Chapter 539 The current situation of Yaru and Laotan
I have to say that Lao Tan and Ya Ru are harmonious together, it is natural and everything comes naturally.
Yaru is kind, virtuous, considerate, and good at making ends meet. Anyone who marries such a daughter-in-law is considered to be in high esteem.
He and Lao Tan were originally a good couple, but things changed and various reasons caused Lao Yan to separate and have different destinies.
We like lovers to finally get married and are willing to see happy endings, just because there are always unsatisfactory regrets in real life.
If Yaru's parents had not stubbornly asked Yaru to find a partner at home with their son, if Yaru had had her own opinions and not succumbed to her parents' arrangements, they might have become a family long ago.
But things often don't go as planned.
So can the two of them become a family now?
not sure.
Although Lao Tan is divorced and has become a free man, his divorce is like his cancer. He still hides it from his family and dear son, not wanting them to know about it.
Firstly, he didn't want to worry his relatives and get angry; secondly, he didn't know whether the cancer could be cured. Although it looked good now, he wouldn't be sure until the cancer cells were eliminated from the body.
To be honest, these two things are no longer a big deal to him, and he doesn't even care, but he knows what these two things mean to his mother and son.
If my mother found out, she would be worried to death, and then she would be anxious and angry. As a man in his 80s, he would regret it to death if something happened to him.
There is also a son, let alone let him know. The reason is so simple that people don’t know what to say in their understanding.
Say he did the right thing? But everyone knows that paper can't contain the fire, and the truth will be revealed one day; say he did the wrong thing? But what should he do? Should he tell his son that his father has cancer and that he divorced his mother?
Can my son withstand this double blow? He is just fifteen.
Although this boy is very self-reliant and has been sensible since he was a child, he has not experienced any setbacks and shocks. Unlike himself who started to live in a small family at the age of thirteen, he has the same endurance as an adult.
He didn't want his son to go through what he went through because he was still alive.
Yes, alive.
The beauty of living is often due to a kind of responsibility and expectation, rather than love. This is also what people often say, living is not just for yourself, but for the loved ones around you, not to be sad, not to miss, not to be concerned -----
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Of course, in terms of life itself, unless unexpected misfortunes or sudden serious illnesses occur, it is normal to die according to the laws of nature. But after all, isn't that time yet?
After all, I am young, only forty-six years old at the end of my life, and I am far away from dying.
what to do?
There is no other way, we must live strong and optimistically, let the cancer cells be eliminated in the body, and die like a normal person. This is the desire to live and the best explanation for our loved ones.
In this case, it is right to choose not to tell them. If they don't know, they will not be miserable. In this way, they will not be able to see their worries, and you will be able to recover easily and get twice the result with half the effort.
As for divorce, it is indeed the end of fate. Before the divorce, you were still burdened with family responsibilities and commitment to marriage. After the divorce, you realized that it was all self-deception. In other words, you were trying to save face and suffer.
Of course, divorce is irresponsible harm to children. In order to minimize the harm, I decided to wait until my son goes to college before telling him.
In other words, before my son goes to college, he cannot be allowed to see that he and his mother are divorced and they are still a family.
This involves the issue of whether to find a woman or not, to be more serious, remarriage, and more specifically, how to treat the relationship with Yaru.
There are also practical issues involved - you must be completely cured of your illness and be a healthy person. If you are not well, you cannot promise Yaru anything. This is the principle.
So what does our Yaru think?
She thought very simply.
She loves Lao Tan and is willing to be with him. Although Lao Tan suffers from cancer, she doesn't care. It's just that remarriage is not possible for her yet - she cares about her son's feelings, although she knows that his son also hopes to find a companion for her.
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She hasn't thought about this yet, and wants to wait until her son graduates from college and finds a job, or after he gets married.
She didn't want to think about it before, but now she is willing to be with Lao Tan. She thinks that as long as they love each other and have each other in each other's hearts, it doesn't matter whether they get married or not. They are both people who have experienced marriage and family. That Zhang
Can paper beat true feelings?
Now that Lao Tan is ill, what she has to do is to take care of him as much as possible and give him the tenderness and consideration of a wife, which is what he needs most. She has experienced this from herself, having lived a widowed life since her son was one year old.
Twenty years passed in a flash like ordinary days, and it was not a pleasant experience.
Same goes for men.
In addition to love, there is also sex between men and women. The two are complementary to each other and cannot be avoided by ordinary people.
Isn’t it true that people’s cheating is all about sex?
He understands Lao Tan just as he understands himself. A sexless marriage leads to a sexless life. He longs for the comfort of men but is trapped by the world. Women have sex because of love. It is impossible to be with someone who is not what he likes, let alone
I will let my body go.
Fortunately, I have a son, which gives me comfort and sustenance, and I have come step by step to where I am today.
What she didn't expect was that Lao Tan would get divorced, just like she didn't expect that he would get cancer. But when she thought about him getting cancer, she knew why he divorced - he would do this, and if he didn't, he wouldn't be Lao Tan.
Now that Lao Tan is divorced, there is no psychological burden to be with him. Although I don't want to get married yet, two people being together is better than anything else. This is happiness.
It's really snowing.
It started falling at noon the next day. It started with large snowflakes, and soon the sky and the earth turned into a vast expanse of white, with the mountains and lakes in the distance appearing.
In the morning, Lao Tan brought a lot of wood into the house, then went to the greenhouse to buy vegetables and the butcher shop to buy meat. When buying meat, he caught up with the newly killed cows and cut three kilograms of beef along with the tripe.
Bought.
I had nothing to do on a snowy day, so I went to the wine shop to call Zhou Xiaomei’s parents over to make tripe hot pot. After arriving, I found out that Xiaomei’s husband, Cao Jiadong, had broken his leg while replacing the outdoor unit of the air conditioner and needed to stay at home for some time. Xiaomei’s mother
I returned to Hohhot yesterday to take care of my son-in-law and three children.
Lao Tanxin talks about what happened this year. First, Yaru had a car accident, then Huaqing was hit on the head, and now the family building fell down again. Who is next?
Don't let there be another one. 19 years will be over soon. Let's all calm down.
Walking back with Xiaomei's father under the snow, they bumped into Yingzi's father who called Xiaomei's father to come home for dinner. Lao Tan stopped him and attracted Yingzi's father.
When he got home, he asked Yingzi's father to call Yingzi's mother so that she wouldn't have to eat at home alone.
When Yingzi's mother came, she brought stewed chicken, and the three families of five sat around and ate it lively.
By the way, I would like to mention Xiao Yingzi here. This child will graduate from college in two years. He majors in business management. After graduation, he plans to work in Wang Shulan's store in Beijing.
Wang Shulan's unintentional act of kindness changed the fate of a peasant child in a poor mountainous area. No matter which aspect it is, this is a good deed that accumulates merit.
In a world where ordinary people are ordinary, there are actually many good people like Wang Shulan. They do not ask for anything in return, they think it is nothing to do something, and they silently interpret kindness and beauty in this world.