Lao Tan heard some meaning from the conversation between the two, but he didn't point it out and just looked at them with a smile.
There was something wrong with this. He knew Erdun's age, which was thirty-six this year, but Zhao Min was at most twenty-three or four. The gap between the two of them was at least more than ten years old, which seemed a bit impossible.
But he quickly rejected his opinion, feeling that if the two of them were sincere, age should not be a problem, the real problem was the difference in ethnicity. He had been in Inner Mongolia for many years and had seen Han men marry Mongolian wives, but it seemed that they had not
I have seen Mongolian men marry Han wives.
Erdun and Zhao Min didn't stay long and went back soon.
After the two left, Lao Tan took a shower and was about to go to bed when Yaru called. Yaru called for nothing else, just to ask if Lao Tan had arrived, if Zhao Min had tidied up the house, and if he had opened the windows to clear the house.
The smell inside, whether the sheets have been washed, whether the slippers have been brushed, etc.
Lao Tan answered one by one.
"Turn on the air conditioner. It's very cold in Suzhou during this solar term," Yaru said.
"Well, it's open. It's quite warm in the room." Lao Tan said.
"Keep the windows closed when you sleep to avoid catching a cold."
"Um."
"I had dinner at Yingzi's house today. I just got back a little while ago."
"Really? You two get along very well."
"Of course." Yaru said, "I didn't expect you to have a sister. Why haven't I heard you talk about it before?"
"What's there to say?" Lao Tan said.
"Old Tan, Wang Hong is your sister and Yingzi is your sister. You are quite popular with women."
"I also have a relationship with men. The brothers in the kitchen are all good to me and they all call me boss. Do you know? Wherever I go, I always drink with my brothers first. You don't know that." Lao Tan said.
"Okay, I won't talk to you anymore. I can't talk to you anymore." Yaru yawned, and then said, "I'm going to bed. Don't drink too much. Remember to take your medicine and don't fall behind."
As soon as Lao Tan put down his cell phone, it rang again. This time it was from the sister-in-law of his eldest brother's family in the beautiful valley west courtyard. When he saw the number, Lao Tan's heart sank, and a bad premonition arose spontaneously.
This is indeed the case - the eldest brother is gone.
My eldest brother left three days ago, very quietly, and seemed relieved.
The sister-in-law over there has hung up the phone, and Lao Tan is still holding the phone, staring blankly in trance. The elder brother's face naturally appears in front of his eyes, which reminds him of many things in the past------
In this long drama of our life, Brother Xiyuan may be just a passer-by, but he is undoubtedly a good man and has left a deep impression on us. We hope that there will be no pain in heaven and that good people will be happy.
The death of his eldest brother really touched Lao Tan and made him think a lot.
The first thing he thought about was that if he had not met the old Chinese medicine doctor in Beijing, he would have received the same treatment as his elder brother - resection, followed by radiotherapy and chemotherapy. He was in the early stage and not as serious as his elder brother, but he wanted to recover.
It will be as fast as it is now, and there is still a possibility of recurrence.
If you do that, you will embark on a long anti-cancer road. On this road, you may die at any time, your life will end, and your life will come to an end.
Fortunately, I met an old Chinese medicine doctor. Under his superb medical treatment, the cancer was eliminated and my life was extended, just like being reborn.
So now when I hear about the death of others, or when I think back to the fact that I have been facing the threat of death all the time in the past two years, although I feel sad, I have a different understanding of life - I can't live up to it and live every day.
good.
He used to be afraid of death, and his heart felt gloomy when he thought about it, as if it was so close and could happen at any time.
But when the old Chinese medicine doctor said that the cancer cells had completely disappeared and the cancer was cured, suddenly I was no longer afraid. This does not mean that I feel confident that the cancer is cured and I can brag, but I am really not afraid anymore.
How should I put it? In the final analysis, it is a matter of mentality.
First, I know that life is fragile and can be lost at any time, and then I am reborn like a phoenix from nirvana. This is a great good thing for everyone, and they will have a new understanding and appreciation of life.
Lao Tan's sentiment is not only to live well after the disaster, but also to respect and live purely and fully, and to be a good person.
You only have one life in this world, so how you live is very important. Everyone wants to live a good life, be healthy and happy, but what they do is selfish and immoral, and it is difficult to think well.
Although everything lasts a lifetime, someone has to carry you when you die. What if you die and you don’t even have anyone to carry you? Climb the mountain by yourself?
So when you are alive, you must keep your conscience straight and don't feel guilty. Help others when you have the ability to help them, but don't worry about the luck or misfortune of doing good deeds. This is the only way.
Some people never understand this in their entire lives, so no one cares about it when they leave, and they forget about it after a few days.
Something has to be done.
Lao Tan thought about it and said to himself: Now that he has recovered from his illness, it means he is reincarnated as a human being, so live a good life, do as much as possible, and don't waste your life.
He thought of agreeing to the training from Boss Zhang. He thought it was suitable for the training and he liked it. It felt very beautiful to stand on the podium and give lectures. It was not to show off as a teacher, but he felt that sharing his experience was an achievement. Feeling very satisfied.
Just start with training, which is also a meritorious and meritorious thing to save people.
The next day, Lao Tan didn't leave the house all day and locked himself in his room to sort out the course materials.
He classified the previous courseware into several parts: professional skills, management and operations, planning and marketing, and pre-job
Training and training and gratitude education.
In the process of sorting it out, I recalled my own training process. Initially, I started to go into battle myself because I had no money to hire professional instructors to train employees, and I couldn’t catch the ducks to put them on the shelves.
At that time, there was no computer screen projection, and there was no courseware. I just wrote on the blackboard and lectured at the same time, just like a teacher giving a lecture. Fortunately, the people listening were all my own employees, and no one criticized the lectures well, and they even gave me encouraging applause.
Later, I got computers and screencasting, and I learned how to make courseware. The training became more vivid and everyone loved listening to it.
Later, with the accumulation of experience, I learned situational teaching, and the training became more vivid, practical and meaningful, and it became perfect.
He knew what his training was like. He had no higher education, and his vocabulary was very small. Most of it was dialect and truth. Sometimes he racked his brains for an adjective and had to speak a lot more.
But he knows what kind of people he is facing, knows the cultural level of these people, knows how to talk to them, and how to talk to them so that they will enjoy listening to it. This is the most important thing.
If you really talk like those highly educated and knowledgeable lecturers, you may put these employees with only junior high school level to sleep.
When you talk to them, don’t use rhetoric, don’t show off, and don’t feel like you are a lecturer training. Instead, talk to them, talk about daily life, and talk about how to live a good life.
You can talk to them about how to do things but not how to work diligently and conscientiously. You can talk to them about loyalty but not about rules. You can talk about filial piety but less about loyalty. You can talk about diligence and frugality but not about financial management. You can talk about benevolence and righteousness but not about justice.
wait.
There is always one thing to say, everything I said was done by myself first, and it is recognized by everyone, thumbs up, otherwise it is in vain, they will say that what you do is not as good as me, what are you talking about in plain words?
That's all.
In fact, this is the same as ordinary people's life. They all like to listen to the speeches of virtuous and prestige people and believe them to be true. However, people who are nothing themselves will tell the truth and no one will listen, because you are not good.