As expected of a good sister, Zhou Xuemei immediately understood what she meant.
But there was no way to refute it.
Because even if her boyfriend takes care of her, he doesn't take care of everything... No, in fact, her boyfriend also does some actions well, but there is a hint of thoughtfulness that Ding Wei does and the other party does... Why?
Does it feel different?
Originally, Zhou Xuemei didn't necessarily want her boyfriend to be meticulous, but now when she compares her, she feels a little weird.
But then I thought about it, Ding Wei also has a boyfriend, but her movements are still so skillful, which proves that she does not rely on her boyfriend for everything... What I just thought was wrong!
But... speaking of boyfriends, Ding Wei’s boyfriend’s presence is too low!
A girl asked: "Ding Wei, it seems that you and your boyfriend have never dated together. I see you in the dormitory almost every day... Is he very busy at work?"
Ding Wei nodded: "Yes!"
Everyone admires and yearns for it.
"Senior brother, I'm so lucky. Not only did I start working in my junior year, but I also have such a good girlfriend like you..."
Ding Wei:???
To be honest, Xie Yan lost weight and went back to school to go through the formalities. His handsome face now has aroused many sighs! If you really want to say it, he is at the level of a school boy, and his professional ability is not bad.
It’s not that she is belittling herself, but that her boyfriend is really handsome now. Is there such a lack of market for tall, handsome and capable boys...
Isn’t it popular nowadays to look at boys’ faces?
How come there is such a sigh?
…
Zhou Xuemei sighed:
"That would be too lonely... wouldn't you feel lonely if your boyfriend can't be with you?"
She is currently in love, and whenever she thinks about not seeing her boyfriend for ten days and a half, she feels very uncomfortable. It is natural for her and others to have such doubts.
Xu Qiao still dislikes her boyfriend, so she said unceremoniously:
"You're just fresh and haven't gotten over it yet, right?"
"Besides, did you feel lonely before you fell in love? Aren't we companions?"
Zhou Xuemei then explained: "No, no, no, I didn't mean that..."
She just said it out of emotion: "I mean, Ding Wei, you...you..."
After thinking about it, I didn't know what to say.
Ding Wei understood.
In her previous life, there was a little girl in her department. Every time she fell in love, she was like a lightning bolt from the sky, and she would be entangled with each other vigorously and never wanted to separate for a moment...
For this reason, I will not hesitate to delay my work and have my performance and bonuses deducted.
Then when you are broken up in love, you must cry. The sky is dark and the earth is dark, the sun and the moon are dim, as if there is no life left without the other person...
Then.
Then no.
During her one year in the company, she maintained this momentum and had four boyfriends, each of them following a similar path...
Later...Ding Wei didn't know anymore.
After all, the work level is indeed not very good, and he only focuses on falling in love, so of course he should be fired.
…
Suddenly thinking of this, I don't think Zhou Xuemei is this kind of person, but she can understand the feeling of a little girl when she is in love...
Think about it this way.
It seems that Xie Yan was really clingy for a while?
Only now did I realize that Weiwei is really an incompetent person!
Give your boyfriend a call tonight!
She reflected for a moment.
…
This thought passed quickly, and Ding Wei quickly poured some hot water into Zhou Xuemei's cup, and then said: "I understand what you mean..."
Looking at her eyes that seemed full of understanding, Zhou Xuemei breathed a sigh of relief, and Xu Qiao didn't say anything more.
Just listen to Ding Wei continue to say:
"Our relationship is different from others."
"While he was in love, he had to write an average of three papers every day, conduct data analysis twice, and take professional courses from two colleges."
During that time, Xie Yan basically didn't go to bed until early in the morning.
"What about me? While studying, I will at least spend close to eight to ten hours writing a novel."
In this case, how can there be any time to be sticky?
I simply feel that there is not enough time, and chatting is a luxury.
Several girls gasped: Are you so busy?
Then I thought about the two stories serialized in "The Floating World": No wonder they are so well written, the energy spent on them is terrible!
Sure enough, no one's success is simple.
When they thought again that Ding Wei was indeed in the dormitory every day immersed in writing in front of the computer, everyone was immediately impressed.
…
But all the effort is worth it.
Ding Wei doesn't regret it now.
She just reminded: "Xuemei, when you fall in love, you must not fall behind in the classes in your department. And after you fell in love, did you become less interested in doing business than before?"
Chen Siyu wanted to buy some toilet paper that day, but Zhou Xuemei didn't have any in stock?
This was not possible before.
Because things like toilet paper are consumed basically every day, and the entire college is so big, the sales volume is actually quite considerable. Even if Zhou Xuemei doesn't earn much every time she carries paper, it can definitely be an income.
…
Zhou Xuemei remained silent.
Indeed, in the past month since I fell in love, I have been texting mostly during class, and I have turned down many business deals after class...
Including renting books, it has been almost a month since school started, and my income is only over 100 yuan.
Maybe the reason why Xu Qiao dislikes her boyfriend is because she knows about Zhou Xuemei's family situation.
Zhou Xuemei's hometown is in Huancheng, which is also a quite remote city. She grew up with her grandparents. Her parents worked in coastal cities and she raised a younger brother there.
She is a typical left-behind child.
Her grandparents themselves don't like girls very much. They are obsessed with saving money at home and want to provide subsidies for their grandchildren.
The couple gave money to each other and found a place. Zhou Xuemei learned how to set up a stall to earn living expenses when she was in high school.
Under such circumstances, if she hadn't studied hard enough, how would she have had the opportunity to go to school in the Imperial Capital?
After all, according to the grandparents' opinion, in a girl's family, high school education is already a good education. She originally thought that after her child graduated from high school, she would work with her parents... Who knew that she was so ambitious, not only did she go to high school?
, and even passed the university entrance examination, and it is such a famous university!
It's not that her parents don't like her, it's just that their love always seems weak in comparison.
Now that I see that my daughter is so promising, I won't stop her wholeheartedly, so the tuition fees are still paid as usual. The living expenses are set at 400 yuan per month. The 400 yuan includes clothing, materials, tour fees and other various expenses. In addition to
Besides, there is no money left, so she can save her money.
Zhou Xuemei had no intention of complaining.
In fact, since they basically haven't seen each other all year round, she has no feelings at all and is used to working alone.
Her parents worked in a coastal city. The two of them worked overtime every day and only earned 10,000 yuan a month. They supported an extremely remote old boy there just to get a household registration for his younger brother so that he could live in a big city.
go to school……
Under such circumstances, Zhou Xuemei feels extremely lucky to be able to go to school well.
…
But during this time...
Thinking of her behavior during this period, Zhou Xuemei couldn't help but feel a little ashamed. Seeing her expression next to her, Xu Qiao sighed softly.
Ding Wei didn't say anything either.
Chen Siyu had already inquired about her situation clearly, otherwise Ding Wei would not have come over. The little communicator is really worried about the future of her classmate!
…
Xu Qiao snorted coldly.
"I told you that you were stupid before, but you still don't believe me. You are very comfortable dating your boyfriend. Can he give you food or drink? You still have to rely on your mother to do part-time jobs to support you.
"
Zhou Xuemei's expression was not very good: "Qiao Qiao."
"It's my fault that my love affair delays my work. Don't put everything on his head."
"Besides, apart from his poor family conditions, do you think he has any shortcomings?"
"There are many shortcomings -"
Seeing the explosive smell, Xu Qiao was not to be outdone:
"I think he's being hypocritical and doesn't really respect you and love you!"
…
Zhou Xuemei's eyes turned red.
"What you think is what you think! It's me who is in love with him, not you!"
Several roommates saw that the situation was not good and quickly advised:
"Okay, okay, don't be angry..."
"A little misunderstanding is not worth it..."
"Let's have a meal tonight and you can observe..."
Ding Wei was watching this quarrel with her chin on her side, feeling that Zhou Xuemei's boyfriend had caused a bloody storm before she came forward...
You have to take a good look at it tonight.
…
But take a look and see.
Zhou Xuemei is quite right when she says that all these problems are her own fault. As long as she picks up her homework and work again, it is her own freedom to fall in love with anyone else.
No matter how much the classmate doesn't like it, it can't interfere with her decision.
In this regard, Ding Wei is still very sensible.
…
Zhou Xuemei’s boyfriend arrived late.
As soon as they met, he showed a shy and sincere smile. When his eyes met Ding Wei, he was stunned for a moment. Then he calmly looked away and asked Zhou Xuemei:
"This is……"
Zhou Xuemei also smiled sweetly:
"This is my good friend Ding Wei. I have never met you before, so I brought her here to have a meal with me today..."
She's not stupid either. She can't just bring someone else to see him, right?
The boy smiled again, nodded to Ding Wei and said, "Hello, I am Wang Hongguang."
Ding Wei smiled politely:
"Hello."
Wang Hongguang sat down, and Zhou Xuemei immediately handed him the menu: "Quick, quick, quick, we've all ordered, it depends on what you want to eat."
Wang Hongguang sat next to her, looking at the dishes already sketched on the menu, and asked his girlfriend sideways:
"What did you order?"
Zhou Xuemei pointed to him with a pencil:
"This small spring roll, this duck blood, and a portion of winter melon!"
Wang Hongguang looked at it: "The spring rolls here are not very good. There is also duck blood, which is sold outside. Who knows what it is? And this winter melon, it disappears as soon as it is boiled in the soup..."
"Why don't you order some corn, and I'll give you some fried pork belly."
Zhou Xuemei is not picky about food, and she has no objection at this moment: "Okay."
Xu Qiao, who was sitting opposite Ding Wei, snorted coldly, his voice so small that Zhou Xuemei didn't dare to hear it again.
Ding Wei raised her head and glanced at her, then at Wang Hongguang, who was thoughtfully choosing the bottom of the pot, but also said nothing.
When the mandarin duck pot was served, Wang Hongguang stood up on his own initiative: "Xuemei, let me make the sauce for you."
Zhou Xuemei nodded:
"Yeah."
"Cilantro, chives, sesame sauce, a little oyster sauce and spicy oil. You can add the rest as you see."
"You!"
Wang Hongguang shook his head:
"Last time, I told you that I have acne on my face, so I can't eat spicy food... The shacha sauce here is pretty good, why don't you try this flavor today."
Zhou Xuemei shook her head:
"No, I must have these basic combinations when eating hot pot, otherwise it will have no soul... Otherwise, you can put some Shacha sauce separately, and I will try the taste."
At this moment, Xu Qiao suddenly stood up and said to Ding Wei:
"Ding Wei, let's go make the sauce too."
Ding Wei naturally agreed.
Hot pot has a variety of ways to eat it in every place, and there is nothing authentic or unauthentic. Everyone just depends on the taste.
Ding Wei didn't have anything specific, she just added a little bit to anyone who was interested. However, Xu Qiao on the side was angry at this moment:
"Ding Wei, do you think what I said is right? That person is a hypocrite."
"I asked Xuemei to give her opinions, but in fact everyone disagreed and refuted them all. We had dinner together and I observed it carefully. If you don't believe me, look at the sauce he made for Xuemei later.
It must all be satay sauce.”
I also think the Sha Cha Sauce Ding Wei is good, but it would be a bit monotonous to eat all the hot pot with this sauce.
From the seasonings Zhou Xuemei asked for, we know that her taste is quite mixed.
…
Ding Wei nodded:
"Then let's just watch first. Don't express your opinions or show off your face... You are her best friend. Sometimes the more you object, she may treat you like a parent and can't help but want to fight against you.
.”
This "best friend" successfully appeased Xu Qiao.
She was a little embarrassed:
"I didn't mean to hit her..."
It's just that the authorities are confused, but those onlookers know clearly. Xu Qiao felt that he saw everything clearly.
Ding Wei shook her head and sighed.
Some people like to have control over themselves, while others like to listen to other people's arrangements. Each has its own characteristics and cannot be generalized. Let's take a look.
…
But Xu Qiao was right about one thing. When they sat down again, Zhou Xuemei found a plate of Shacha sauce in front of her.
She was a little unhappy.
"I'm going to make the sauce myself."
Wang Hongguang sighed with a smile:
"Okay, if you get angry recently, don't eat heavy food. If you want to eat, I will bring you here next time. You can make whatever you want."
He said and pushed her back again.
…
It is said to be a mandarin duck pot, but actually the spicy pot is not too spicy. The beef that is cooked in it is just right when you take it out and eat it. Ding Wei directly advised:
"Xuemei, try this spicy soup too. It's very good."
Zhou Xuemei immediately turned her chopsticks and put in the beef on hand.
Unexpectedly, just as he was about to roll over, he was caught again by Wang Hongguang:
"I told you, I can't eat spicy food recently."
Zhou Xuemei was a little unhappy: "I just complained casually. I don't care about acne."
"And those were all things that happened last time we had dinner, and they're all gone this time."
"That's not OK."
Wang Hongguang put the meat back into his bowl:
"Girls, it's better to eat something light and healthy."
Xu Qiao put the chopsticks on the plate with a click.
Ding Wei quickly picked up a piece of corn and went over:
"Come on, Qiao Qiao, this corn is very tender, have a taste."
Wang Hongguang also laughed: "Look, Xuemei, you have to study more and your friends eat more healthily."
"You silly girl, you still don't appreciate the good things you do..."
…
Ding Wei's expression was also very dull.
She just said as if unintentionally:
"Xuemei, I really envy you. Last time there was no penalty for cleaning the dormitory. Unlike us, we have to deal with random inspections from time to time..."
This matter was purely deceived by Lu Li, and now everyone knows it.
Zhou Xuemei is also very sympathetic——
Who would have thought that the clean place would be ruined by a pair of slippers thrown around. Lu Li showed too little respect for other people's work.
But it’s better not to say such bad things in front of her boyfriend, so she consoled her:
"It's okay. Isn't it common for dormitory points to be deducted? Just get through this month and you'll be fine."
Wang Hongguang said naturally from the side: "Xuemei, your idea is wrong. The most important thing for a girl is to know how to clean up the family. If she can't do such small hygiene in the dormitory as the standard, this girl will not know how to live.
After getting married and starting a business, the whole family will have no future..."
After saying that he noticed something was wrong, he smiled apologetically at Ding Wei: "Sorry, I'm not targeting you, I'm just expressing my personal opinion."
Ding Wei also smiled and said: "It doesn't matter, I don't plan to clean myself. If I have time to make more money, can't I hire a housekeeper in the future?"
"Throughout the ages, I have never seen a promising celebrity who got his name by relying on his wife's ability to do housework."
Wang Hongguang's expression was a little stiff, and then he buried his head in eating again.
Seeing that the atmosphere was not very good, Zhou Xuemei quickly smoothed things over.
She thought of the goods she had stored in the dormitory, and smiled now:
"It's not your fault, Ding Wei... But it's too dangerous. All my things are neatly stuffed under the bed. Otherwise, I will be responsible for deducting points."
After all, it is your own business, so there is no reason to deduct points and let your classmates take the blame.
Hearing this, Wang Hongguang paused with his chopsticks and asked: "Xuemei, your business is still going on."
Zhou Xuemei was stunned for a moment: "Yes."
…
With just that little money a month, you will inevitably want to buy some gifts for your boyfriend after you fall in love. If you don’t make money, where will you spend it?
I was a little too lax before, so I have to work harder next time!
Wang Hongguang was a little unhappy.
"Didn't I tell you before? You don't have to worry about this at all. The most important thing in college is to study hard."
"You're a girl. You can just keep the hygiene in your dormitory very good. Why do you still have to do these small businesses? Go to several floors for a matter of 20, 30 cents... If you tell me, people don't think you are the boyfriend.
Very useless?"
Zhou Xuemei's eyes have turned red.
"What do you mean? Do I expect you to support me when I fall in love with you?"
"Besides, I am doing these businesses and making money based on my own skills, so why can't I do it? What do you mean by running up several floors for 20-30 cents? That's what I should do!"
If you want to make money but don't want to endure hardship, how can there be such a truth in the world?
"Wang Hongguang, do you think it's embarrassing for me to do business?"
"no……"
Wang Hongguang quickly put down his chopsticks and pinched her palm:
"I think it's too hard for you. As a girl, wouldn't it be nice for you to be happy every day and dress up at home and enjoy the blessings?"
"Why do you have to work so hard?"
"My body is exhausted and I feel bad."
With these words, Zhou Xuemei was calmed down again in just a few words.
She was happy again.
However... there were so many people present, and everyone pretended not to hear and ate desperately. Zhou Xuemei was embarrassed and slowly pulled her hand back, and started eating again in silence.
Ding Wei suddenly asked:
"Xuemei, can you cook? I can't. My mother always dislikes me! How can a girl not know how to cook? I will probably be disliked if I get married in the future."
Zhou Xuemei was stunned by this sudden question.
She does know how to cook. After all, her grandparents are old and it is not convenient for them to work.
But that's only if you know how to make it. It's impossible to say how delicious it is.
So at this moment he said humbly:
"I'm not very good at..."
Wang Hongguang smiled:
"Don't worry, Xuemei. I don't mind it. But cooking is very simple. You can get it after a little learning. Xuemei, don't worry. My mother is very good at cooking. Let her teach you later."
Ding Wei:……
Xu Qiao was already red with anger, but Ding Wei was still so good-tempered:
"Then Xuemei, you will definitely have a hard time in the future. You have to go to work during the day, and you have to cook when you come back... But it's okay. A family has to be maintained. You cook and your boyfriend washes the dishes. It's a perfect match.
.”
Wang Hongguang smiled:
"I'm a grown man, I really can't do the job of washing dishes, but..."
He turned around and looked at Zhou Xuemei affectionately:
"Don't worry Xuemei, I will work hard to make you happy from now on, and you don't have to go to work at all."
After repeated questions and answers, even if Ding Wei didn't say anything else, everyone felt that something was wrong.
Only Zhou Xuemei and Wang Hongguang, one was immersed in her boyfriend's sweet words and the other felt good about themselves, without noticing at all.
Several girls were silent.
Apart from the boiling heat of the hot pot, there was no movement at all on the entire table.
Now, even Zhou Xuemei felt something was wrong.
She asked half jokingly, half seriously:
"Wang Hongguang, why are you so good at talking? You support me when you don't go to work?"
Wang Hongguang laughed:
"I'll support you. Besides, it's so dangerous for a girl to go to work, and it's not convenient to get pregnant and give birth to a baby. My mother is not in good health, so why don't you just spend more time with her at home and give her a grandchild to make her happy?"
"Don't worry about anything else."
Zhou Xuemei blushed.
So many people are saying this...
She was obsessed with authority and was stupid. But Xu Qiao was beside her, and finally couldn't restrain her anger:
I just don’t like it!
It’s just that 10,000 people don’t like it!
No matter how considerate you are, you won’t be pleased with it!
"Xuemei, have you ever thought about what kind of job you would like to find in the future? If you come out of our major, the starting salary of a job may be more than 3,000 yuan. I think living in the imperial capital will still be very stressful."
In the final analysis, their major has no employment advantages.
Zhou Xuemei, who was only a freshman in college, felt a little melancholy when she heard Xu Qiao's question:
"yes."
…
Xu Qiao took advantage of the trend and changed the topic:
"I remember what your boyfriend studied? Finance, right? The job prospects are very good now. I don't know how much he can earn in a month's salary. After all, he has to support you and his mother. What if there is another one?
My child is actually under a lot of pressure, Xuemei, you must help him lighten the burden!"
Zhou Xuemei is a very practical girl and is used to doing business. At this moment, she made an estimate in her mind:
"It's impossible to support a family without seven or eight thousand a month..."
When I said this, I was shy at first, and then suddenly reacted——
Even if the employment prospects in the financial industry are good, Wang Hongguang’s school is not very good. Whether he can get this salary by then is another matter!
Moreover, this salary only guarantees basic living needs.
After all, his family's conditions are not very good, his mother is in poor health, and his family rents a house in a village in the city. If he graduates and buys a house, he will need to borrow some money...
Forget about having a baby and having a wedding.
The financial pressure is so great!
Zhou Xuemei was so attracted that she couldn't help but think about the future.