Bai Xiujuan wanted to be like before, swallowing her anger and saying nothing when her child's aunt spoke.
After all, I was scolded by my child’s aunt several times and lost 8,000 yuan during the Chinese New Year, which left me lacking the last bit of confidence.
All she can do is shrink herself into a quail and remain silent as the background.
It's a pity that today is not the Chinese New Year, and there are only two people in the room, she and Ding Haiyang. Ding Liping can only hate her brother, but she will not scold him. After all, in her opinion, the child is so big.
, her brother has already become an adult, and it is no longer enough to educate him as he did when he was a child.
Therefore, as the topic continues, the focus still returns to Bai Xiujuan.
Bai Xiujuan was willing to bear the blame for Ding Haiyang.
The relationship between them as husband and wife has always been so good precisely because of this understanding - but what's the use!
No son!
She didn't give birth to a son!
Bai Xiujuan only felt that Ding Haiyang was a nice person and he didn't dislike her because she didn't have a son.
However, if I had a son, I wouldn’t have been scolded so badly by my aunt in front of everyone during the Chinese New Year.
How do you still move around among relatives and friends now?
…
Also, it is not impossible to buy insurance from your aunt. Although everyone now says that insurance is a scam, there are several people in Bai Xiujuan's unit who are doing it. She is not unmoved by what they say.
In fact, she had already planned it.
When they are about to retire, let Ding Wei use a few months' salary to buy them a pension-type insurance that returns money every month, so that they can save a little if their daughter can't rely on it in the future.
But isn’t it that Ding Wei is still in school?
Unexpectedly, the eldest sister Ding Liping has joined this industry now and is seeing success.
Really...
…
I have to say that it is not impossible to sell insurance in the hands of the eldest sister. It is interesting to buy one and two insurance policies, and it can also change the eldest sister's view of them.
In the future, if the eldest sister makes more money, won’t she have to subsidize them as their younger brothers and wives?
After all, they are all used to subsidies.
Moreover, Bai Xiujuan is good at pretending to be wronged and crying about being poor, unlike Ding Haihe's family, who keep making money in silence and never mention it.
On the contrary, even Ding Limei, who had some money on hand, still thought about sticking it to them - not much, and it would not affect her family and life, but anyway, when money was tight, she would just speak up, and she would always find a reason.
After all, he has been an obedient and sensible younger brother since childhood.
…
——But that’s not possible now.
Bai Xiujuan touched her belly.
If she hadn't noticed it before, she would have given up long ago.
I got a call from Weiwei that day and found out that some people in my workplace secretly gave birth to a second child, but they were all stupid and wanted a little girl.
There are several children whose second child is one or two years old!
Bai Xiujuan is worried.
Then she discovered that the people did not take action on this matter, and the officials did not investigate it. They just said it was a relative's child, and no one cared about it.
Bai Xiujuan didn't know if it was like this across the country or just in her city, but she finally saw her hope, so she went to the hospital the next day to find acquaintances and get the ring removed.
Next, can't you slowly recuperate your body?
This medicine, that medicine, this supplement, that supplement, everything you need to take must be arranged.
Ding Haiyang was also very attentive.
In the past two months, the couple really didn't dare to spend their wages elsewhere. They were all focused on the future of their male son.
Even though there is no trace of the other party now.
Under such circumstances, while saving money for my son, I also need to take care of my body and prepare for the birth of a child. How can I have any extra money to buy my eldest sister’s insurance?
This insurance lasts for ten to twenty years, no, no, no... They can't bear the burden on their children. If they want to buy it, they have to wait for Ding Wei to buy it for them!
His resistance was so obvious that Ding Liping didn't meet him just once or twice. He came back to talk about it these few times, and every time he said the same old words.
She was also impatient, thinking that I could charge so much money in a month. If I didn't really think the insurance was good, why would I be able to come here two or three times like this?
I can't even take a sip of hot tea.
…
She sighed and said sincerely:
"Hayang, I'm going to tell you something heartfelt this time."
"I can get 15,000 yuan in salary plus bonus this month. I really don't need your commission of several hundred yuan. The reason why I let you buy it is to give you a guarantee."
"Think about it, as people get older and their health gradually deteriorates, are age-related diseases also coming?"
My aunt now feels that her body is no better than when she was young.
No, my blood pressure will rise at every turn, which is really worrying!
Because of this, what she said became more sincere.
"You said, you said that if our children don't get married and start a business, we will be ruined. What a burden that must be!"
"It's fine if I'm not sick, but if I do, just in case."
"We only have one child. When the time comes, the child will have to go to work and take care of his own family. We won't be able to do all the things we want!"
…
Putting herself in Auntie's shoes, if this happened to Fan Haitao, it would be really...
This mother is going to be heartbroken!
Of course, it is undeniable that the reason why she had this idea of putting herself in someone else's shoes was because she still had to attend two lectures if she wanted to sell insurance. This was also what she felt.
"We buy insurance not to say what we want, but simply to buy comfort for ourselves."
"If something bad happens, I will have money in my hand and once the hospitalization expenses are reimbursed, there will still be some left."
"As long as you have money, you don't have to worry about it, right? Otherwise, how much money can we save in just a few decades just by saving our wages?"
Bai Xiujuan endured it again and again, and now she said directly:
"Sister, this is wrong. We have raised a child like this. If anything happens, we will definitely have to rely on her!"
Ding Liping's words were interrupted, and her face looked a little unsightly, and she asked:
"What if the child doesn't have time to come?"
"For example, if you work overtime and the boss comes over, is it possible that you can lose your job because of this?"
Bai Xiujuan spoke eloquently:
"You have to come even if you don't come. This is what they should do. Otherwise, what's the point of raising children? It's just to provide for the elderly."
Ding Liping put the water glass on the table and stared at her:
"Your company is really blind when it comes to recruiting you! In those days, they all said they wanted to improve young people, but look at how bad you look like."
"What age are we in? Can our thinking be more progressive?"
"Even in ancient times, parents and mothers were still thinking only about their children's future!"
"What do you want to do with raising children? Raising children means nothing! Just having children naturally will make your family more complete!"
"You raise your child and look happy. What path will the child take in the future? If you have the ability to pave the way for him, but if you don't have the ability to let him start his own business... and you will provide for him in old age... How old are you to say this? You have no hands or feet.
.”
The aunt thought she had a full status in Lao Ding's family, but Bai Xiujuan and Ding Haiyang refused to let go when they came several times. In fact, her self-esteem was quite frustrated.
At this moment, the artillery fire was concentrated, and Dududu hit Bai Xiujuan——
"What's the matter? Listen to what you mean. The child still has to be by your side every day! Then she will have no family and career?"
"If you have this, why don't you just change your nationality and hire a servant?"
Then he turned around and educated his younger brother:
"Ocean, you can't listen to your wife's words!"
"It's right for our children to be filial to us, but it's also right for us parents to care for our children. This has to come and go. It's the same as being with your friends."
"But when it comes to caring for our children, we parents must have a certain degree of restraint and we can't dote on them anymore."
"Children should be filial to us, and they must have a certain level. They can't just stay at home and wait for them every day without doing anything...it's not like they don't have the ability to take care of themselves!"
"Even if you are no longer able to take care of yourself, you are not with me 24 hours a day. If you stay at home with you, where will you get the money for medical treatment?"
She was so angry that after speaking, she quickly took a few breaths and drank a large amount of water.
Ding Haiyang nodded quickly: "Yes, yes, listen to the eldest sister, listen to the eldest sister..."
Ding Liping got angry when she saw her like this!
I knew it was perfunctory, but I couldn't say anything more.
She took a deep breath and felt that her blood pressure was a little unstable again. Now she calmed down again and turned her finger on Bai Xiujuan.
"Xiujuan, let me tell you, Weiwei is a child of our Lao Ding family, and she has a bright future!"
"Don't think that you are doing her a favor by giving her 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses! As a parent, you are capable and don't break your bones, so you should give her this. This is your responsibility for raising a child.
Responsibility."
"If you don't want to give it, fine! You can buy clothes and shoes for your children! If your meal card is full, you can pay whatever fees the school has to pay. The remaining one hundred yuan a month is enough.
"
Ding Liping's tone was full of disdain when she said this, because she knew that Bai Xiujuan couldn't do it at all.
"Just count how many clothes your child has grown up and how many clothes you bought for her, and then look at your wardrobe..."
Bai Xiujuan's figure is similar to Ding Limei's, and Ding Limei has a habit of being frugal and often comes to pick up clothes that Bai Xiujuan doesn't wear.
Sometimes I help clean up the wardrobe, but when I open it, my dear, there is no room for my daughter.
There are two large wardrobes in the whole house, and it is impossible to find a few pieces of clothing for my children except their school uniforms.
Ding Limei also lamented this matter in front of Ding Liping.
However, the children were in high school at that time, and they were from other families after all, so they couldn't say anything more and only mentioned it twice.
…
Bai Xiujuan quickly smiled and said: "Sister, that's not what I meant. I just thought that we should also raise a child. It is indeed right for her to be filial to us when the time comes. We must count on her to provide for her in old age."
Ding Liping glanced at her.
"You can count on your pension, but don't think too much. If you get sick, she will take care of you and serve you well in the hospital. If you feel uncomfortable, she will take you for a checkup... You really can't take care of yourself anymore."
Cook for you or hire a nanny to do it for you, whatever she has the ability to do."
These metaphors made Bai Xiujuan feel uncomfortable all over.
This is not over yet.
"But you don't have anything to do. You just say that this is necessary and that is necessary...then giving living expenses to the children is also necessary!"
"I'm embarrassed to say anything to you no matter how much you gave me before."
Seeing that Bai Xiujuan was about to open her mouth again, the aunt quickly stopped her: "Don't call me poor. You dare to lose 8,000 in a game of cards. You have no money, how dare you play like this?"
"You still want your children to serve you filially... If we don't make a big deal to raise Weiwei's living expenses from 400 to 600 to 1,000, then you plan to use 400 yuan a month to support her for the past four years...
…”
"The children eat rice bran at school, but you wear gold and silver at home."
"Do you think if we just go on like this, will we still have feelings?"
"Even if you take care of yourself when the time comes, will she be able to take good care of you?"
It's impossible not to complain. Who doesn't have a temper?
My aunt said this knowingly.
Her parents didn't care about anything at first and didn't want to raise any of their four children properly. Ding Liping shouldered the burden of the family when she was only a teenager.
As a result, life finally got better, but the old couple's health was not good, so she, the eldest sister, did her best to take care of them...
But as much as parents care about their children, children will also care about their parents.
Anyway, she could only say that she tried her best.
But it was hard to say this to my sister-in-law.
…
Bai Xiujuan's face was full of disapproval of the eldest sister's words.
"It's related by blood... We are his parents, so she has to be like this."
I bother!
Ding Liping can't make sense with this donkey's brain.
Now he was getting even more angry: "We are still related by blood! How much is blood relationship worth? Feelings are mutual. If you don't pay, you only think about others repaying you. Why don't you just go to bed?"
"Don't think about your children. When you get married and start a business, there will be elderly people, families, and children. How much time will be given to you?"
Bai Xiujuan's eyes widened and she murmured: "Sister, look, it's useless to raise a girl."
"Once you get married, you become part of the family."
"We have already thought about it. When the time comes, we will let Weiwei enter the work unit and find a young man in the work unit... We will be close to each other and we can take care of each other."
…
Ding Liping remained silent.
She stared straight at Bai Xiujuan. If she could be realized, she would have penetrated her countless times.
"She's from Ming University, she's from Ming Zheng University! Do you want her to come back to our unit and get a salary of 1,500 yuan a month?"
To be precise, the salary of an intern is only 700 yuan, and the internship is required for one year.
The unit salary is like this, there are performance bonuses and so on, but it mainly depends on the years of service. The longer you work, the higher the salary you can get. The ceiling for new employees in the unit is also there.
Moreover, even if you get into a work unit, if you are from Mingzheng University, you can get into a work unit in the Imperial Capital even if you are in the Imperial Capital!
However, the procedure is a little more complicated and requires some effort at home.
"You're still looking for a child at work... Why do you think so! Huh?"
"You should have made such arrangements earlier. Why did Weiwei have to work so hard to go to school? What university should she go to? Just go to 32, and it's time to go to work now."
Bai Xiujuan lowered her eyelids.
That wasn't her plan at the beginning. Who would have thought that this child's grades in high school would skyrocket as if he had taken some medicine...
I accidentally got into college.
But let’s put it another way, this university is good and the academic qualifications are very high. In the future, my husband’s family will also be able to take a good look at me.
Then they will also enjoy the blessings.
But Bai Xiujuan endured this and remained silent.
…
Ding Liping was still talking.
"The child has no ability, so we have to arrange a good way, but this one obviously has the ability and rushed out! Don't ask her how to become rich. In the future, she can change to a big city and raise the starting point of the next generation. That's not right.
Okay?"
"Tell me, why are your eyelids so shallow?"
Bai Xiujuan said nothing.
She definitely doesn't agree with this.
For a girl to be born and raised to such a big age by her parents, she must stay with her and be filial.
Otherwise, wouldn’t it be a waste of money?
…
It didn't make sense to talk to such a person. Ding Liping didn't want to say anything more and sighed:
"Come on, you all know what I'm here for today. I originally planned to ask you to buy medical insurance and accident insurance."
"It's not expensive. If you pay a thousand dollars a year, you will have a guarantee in the future. After all, if something bad happens, a trip to the hospital will cost you everything... Why bother?"
"But... I think about the way you are, it seems that you are determined not to spend money. Then forget it, anyway, I have done my best, and I have said what I need to say, and I will not force it."
My aunt used retreat as a way to advance and said this, but in fact she did give up a bit.
Ding Haiyang still looked silent, but he refused to let go.
"Sister, I...it's not that I don't want to buy it, it's mainly because in the past few months, hasn't Weiwei's living expenses been raised? It's 1,000 yuan a month, and our life is a bit stressful."
Ding Liping fell silent.
The whole room fell silent. Bai Xiujuan moved her butt uneasily, and saw Ding Liping standing up angrily:
"Fart, when did Weiwei get that thousand yuan? Isn't it just the Chinese New Year when she took the living expenses you gave her for March?"
"You haven't given it this month, right?"
"How dare you mention Weiwei? How much would you be willing to give me if I didn't offer you 1,000 yuan a month?"
"Besides, I only gave it once, and you still have the nerve to use the child as an excuse!"
Auntie got really angry the more she thought about it.
"Let me tell you, Weiwei has wanted to buy insurance for you for a long time. They buy it for everyone in big cities to provide protection for their families. If she hadn't really had no money..."
Bai Xiujuan and Ding Haiyang looked at each other, anger welling up in their hearts at this moment.
——Let’s just say, why did the child’s aunt suddenly start working in insurance!
He still insisted on persuading them to buy... Feelings were Weiwei's fault again!
Why can't the old couple enjoy their happiness?
The two people's eyes turned red with anger. Ding Haiyang glanced at Bai Xiujuan's belly again and said:
"Sister, to tell you the truth, I can't spend my money carelessly now. I have to save it. We really can't give Weiwei the 1,000 yuan."
Ding Liping:……
She was confused.
What does it mean that I can’t give it anymore...?
What follows is a wave of anger:
"What are you talking about? Are you talking like a parent? Weiwei has just turned 18 and her child is in school. You really expect your child to work hard on his own!"
Ding Haiyang said directly: "Then why can other students do it? They even earn their own tuition fees."
The implication is that I don’t want to pay tuition fees anymore.
Ding Liping sneered, she no longer had the patience for her younger brother, and now she said directly: "Either my parents live in a ravine, or I have no parents...who do you think you are?"
"In your family, Weiwei can't even receive poverty subsidies. Now...why, you don't even want to pay tuition fees?"
Auntie put her hands on her hips.
"If you dare to do this, Ding Haiyang, do you believe it or not? Our family will be cut off from now on! Don't recognize me as your eldest sister from now on. I don't have a younger brother like you."
It is absolutely impossible not to recognize the eldest sister. The eldest sister's family is well-off, loose-handed, and has many connections. When his son grows up, he will have to ask the eldest sister to help arrange a good apartment!
At this moment, Ding Haiyang said quickly: "Sister, please listen to what I have to say... It's not that we don't want to give, it's that our financial strength doesn't allow it - I'm going to have a son!"
——
A thunderbolt struck Ding Liping on this sunny day, making her dizzy.
Her incredible eyes moved from Ding Haiyang to Bai Xiujuan, and then from Bai Xiujuan's face to her belly.
Chubby...a little bit belly-y...
"This...how many months has it been?"
Bai Xiujuan blushed, glanced at Ding Haiyang angrily, and said quickly: "Sister, no, not yet!"
"I'm still recuperating my body now. I just got the ring, and I won't get it for another year."
The doctor said that by that time, the child will be healthy and in good health.
…
Ding Liping's eyes darkened.
"You are blinded by fat."
"How old are you now? Now that you have a son, what do you want to do?"
Bai Xiujuan said shyly: "Sister, I am not even 40 this year, so I can give birth."
Ding Liping glared at her: "Old sows can give birth, why don't you?"
A white handkerchief.
This...isn't right!
Doesn’t the eldest sister want Haiyang to have a queen?
Here, Ding Haiyang was also thinking in sync with hers.
Asked: "Sister, don't you want me to have a queen?"
"I miss you so much!"
Ding Liping was so angry that she wanted to hit someone:
"There is a queen and a queen...Isn't Weiwei your child?"
"If you're in your thirties or forties and you're having a second child, it doesn't matter whether your health is in danger or whether your physical strength can keep up... I'm just talking about raising children now. Can it be the same as it was in the past?"
The aunt settled the accounts for them with her fingers:
"You two only earn 6,000 yuan a month, your family has 1,500 yuan a month for living expenses, and you have to give Weiwei 1,000 yuan for living expenses. Your child's annual tuition is 7,000 yuan. You can't save even 50,000 yuan a month."
Hundreds?"
"There are only two to three thousand yuan left. If you don't save some pension for yourself and some dowry for your child, you will have a second child. Do you know how much it costs to raise a child now?"
The key is not to mention other people's families. How can Ding Liping, a biological sibling, not know the virtues of her younger brother and his wife?
Before I got married, I knew that I was always asking for money, and after I got married, I cried out for money with my daughter-in-law. I was able to spend lavishly, and when I married a daughter-in-law, I was equally lavish.
Just look at the clothes, shoes, watches, fishing poles in the house...and ask Ding Haiyang how much money he has left in his pocket.
Look at the rings, earrings, and necklaces on Bai Xiujuan...
Ding Liping said that she knew his family background. He actually didn't have much. At the very least, he could make a living by working in the same company. He had already saved four to five million yuan.
Just the two of them, having 100,000 yuan on hand is incredible!
It is estimated that there are not even 100,000.
Just two people who are so lazy, don't want to make progress, and still want to have a second child... How to raise a child? Do you want to drink the northwest wind?
I'm really frustrated and crazy.
…
Ding Haiyang didn't get the expected joy, and now he was sullen.
"Sister, didn't I just tell you that we can't afford insurance, and we can't afford Weiwei's living expenses... Her children are working on their own now. It's good enough that I pay her tuition, but I really can't afford the living expenses.
Already."
“Wouldn’t this be enough to save a share?”
He said it with confidence, and now he will calculate the accounts carefully with his eldest sister.
"When Weiwei starts working in the future, she definitely can't get married right away. Can't she get an extra salary?"
"Besides, people are not allowed to give a bride price when they get married. She is from a prominent family in Minming. When the time comes, the bride price will be the highest among us. No matter what, it will be one or two hundred thousand! She can buy her brother a big house.
.”
Ding Haiyang said with a solemn expression:
"If it's going to be hard, it will only be hard for a few years. We can survive it."
As they spoke, the couple's eyes focused on their bellies, as if Bai Xiujuan was really pregnant.
They said dreamily: "We have to save all our money for our future sons. Our sons are the ones who can really help us provide for us in old age. If our daughters are not good enough, they are unreliable."
Ding Liping was exhausted physically and mentally.
"Then...what if she is still a girl?"
"That can't be done!"
Ding Haiyang said seriously: "We have made an agreement with an acquaintance in the hospital to see him in advance."
…
"Look ahead, look ahead..."
Ding Liping held a cup in her hand and was anxiously running around the room. A wave of anger really shot from the soles of her feet to Tianling Gaier, burning her whole body and losing all reason.
Is this called patriarchal preference?
After all, Haiyang and his family only think about themselves. In fact, they just want to find a complete guarantee for themselves when they grow old!
My daughter feels unreliable and has to rely on her son.
They didn't even think about it. With their personalities, they were able to teach a child as good as Weiwei, which was a blessing from God.
If you raise a little one again, will your son be able to provide for them when he grows up? Or is that another matter?
Not to mention, it also depends on gender first...
Her body, Bai Xiujuan's iron body, is dying!
How many more babies do you want to have?!
She took two steps left and right, then suddenly couldn't control her emotions and smashed the glass on the ground:
"Snapped!"
The cup shattered on the floor.
"ah!"
Bai Xiujuan was startled.
Ding Liping grabbed the huge black bag next to her and looked at the two of them:
"You are willing to treat your daughter so badly for the sake of a son you don't have... You are obviously extremely selfish! How could I have a brother like you?"
After she finished speaking, she turned around and left.
She was still going down the stairs. She was really angry and angry at the moment. She also felt aggrieved for Weiwei. She couldn't hold it back, but even a strong woman like her aunt couldn't hold it back. Tears fell down one by one, covering her face.
There are traces of liquid foundation when it washes out.
She hurriedly pulled out a piece of toilet paper to wipe her tears. When she saw the phone, her heart moved, and she couldn't help but make another call.
"What a sin...I, Weiwei, why did you end up with such parents...Why is your child so pitiful..."
