In this world, it is still a male-dominated world, but the status of women is not low. In some aspects, they even have the right to speak, especially in marriage matters. Their attitude is very important, and it is not entirely
The kind of status that is at the mercy of parents and matchmakers.
Basically, the success of a marriage depends not only on the right match and the willingness of both families, but also on the woman's impression of the suitor. There are not many such opportunities. Xiaoye Lake Spring Party is the most famous blind date in Pucheng.
A place that attracts young people of the right age.
After all, no man wants to marry an ugly man, and no girl wants to marry a poor man.
On the corridor connecting the pavilions, there is an endless stream of male guests passing by. Most of them have clear goals. Even if it is a blind date, it cannot be completely based on their own wishes, otherwise the young master of the landlord's family will fall in love with a powerful person.
As a young lady, the hope of success is very slim. What if she meets the enemy's eyes...
Among the male guests, there are not many who have been here many times. Those who didn't find a suitable one the year before last and who didn't fall in love last year will try their luck again this year. And most of them don't have the only goal.
Which ladies in Pucheng have grown up and are ready to get married this year. There is a roster for everyone. They are all lice on the bald heads. It is obvious that the matchmakers have already inquired about it. After all, this is a big life.
After raising it for more than ten years, it is impossible to hide it in the cellar like white radish.
According to your own conditions, look at the conditions of the woman, and then consider other things, such as whether the land of two landlords can be connected into one piece, whether two businessmen can join hands to monopolize, whether two officials can control the government, etc.
s things,
The balance is quite delicate. Of course, there are also cross-border ones, but they are in the minority.
Relatively speaking, the Lou Mansion has the simplest intention, which is to marry a daughter-in-law and have a few children so that the two old women in the house can entertain themselves.
Lou Xiaoyi has grown up and is no longer fun!
Lou Xiaoyi has been struggling for an hour and a half from the early breakfast to now. After his sense of smell finally returned to normal, he felt hungry again. At the age of seventeen or eight, it is the time when the mouth is strong. Every day
The intense exercise during the hour when I got up early had already consumed all the breakfast food.
"The food is all in those four pavilions, isn't it anywhere else?"
Ping An had to remind him: "Yes, they are all in the four pavilions, but Master, Aunt Caihong said before leaving the house that you will not be allowed to eat casually, which will damage your image, so you must be more reserved...
"
Lou Xiaoyi disagreed. Isn't the scene in front of him just like the buffet party in the previous life? Everyone was holding plates, eating, drinking and chatting. How can you look elegant without eating?
"You've already paid for it, so of course you have to eat it back! Not only do I want to eat it, but you also want to eat it! And you can't choose what you like, you have to choose the expensive one! You can't come here in vain and lose money!"
Lou Xiaoyi's current thinking comes from the simple thoughts of his previous life. This is the first principle of eating at a buffet. It is the highest state of a poor loser. He only eats the expensive ones, not the right ones!
I randomly found a direction and started to move forward, but I was pulled back cleanly by Ping An.
"Sir, your goal is not the Dongnuan Pavilion, but the Chunyu Pavilion!"
Lou Xiaoyi was stubborn and said, "As you said, it is indecent to eat before beauty, so I will go to Dongnuan Pavilion to fill my stomach first, and then go to Chunyu Pavilion to meet the young lady, wouldn't it be delicious?"
Ping An's attendants are a bit messy. The previous young man was not like this. He was gentle and quiet. He obeyed his mistress's arrangements and never questioned. Except for being a little silent, everything else was very good. He was the most willing servant among the servants.
That kind of master; but since he hooked up with Qi Er and his gang, his whole person has changed, he has become more opinionated, and his words are very damaging!
Of course he wouldn't know that the little master's change had nothing to do with Qi Er's group. This was simply the standard feature of a poor loser in a certain time and space: wilted, venomous, and sinister!
He is currently serving very hard, and is far less moist than before. Looking at the old soldier next to him, he has a completely indifferent attitude, as if no matter what happens, it has nothing to do with him...
Lou Xiaoyi walked straight into the Dongnuan Pavilion with his head held high and his majesty high. Dozens of people were already present in the pavilion, talking and laughing;
The female relatives usually sit along the railings, surrounded by maids, one to serve and the other to shield the lustful eyes of the disciples. Only when they meet the husband they like, they will slightly remove the round fan that covers their face.
The maids dodged a slight gap, and they cooperated with each other in perfect harmony.
When Lou Xiaoyi, who stood out from the crowd, came in, he immediately aroused the eyes of the female family members and the hostility of the male guests. You said that a bunch of local dogs were showing off their talents and knowledge, but a mighty black back came in. How can you make all the local dogs feel embarrassed?
Lou Xiaoyi did not act pretentious, but was completely himself. Anyway, he didn't want the blind date to be successful, so he just did it casually. He also despised it in his heart. He had obviously come to this place for a blind date, but he still pretended to be fake.
Covering your face with a round fan and shielding your body with a maid, it’s as if a piece of flesh will be missing if you look at it. What’s the matter? If you don’t want people to see it, don’t come!
hypocritical!
When eating at a buffet, the first step must be to scout the environment and know the dishes well, instead of rushing to get them.
After turning around in a circle, dozens of maids moved their fans away, and dozens of maids stepped aside, only to see the handsome young man grandly pick up a large porcelain plate and start to eat the dazzling array of food.
I didn't touch the vegetables and fruits, and I didn't touch the pastries and desserts. I just picked a small piece of the scallops mixed with meat, which tasted like delicacies from mountains and rivers. I smiled at all the talented people and beauties, found an open space, and started eating gracefully.
This is called tasting! At the same price, of course you have to choose the one that suits your taste; the taste is something you can’t tell from the surface. It looks pleasant, but when you eat it, it turns out to be terrible. In the eyes of everyone, you should throw it away or not.
?
If you throw it away, it will be wasted by other people's gossip. Even if you throw away countless things at home, you can't do it in front of people; if you don't throw it away, you will waste it for nothing, and you will lose money!
Originally, when Lou Xiaoyi came in, these people were still joining poems and sentences, and they were very excited. However, the operation of the handsome young man came in, which made the elegant couplets come to an end. As a result, the young lady and the young daughter-in-law looked at this young man.
You are more interested in eating than listening to their couplets!
This made the suitors very boring, but some were flexible and thought about how young ladies like to see people's true temperaments. So, everyone is hungry anyway, so he can eat more than I can eat?
But the same thing is eating, and people are different from each other. How can ordinary people learn the elegant eating habits that Lou Fu has developed under the strict supervision of Aunt Caihong since he was a child?
When he eats slowly, he looks pretentious, and when he eats fast, he looks vulgar... But unlike Lou Xiaoyi, he sips quickly, his palate and tongue squeeze together, he chews without showing his teeth, and his throat does not bulge.
Food and water are provided in a rhythmic rhythm, as if they are in harmony with nature.
He raises his glass from side to side, often looks around and smiles, occasionally frowns slightly as if his bones are stuck, and nods frequently to show his approval for the food. This is not eating and chewing meat, it is just a silent speech with a cadence, making people watch him eating, but he doesn't feel like eating.
I was so hungry that I wanted to give it a try.
The chopsticks never leave your hand, the plate never hangs in the air, and with a smile, the meat and braised food will disappear into ashes!