
People, if they can't control themselves, they are passionate. Relationships between the sexes will often ruin many things, including love.
"Tch!" Zhang Li threw out her catchphrase and quickly stood up and said to Lao Tan: "I can't even live with you. Who cares? I'm going to hug my little Meimei."
After saying that, he waved his hand and walked out of the room.
Lao Tan spoke in a very complicated manner, looking at the closed door in a daze unconsciously------
If Lao Tan was single, he would not hesitate to keep Zhang Li and sleep with her arms in his arms. This is not just a physical need, but also an expression of love. Even if others know, he doesn't care.
But he is not single.
At this time, there are often two choices: compliance and hypocrisy.
Being cisgender means not caring about anything. When two people are together, the worst they can do is accept people's contemptuous looks and their character collapse; hypocrisy means pretending to be a noble person who doesn't care even though they are clearly thinking about it, and then endure physical and psychological torture.
When we analyze rationally, we will find that the greatness of a person's personality is always based on some kind of sacrifice of emotion.
Because I care and carry too much.
As an experienced caterer, I can responsibly say that a hotel is a special living environment. Employees may not abide by the rules and regulations or listen to the boss, but they will absolutely obey the person who leads them.
After so many years of work, we have been working hard to turn the rule of man into the rule of law, let the process dominate the country, and the standards are universal. However, the particularity of Chinese food determines the traditional nature of its employment-the master's inheritance, help and guidance.
In the past, cooks were low-class, living at the bottom of society. The harsh living environment forced them to possess not only superb skills, but also commendable virtues.
Be fastidious, loyal, a good friend, and respect your teachers. You can be vulgar, but not rude, you can be uneducated, but you can't be unethical. Especially when it comes to being a human being, you can't be unfilial or contrary to human ethics.
If you are unfilial, no one will pay you any favors.
Without ethics and cooking ethics, no boss would dare to use it, and it would ruin the restaurant.
It goes against human ethics. To put it bluntly, he abandons his wife and children. He has no brotherhood and is a heartless and unjust person. Needless to say, he will be abandoned by others.
In the kitchen, what everyone looks at is the head chef. If the head chef has poor ethics and no matter how good his skills are, he will not be able to convince the public, and the employees will leave. The same is true at the front desk. If the manager is not good and the employees do not like to work, either the manager will leave or the employees will leave.
When a hotel develops into a group, the employees look up to the top leader. Once there is a problem with the leader, especially in terms of gender, not only will the person's personality be ruined and he will be looked down upon, but many orders will not be carried out.
The reason is simple: employees don't want to work with such people and would rather resign and find another job.
Having said that, there are quite a few chefs who get divorced, but they are divorced and single, so there is nothing wrong with that.
Don't talk nonsense if you're not divorced, especially if you're like Lao Tan, who has hundreds of people waiting to eat.
Lao Tan's image in the minds of employees can be described as tall, well-organized, intelligent, far-sighted, without pretensions, generous and dedicated. Another point is that he has a harmonious family and is a good father and husband.
To be exaggerated, many waiters set their criteria for finding a partner like Lao Tan, who looks like a man and knows how to take care of his family.
If he gets divorced, many people will be disappointed.