Just imagine, with this kind of education method, how can it be possible to educate a good son? How can it improve the son's grades? If he fails to do well in the exam, he may be beaten. So do you think he will be very nervous when he takes the exam?
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Self-confidence is the key factor for a person's success in doing things. If a student has no self-confidence in learning, how can he study well?
I think everyone is thinking about how I raised such an outstanding son. Here, I don’t want to go into too much detail. I only want to say one thing, educating children is to make them confident. A child without confidence will achieve nothing.
.And a child who is full of confidence in himself will definitely be able to succeed in his career.
Okay, that’s all I have to say about how I educate my son. I can only think of these things. If you find it useful, you can experience it. If you find it useless, of course, don’t take it to heart.
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After Li Yun finished speaking, he bowed to everyone again and then went down calmly.
‘Papa! Papa! Papa!---’ After everyone saw Li Yun finish speaking, they started to applaud her again.
Li Yun didn't know what she said. After she went down, she sat next to Li Yi and asked, 'Son, how did I say it?'
Li Yi smiled and said, 'Haha, mom said it very well! Isn't everyone's applause a good comment!'
‘Well! What you said makes sense. I’m afraid that what I said is not good and makes everyone laugh.’ Li Yun still has a little bit of vanity.
At this time, Zhou Lihong looked at everyone and said, "Li Yi's mother just said it very well. To educate a child is to make him confident. If you teach him all day long, then how can he have confidence in himself? A
How can a child who is afraid of his parents do well in school and get good grades in exams?
So, what Li Yi's mother said just now is very good. Children must be confident in learning. They cannot be made to feel afraid of learning. How can a child who is afraid of learning learn well?
Okay, I won’t say anything more, let’s continue the meeting! Just now Li Yi’s mother talked about some things about how to educate children. We all must also feel that it makes sense. However, now everyone can first talk about Li Yi
I'll put aside what Mother Yi said. After we finish the meeting, you can understand what she said.
We now want to listen to how Li Yi studied. How he achieved such excellent results in the college entrance examination. I think this is the focus of our conference this time. We must listen carefully to what Li Yi is.
How to say it. We all must keep the content of his speech in mind. After we go back, we must also try to figure it out. Only in this way can we learn some knowledge from Li Yi's speech that we didn't know before.'
After Zhou Lihong said this, he looked at Li Yi and said, 'Okay, we have invited Li Yi, the top scorer in the provincial college entrance examination, to come to the stage to speak.'
After hearing Zhou Lihong's words, everyone immediately started to applaud. And the applause was very enthusiastic. After all, Li Yi was the protagonist of this conference.
Ever since Qingyang City TV station broadcast the fact that Li Yi became the top scorer in the province's college entrance examination in this college entrance examination, everyone has become very familiar with Li Yi. I feel that Li Yi is a very good classmate. There must be a lot in him that is worthy of everyone.
Something to learn.
At this time, Li Yi walked to the stage calmly. Like her mother, he first turned around and bowed to everyone. After that, Li Yi began to speak.
However, Li Yi did not sit down, but walked to the front of the podium.
Why did Li Yi do this? He had his own ideas. He felt that all speakers must stand, not sit. And they should try to be as close to the audience as possible, not too far away.
People who give speeches quickly like to sit and feel that speaking this way is not tiring. In fact, the more you sit, the more tired you will feel. Because when you sit, your freedom is restricted, and you will feel more restricted.
You can't let go at all. If you do this, you won't be able to speak well.
This is because when a person is sitting, he will develop a kind of inertia. As the saying goes, sitting there makes you want to lie down. When you sit there, you will feel more comfortable than lying there. Sitting there makes you feel a little uncomfortable.
Can't lift my spirits.
And if you stand there, you will feel very energetic. Because if you want to stand there, you cannot be too relaxed, and you have to keep yourself in a very sober state. Why do our teachers have to do this to the students?
Say 'pick up your spirits'. Don't say 'get your spirits up'.
This shows that the human spirit needs to be lifted up intentionally by oneself. It does not mean that you have the spirit yourself. This spirit is lifted up, not dropped from the sky.
When we stand there and give a speech, we will feel energetic and passionate. People will have endless things to say, and they will feel that speaking is a happy thing.
This is the case for Li Yi. This is not the first time he has spoken at a conference. He has had several experiences before. Now that he is speaking in the auditorium of the city government, he is naturally familiar with it.
Li Yi stood in front of everyone, and then began to talk endlessly.
'Hello everyone, hello leaders. The topic I'm talking about today is called - the importance of interest. I think for everyone sitting here, when it comes to the word interest, it must be familiar.
Everyone knows what this interest means.
But who among us would have thought about the role of interest in our lives? When we talk about these two words, we often feel that they are a very common word. Isn’t it just about being interested in some things? Just like some people like music, and some people like music.
Some people like sports, some people like art, some people like literature, and some people like scientific research.
These hobbies are what we usually call hobbies. But have any of us ever thought about how these hobbies are related to our lives? How they are related to our studies? How they are related to our lives.
Here, I would like to discuss these two words. I think the reason why I was able to achieve such impressive results in this college entrance examination is inseparable from these two words.
The development and progress of our human society is also closely related to these two words. Without these two words, our human society would not develop and progress.
All our scientific research results also start from these two words. In human society, all scientific and technological products also start from these two words. This is especially true in literature and art.
It can be said that it is precisely because of interest that modern society has been created. Everything that can be seen and exists in our lives. The value of their existence lies in the fact that we humans are interested in it.
When I say this, some people may be dissatisfied. They will say, Li Yi, you are farting now. Are we humans interested in all the things that exist? If that is the case, then you said that there are broken stones everywhere in the mountains?
Is it also because humans are interested in it?
I would like to say a few more words on this issue. There are no truly ordinary things in this world. The more common things are, the more precious they are. For example, there are stones everywhere on the earth. In our
In the eyes of ordinary people, they are useless things.
But who do we know that the development of our society is the result of continuous research on stones. All of our scientific research results and many technological products today are also the result of human research on stones.
It is no exaggeration to say that our human progress started from the study of stones. This is because all our human inventions and creations are inseparable from the environment in which we live. And the environments we live in are very ordinary places.
In ancient times, humans came from the woods to live on the plains. Since there are no wild fruits and many wild animals on the plains, if you want to live on the plains, you can only use local materials. But what is there on the plains?
Some stones and weeds.
People turned weeds into wheat and rice. They discovered metal elements from stones. Then the history of making tools and using them began. With production tools, human productivity has developed unprecedentedly.
Until now, the metal elements we humans use are still extracted from stones. It was our ancestors who were interested in ordinary things like stones and wanted to study them that ultimately promoted the entire human civilization.
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Just imagine if our ancestors had never been very interested in stones and only stayed at the level of polishing stones. Then we would not always be in the Stone Age. Maybe we are still polishing stones today!
Fortunately, our ancestors began to think about the idea of polishing stones after a long period of polishing them. Their thinking was incredible. They discovered metal elements from stones.
It was precisely because of the discovery of metal elements that human society embarked on the express train of civilization. Since then, the progress of civilization in human society has been rapid, and the process of accelerated development has begun.
However, before humans embarked on the express train of civilization, the accumulation process was a time that was too long for modern humans to accept.
Two million years ago, humans were almost considered humans in the true sense. They were no longer the same as animals because humans had begun to walk upright and began to use tools.
However, the time when humans used simple stone tools lasted from 2 million to 1.99 million years. In other words, the Paleolithic Age of human society was a very long process.
During these 1.99 million years, human beings spent their time simply grinding and processing stones. They went hunting with simple tools every day. In this case, the possibility of successful hunting was
One can imagine.
During this long period of time, although hunting was the daily life of our ancient ancestors, what really supported their daily life was not the prey, but the fruits. That is, some wild fruits.
In that era, although the men were all strong and powerful, they were not as capable as the women. This was because when the men of that era often came back empty-handed when hunting, the women could always come back empty-handed when they went out to collect fruits.
what was harvested.
This cannot be blamed on the men of that time. Just imagine, no matter how strong the men of that time were, could they be stronger than some large carnivores! Obviously not. Just imagine, even the success rate of those large carnivores in hunting
They are all very low. Not to mention the men at that time, they only used some simple stone tools, so how could they succeed in hunting every time they went out!
When women go out to collect fruits, the success rate is of course very high. It can be said that as long as they go out to collect fruits, they can always gain something.
Therefore, that era was an era where women had the final say. Because women controlled the necessities of everyone’s lives. Everyone relied on women to provide three meals a day.
In this era, people can only live in a primitive communist way. Women are often the leaders of a group. And the children born by a woman belong to the woman, not to a certain man.
Human beings have spent nearly two million years in such a social form based on matriarchy, and then entered the New Age and the Bronze Age. As a result, men have a place to play. When human beings
When agricultural planting began, women were announced to be laid off.
When men took control of the means of production and women owned everything, mankind entered a slave society. Women first became slaves of men.
When a man snatches a woman away and then forces her to be his wife, the evil monogamy begins. From then on, women lose their freedom and become vassals of men.
The beauty who was unwilling to endure the servitude of men flew to the moon. Although she successfully escaped from the shackles of men, her descendants, women, did not have the ability to fly to the moon. They could only live in the 'sieged city' where men were captive on earth.
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Marriage is the grave of love, and children are the killers of love. Human freedom and hope struggle in the cage of monogamy.
Perhaps the most civilized is the least civilized. The most beautiful is the least beautiful. What needs to be praised the most is what needs to be rejected the most.
Men are animals with infinite love for nature. Women tend to love themselves more. Men use their interests to create a new era and promote the progress of human material civilization. But it also puts human spiritual civilization into garbage.
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When men use their interests to bring mankind into the technological age, women also undergo a qualitative change. They have to work tirelessly to possess the true meaning of their essence. When they begin to shift their interest from their own faces to society
When we go up, the flower of human spiritual civilization may be revived and green grass will sprout.