The feeling of love is always uneasy. Denci used to be slovenly, but now he can look in the mirror. He stares at the mirror to check his appearance, pays attention to his clothes, and even wants to cleanse himself of the cheap, humble and sour smell.
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"It seems that he really likes the girl in the coffee shop." Everyone can see it, after all, Denci has changed so much.
But can they really succeed?
The development of Denci and the girl went very smoothly, because they found that they had a lot in common, such as neither of them having gone to school, so they sneaked into the high school quietly and learned to swim in the swimming pool. It was so touching, Denci
It was passive, because all the ideas were put forward by girls, and Denji had never thought of sneaking into the school to do exciting things.
Denci had not thought about how his life would be different if he had a normal family and entered high school. But the girl had obviously thought about it. She had many ideas and was willing to share them with Denci, but Denci's imagination
The force is obviously not enough.
Although she has never been to school, she has seen more ups and downs than electricity and has been in contact with more high-end people, so her imagination has been opened up and she is more capable of fantasizing.
"Do you think Denci likes girls, or does he like girls' fantasy future?" Dulan asked a question that struck a chord in his soul. What exactly does Denci like about girls?
Everyone said that Dulan just likes to do things. Is it different whether he likes girls or likes girls' fantasies? Girls' fantasies are also part of girls.
"You don't want to break them up, do you?" Everyone looked at Duran.
Dulan wondered to himself, was he such a bad person in everyone's eyes?
He's not a bad guy, but he's too elusive and has no idea what Dulan will do, so it's entirely possible for Dulan to go up and cause trouble.
"I am a researcher, so of course I want to understand Denci's inner thoughts. Liking a girl and liking a girl's fantasies are different. If you like a girl, you like her strengths and weaknesses. And if you like a girl's fantasy about the future, once the future cannot
If you realize it, you may be devastated." Duran said: "After all, Denci is a young man without goals, and it is easy to regard other people's goals as his own goals."
"There is nothing wrong with treating other people's goals as your own. Aren't many people like this? When thinking about a problem, you don't need to think about the process of the problem, you just want to know the answer. For humans, using doctrine is very simple and effective
It’s not that easy to find your own goals, it’s better to take other people’s goals.” Kaji said, he felt that many times human beings live for others.
Does the so-called own goal really exist? Or can your goal really be achieved by yourself? If you can't achieve it, you will definitely need help from others, and those who provide help will also regard other people's goals as their own.
goals. So it’s okay to regard other people’s goals as your own goals, as long as you are happy with them.
Du Lan looked at the other party's serious expression and thought that he was also trying to find out the truth for his dead friends, not all for himself. The people in front of him, except for Ikari Yuantang, everyone else basically lived for others.
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That's right, it's enough for a group to have one goal, otherwise the power will be dispersed. If Denji and the girl can get married, then their family will have only one goal, so they can be harmonious.
There will be no more conflicts between the husband wanting to buy a game console and the wife wanting to buy a brand-name bag.
Dulan also thought of the realistic worlds he had been to. The protagonist was not the most powerful, nor the smartest, nor even the kindest, but the protagonist was the most determined towards his goal. No matter whether others would waver or not, but
The protagonist will never waver, so that the people around him will unite around the protagonist.
For example, Tang Monk in Journey to the West, the heroine in Quanquan Yuyu, and Liu Bang in history, they don’t need to be the strongest, they just need to be the most determined, unwavering no matter what danger they encounter, even if they are dedicating themselves.
Even a small life must stick to the goal. What they have to do is never back down, because when the protagonist's goal becomes everyone's goal, the protagonist must be prepared to sacrifice, because the protagonist's interests are already in conflict with the collective interests.
, the interests of the protagonist must give way to the interests of the group.
"You're right. Sometimes strong people don't necessarily have strength because of their strong will. They may just be lucky. They lack the necessary goals. It's okay to use your own strength to achieve other people's goals." Duran
Said that Ritsuko Akagi can be considered such a person, but in the end she and the commander fell out. In the movie version, she continued to help Katsuragi Misato fight against neurons. Duran continued: "Following people with goals is more important than people who propose goals.
Safety is more comfortable. People who follow goals have the same interests and goals. They will follow this goal because they like it. People who propose goals do not necessarily propose this goal because they like it. They may be forced to do so, or they may be forced to do so.
It may be a sense of responsibility, or it may be a mistake, and he has no choice but to shoulder the goal. When the goal is proposed, he will dedicate everything to the goal, his relatives, his own interests, and even his own life. Only those who follow the goal will
Unite around him. If the person who proposes the goal retreats, the team will fall apart."
"It's obviously the love between boys and girls, so why does your explanation sound so political?" It can explain both political means and the love between boys and girls.
If the girl is the one who proposes the fantasy, and the boy is the one who follows the fantasy, then the girl cannot violate the fantasy, and she must even sacrifice her life to maintain the fantasy. Only in this way can the boy follow it unswervingly.
In the original work, the girl did choose to return in order to maintain Denji's fantasy, but unfortunately she was plotted against by Machima, a bad woman, and she never met Denji until her death.
The girl knew very well that it was dangerous for her to come back, but she still chose to come back. This is the contradiction that people who propose fantasies must face. Should they die to maintain their fantasies, or should they give up their fantasies and save themselves. The girl chose the former because she also
I take my fantasy seriously and believe that the beautiful life in my fantasy exists.
So Duran is right. People who follow goals are different from people who propose goals. People who propose goals are more likely to encounter conflicts between goals and their own interests. People who follow goals are safer because their interests are basically the same as those of the goals.
It is not easy to choose one or the other. But to achieve the goal, both parties need to sacrifice and work together.
So if a boy and a girl really get married, they should be happy, because one is willing to die to defend the fantasy, and the other is willing to change himself to follow the fantasy. Dulan decided to help them. He had to meet the bad woman and stop her.
She ruined this beautiful first love.
Makima, the bad woman, is the mastermind behind Denji's tragedy, unlike Shinji Ikari and Agni. The tragedies of the latter two mainly come from the organization and the times, while Denji's tragedy is simply because of a bad woman.
Personal malice, organizational evil, and the tragedy of the times are really completely different causes of tragedy. It can be said that happy families are all alike, but unhappy families are all different.
(End of chapter)
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