Morty is relatively single-minded. After all, he has never been in love except for a crush. However, his sister Xia Mo is already an expert in love. She never leaves her mobile phone and has news all the time.
Xia Mo is very popular. From the last party, it can be seen that she can get along well with marginalized people and pretty girl groups. However, she made a choice. She chose to join the pretty girl group, striving to become the focus of the school and attract more people.
How many years have passed since the group gave up on marginalized people?
Her goal is very clear, which is to become the most popular girl and get a satisfying boyfriend. However, she has not yet realized what kind of group she is trying to fit into.
Xia Mo dressed up and changed her words and deeds according to the needs of the group, which could indeed achieve the purpose of integrating. However, she forgot that these people were all competitors, and her integration meant that she wanted to fight.
At the same time, in the eyes of many boys, this group of girls is the type that is easy to deceive. With a little effort, they can make a few successes without any psychological burden at all, because isn't this group dressing themselves up in a flashy way just to promote themselves?
How can boys of the same level take this kind of girl to heart when they promote themselves?
Beth didn't know about her daughter's condition before. It was only after her husband's conversation that she found out that her daughter had become like this. Her son was a little introverted at most, but he was a boy after all and would not suffer. But his daughter was only sixteen years old.
Just doing this, I really don’t know what she wants to do.
Beth was not like this back then. Of course, Beth's taste is different from that of Xia Ming. Xia Ming pursues the mainstream, so he works hard to dress himself up, accepts mainstream culture, and communicates with the circle all the time.
She was worried that she would fall behind. And Beth used to describe it completely as a coincidence. She obviously had lofty ideals and wanted to be a heart surgeon, but by accident, she fell in love with Jerry. Jerry was definitely not the mainstream perception.
That kind of outstanding male is not the focus of the school at all.
If anything, Jerry was so flattered that he really regarded Beth as everything to him. At least in the beginning, he tried every means to fulfill all of Beth's wishes. Beth was also blind, and in the end the two of them just...
Together.
Beth doesn't want her daughter to continue her current lifestyle: "We need to talk."
Xia Mo said there was nothing interesting to talk about. She is now trying to integrate into the mainstream of the school, and her parents should be happy. She is now actively socializing, making friends, and can dress up. She is completely an ideal female high school student.
"What do you want to say?" Xia Mo looked at his mother.
Beth organized her words: "Your current behavior is not worth advocating. Just because you girls have bad behavior at a young age, women in society are always objectified and looked down upon." This is a punch.
Xia Mo didn't expect that her mother would teach her boxing skills: "It can't be so serious. All my sisters are like this."
"You were not like this before. It was only in high school that you started to pay attention to your appearance and start thinking about your own dress. But this is not your preference. You are just catering to others. You have lost your autonomy. If women are like this, then in the future
We can only become the vassals of men."
"It's not that serious." Xia Mo didn't feel that she had done anything wrong at all. After all, as long as she could attract boys' attention, she had achieved her goal. Now she just wanted to have a vigorous love affair and touch herself.
"I also come from your age. There used to be many girls around me who liked to dress up. To be honest, they did attract a lot of boys, but this is not love. Today you dressed up beautifully and some boys were attracted to you, then tomorrow...
Boys will be attracted to other prettier girls. If you want to fall in love, you should find boys who don't care about your appearance. If a boy likes you because you are beautiful, then when you are old,
He will abandon you." Beth told her daughter seriously, hoping that her daughter could turn around and make peace.
But a sixteen-year-old girl would not be so honest: "Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I think everyone has a love for beauty. What does it matter if you like someone's appearance first? Look at Morty, he
It’s not just about being a nympho all the time, men are just so superficial, what’s more important is how we women use our methods, how to grasp superficial men so that they can’t live without us.”
Sure enough, a newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, and her daughter is really confident. However, Beth knows that her daughter does not have this ability, and it is impossible to control boys. She is afraid that her daughter will find a philandering boyfriend as her boyfriend, and she will be hurt in the end.
In Beth's view, her daughter is now studying dressing all day long, and there is no other charm that can attract men, and appearance is the most untestable thing. If appearance is unreliable, Beth can think of a woman's last weapon.
, that is the body, that is what she least wants to see. She really does not want her daughter to become a mother at a young age, and she does not want to become a grandmother at the age of thirty-five.
So she must correct her daughter's attitude, but seeing her daughter like this, Beth didn't know what to say. It seemed that her husband still needed to take action.
Jerry's changes during this period are obvious to all. His husband is no longer the loser he was before, but a loser who understands all kinds of truths. So Jerry is a loser just because his career has not started yet and he is still a small employee. However, his
Socializing is still very successful, and he has many more friends.
When Jerry was in danger, he was ordered to guide his daughter. Beth had already taught her boxing skills, but her daughter didn't accept it at all.
"Of course boxing is not effective for girls who have no interest in the school." Jerry said that his wife used the wrong method: "The essence of boxing is the relationship between profit distribution, but some people cover up the essence and regard boxing as a tool to make money, so using boxing is fundamental.
It is impossible to educate daughters. After all, boxing is just a tool for people with ulterior motives to make money. The real boxing method should be the distribution method. Only making women financially independent is the real boxing method. Unfortunately, if women are truly financially independent, those who want to make money will only
I'm afraid that the first one won't agree, because if women are truly independent, they won't be able to make money."
"Then what do you think we should do?"
"Of course it's the essence of the analysis. I'll call Morty and Xia Mo down together, and our whole family will listen to my opinion." Jerry was about to hold a family meeting.
"At the end of summer, today I mainly talk about your problems."
Xia Mo said that after her mother finished speaking, her father said, "It's really endless: I listen, you tell me."
"You are still young now, but you regard yourself as a participant in a talent show, and the boys you like as judges. You dress up in fancy clothes just to make the judges laugh. Do you think this is really good?" Jerry knows that young people
People like to watch anything, and talent shows are one of them.
"What's wrong? If you don't show off, you can't participate in the competition, and as long as you make the judges laugh, you can win the competition." Xia Mo said, isn't this great?
"I'm just making an analogy. I'm looking at your current behavior alone. That's certainly true. But feelings are not a competition, but a more complex system. It doesn't matter if you don't seize the initiative in the competition. Even
It doesn't matter if you lose. But you can't afford to lose emotionally, so you must take the initiative." Jerry will next analyze why he must take the initiative.