Etiquette is a rule that binds everyone. It can control them subtly, or it can prevent them from treating others equally.
Under the etiquette system, different classes have different etiquette, and people of the same class will also have differentiated etiquette. For example, if the younger generation respects the older generation, even if two people are of the same class, the younger generation must respectfully say honorifics.
This system has advantages and disadvantages. The disadvantage is cannibalism, and the advantage is unity. The so-called unity means that strangers can quickly divide rights and obligations. It is very fast to divide according to etiquette, and if they are consistent with the outside world, they will not feel the etiquette.
eat human.
However, Du Lan must be very dissatisfied with the etiquette system at the moment, because it is not conducive to his rebellion. Only by breaking through the etiquette system can these people become the emperor's ministers and accept the management of the emperor's laws.
"How about going to the school first and mobilizing the students who are being bullied?" Dulan felt that he could start training the bullies first and let them break through the etiquette system.
In the island country, being bullied basically means squatting at home, transferring to another school, or committing suicide. There is no way to solve the problem. Both students and teachers accept it by default because it is beyond their control. It is a etiquette. If the teacher
Helping the bully means taking sides, and there is little chance of winning.
Besides, the teacher’s responsibility is to be loyal to the school, not to the students, just like a samurai is loyal to his lord. Under the etiquette system, there is only one person to whom loyalty can be given, so there is so-called foolish loyalty. Therefore, suppressing bad information for the school,
That's what teachers should do, not help students who are being bullied.
A student is bullied probably because he cannot abide by the etiquette and cannot pay the cost of the etiquette. This is not just a matter of violence, but also a manifestation of etiquette cannibalism. The etiquette requires everyone to
You have to behave in line with your status, and your food, clothing, housing and transportation must be in compliance with etiquette. You can't go beyond it, but you can't do it if you don't meet it.
If a top student’s grades are too good, it is against etiquette and he will be isolated. But if a bad student’s grades are too poor and cannot meet the requirements of the etiquette system, it will not work and he will be bullied. It is best to have a level similar to that of the etiquette system.
Therefore, top academics go to the schools of top academics, and ordinary people go to ordinary schools. It is most comfortable for people with the same etiquette and standards to be together.
Du Lan wanted to arouse the resentment of the bullied students, let them become the destroyers of etiquette first, and let them wake up.
"What are you going to do?" Dinisha asked. She felt that finding students who were bullied seemed to be a way. After all, the goal was clear. However, she felt that it was not just students. In fact, many social animals also had the need to awaken: "I see that all major universities
The social beasts in corporate consortiums also need to wake up. Many people hate team building activities, but they have to go there in order to maintain the etiquette. Their resentment is not small." "It's really hard to explain etiquette, it's useless.
Well, it still has some use when speaking to the outside world. Even if it is useful, the oppression of people is obvious. Indeed, contradictions are the unity of opposites, and everything has advantages and disadvantages." Dinisha said with emotion: "
Should I keep it or not?"
"This is not something we can decide, it depends on society's choice." Dulan said: "I can't decide whether the islanders want a ritual system. I can only give them a choice of an imperial system. If they are willing to choose an imperial system then, then
Just follow me with the gun in your hand. If they still think the etiquette system is better, then I will definitely kill a few people to scare the monkeys. If they are not afraid of death but still think the etiquette system is better, then I will give up."
Whether one can break through the etiquette system depends on each person, not Dulan. He just gives a choice. For the emperor, the world is his own private territory. It is best to only accept the emperor's family law and not want his subordinates.
People have a ritual system for holding groups together.
The emperor definitely doesn't like etiquette. Unfortunately, the emperor's laws cannot cover all aspects, such as weddings and funerals, which is a good example of etiquette. When a large group of relatives and friends gather together, there must be etiquette to determine the order, and only
Able to follow the local customs.
Therefore, there are still many etiquette systems in counties and counties, so Lu Xun talked about cannibal etiquette. In fact, there is no way to do this. As long as there is an organization, there must be various divisions of labor. If there is no better division of labor method to replace etiquette, then etiquette
Control is organizational power.
We have to solve the problem of who to listen to. For example, in a family, it is arranged according to seniority. If the patriarchal elder is gone, he must listen to his uncle. With such an arrangement, there is a leader and a subordinate, and the organizational strength will be there.
If there is no etiquette system, everyone will ask, why should we listen to my uncle? Can't we listen to Lao Wang next door? Lao Wang is next door, and my uncle is still in another village.
Although Lu Xun was heartbroken and denounced the etiquette of cannibalism, the result was that the etiquette was still running and could not be stopped at all. It was not until more powerful organizational forces appeared that the etiquette was suppressed.
So Dulan knew very well that it was not enough to seduce everyone's grievances. He also had to let everyone have laws to follow. As an emperor, he had to arrange family laws. However, after all, the emperor's family laws still could not penetrate into all aspects, and etiquette was difficult to replace.
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"I can take back the property rights and economic rights of the nobility, but it is difficult to deprive the nobility of their talent rights. If the nobility uses etiquette to control talents, they can still fight against the emperor." Dulan said: "So we still have to reform education so that everyone can accept it.
Family law."
"Let's cultivate a group of talents first. Even if we reform education, we still need talents to implement it," Dinisha said.
Dulan nodded, then go to the school to find the bullied students and unite them to become Emperor's disciples.
There is also a phenomenon of bullying here at Teidan High School. After all, keeping the etiquette is not a simple matter, and it may be lost if you don't pay attention. This is why the island country is said to be a repressive country. It does not mean that their life is boring.
It's because they have to abide by the etiquette at all times and have to be careful everywhere. If they are not careful, they may break the etiquette, which is a serious crime. It can range from being bullied to being punished by death.
Look for any students hiding on the rooftop, toilets, or lockers. If you violate etiquette, it is impossible to keep them in the classroom safely.
Sure enough, we found some students. These students were very haggard, and they were obviously mentally and physically unhealthy due to bullying. They didn't even know why they were being bullied, and they didn't realize that they were not being polite.
In fact, etiquette is implicit, and no one will teach them specifically. It seems that no one will teach them, but everyone will naturally think that "the uncle is the elder". So when they are bullied, they don't know where they are wrong.
Not doing a good job. Even being bullied in the end has become a manifestation of etiquette.
If you are being bullied, it would be rude if you resist. If the bully does not bully you for a day, it would be rude. If a bystander acts bravely, it will also be rude.
The atmosphere is here, everyone must be polite, only then can we be harmonious, this is etiquette.
"Don't you think it's rude? You're being bullied like this and you're not innovating. You're going to make the bullies bored. There's no sense of accomplishment even if they bully you. You're not following etiquette." Duran
To criticize these bullied students for not innovating and having a bitter look on their face, without any sense of satisfaction after being bullied, is to show that they do not follow etiquette at all.
When they are bullied, they still greet them with a smile and do it in spite of themselves? Then aren't they just cheap people?
"Uncle, are you a new teacher?" a student asked.
"No, I am a breakthrough in etiquette and a man who is about to reach the top of the island country. My name is Dulan, your emperor." Dulan stopped pretending, showed his cards, and directly admitted that he was the man who wanted to be the emperor.