Ning Weimin and Han Yingming, the prospective husband-in-law, were chatting in the living room.
At the same time, Tsuneko and her daughter Keiko were busy in the kitchen and chatting about household chores.
As a traditional woman from a standard Japanese family, and able to endure Han Yingming's late-stage male chauvinism syndrome to this day, Tsuneko is undoubtedly a typical good wife and mother.
She doesn't know much about career or how to work, but she knows how to serve her husband and how to make a home that is comfortable and comfortable.
Therefore, when Changzi chats with his daughter, he only pays attention to the "minor details" of living at home.
"If your father doesn't object and your relationship can be successfully settled today, then quickly prepare for the marriage."
"Well, it depends on the specific situation. My movie will be released soon, and I should be busy with a lot of things. Especially because it is a movie co-produced with China, both countries have to do publicity..."
Tsuneko glanced at her daughter who was concentrating on the sushi, seemingly not distracted at all, and couldn't help but sigh.
"It seems that even if you get married, you don't plan to retire right away. Then you probably won't want to have a child right away, right? What are your plans? How long do you want to be a couple?"
After asking these questions, she paused and then said, "Of course, this is your business. I don't want to interfere... I just want to ask if you have a plan for the child. I should have this
Right?"
As expected of a mother, Changzi understands her daughter's temperament of being soft-willed and not being tough.
Qingzi was a little unhappy at first, but this last sentence made her calm down. She thought about it and said hesitantly, "Of course you have this right, but... we haven't thought about this matter..."
"Hey, how can this work?"
Changzi glanced at his daughter and sighed again, "Men can not think about this kind of thing, but how can women not think about it..."
Qingzi interrupted her in a coquettish way, "Mom, you just love worrying! I see you have more wrinkles. Can't you take this kind of thing step by step? Just let me be happy for a few days first...
"
"I understand! In short, you have been very independent since you were a child. We can't control you, but you and Amin must have plans for the future, especially for children. For women, of course, the sooner you give birth, the better.
You have delayed yourself and missed the best time. If you don't hurry up about this kind of thing, it will increase the risk. I'm not afraid that you won't like to hear it. You have to know your own age. Please, don't let us do it for you.
Is it okay to worry about the safety of childbirth? Also, if you feel that the time is not right for a while, you must take protective measures. Although we would like to see your child one day earlier, we don’t want you to hold a wedding with a pregnant belly and embarrass the family. Please
We must think about our old faces..."
As he talked, the good-tempered Changzi could not help but feel resentful.
Matsumoto Keiko was speechless and could only nod her head.
Indeed, this request is not excessive. This is considered a very enlightened parent. What else can I do besides nodding?
"Don't worry, Amin and I will... make plans, please don't worry. Thank you for thinking about me. I know the child's affairs well..."
"Well, don't be confused. I hope so..."
Changzi is indeed thinking about her daughter wholeheartedly.
Even if I talk too much, I still feel verbose. I know that I will be disliked if I meddle in other people's business, but there are some things that I still can't ignore.
After all, she is her daughter, and she is afraid that her daughter will suffer a loss because she is young.
In her opinion, the quality of marriage is far more important to a woman than any personal career.
"You are currently living together in an apartment in Nishi-Azabu, right? How are you doing housework? No matter how big the room is, it is not easy to take care of it. You have never fallen in love with home economics classes since you were a child, and you have never attended bridal classes.
Practice? Are you encountering difficulties now? I'm really worried about you..."
"Mom, you're here again, what's there to worry about?"
Qingzi didn't care much and said with a gentle smile, "It's not hard at all, Mom, most of it is part-time work."
"Hourly worker? In such a small apartment, why don't you do it yourself? Do you actually leave the housework to others?"
Changzi couldn't help but be shocked. The flowers trembled for a moment, and the face that was still charming was a little distorted.
"What's the point? I'm usually very busy. Sometimes I might not go home until midnight to work on shows. Then there's nothing I can do about housework, so I have to hire hourly workers."
"It's not impossible to hire part-time workers, but you're not married yet. You're so lazy and lazy on weekdays, and you look a bit like a woman? Doesn't Amin have any objections?"
"He has an opinion." Qingzi nodded. "His opinion is that he doesn't like me to invite outsiders. He likes to do it himself."
"What? He wants to do it himself?" His daughter's words shocked Changzi.
"Yes, Amin doesn't like outsiders a bit, maybe because he is worried that there are too many people and the things we are together may be accidentally leaked by some talkative people. Later we discussed it and now we will hire a regular hourly employee from Monday to
On Saturdays, I come home every morning and am responsible for cleaning, tidying up the kitchen and bathroom, and taking out the trash. Cooking and washing dishes are left to Amin. I only need to do the laundry on Sundays. Amin is really good at cooking.
Okay, he is much better than me. He also makes breakfast every day. There are many tricks. After all, he is the owner of the palace cuisine restaurant and is an absolute expert in food. I really hope my mother can eat it too, if she has time.
, come to my place and have a taste..."
"Hey? How can this be done...really...is it really possible?"
Changzi's mouth could no longer close.
She was so confused that she never thought that a grown man could cook for his wife.
"Well, so what? We both feel good about it. Amin said that he doesn't like me busy with trivial matters all day long, and hopes that I can focus more on my personal career. But it's not for money, he just wants me to do something
Something to be happy about.”
Hearing this, Chang Zi was touched in his heart, "Yeah, it seems he loves you very much..."
Qingzi smiled happily, "Yes, Amin is very good to me. Really very good. He also helps me a lot in my career. Didn't I tell you? I can make this movie.
It’s almost entirely his fault, he’s an omnipotent person.”
Changzi felt her daughter's happiness and felt slightly relieved, but she still refused to give up.
"I still have to say, you kid is really ignorant. Amin loves you so much because he likes you. Although it is a good thing, you should also pay attention to it and don't take his love for you for granted. Some
You must pay attention to things. Just like doing housework, this is a woman's duty. You must not do it for a long time, otherwise you will be disliked. And he is younger than you, so don't always think of yourself as a child who can act like a baby according to his temper.
…”
"I know, Mom."
Changzi looked at his daughter who looked lazy and had a splitting headache for a moment.
Even though my daughter agrees so readily, her daughter always agrees on the surface, and she definitely relies on her own ideas behind the scenes.
Looking back, 99% of it will still be the same, and I'm afraid there won't be any changes.
She used to agree with her husband's idea, but she actually hoped to find a son-in-law and an adopted son to arrange her daughter's marriage.
But my daughter did not accept this trick and resisted blind dates and love for a long time.
Suddenly, I fell in love with a young guy.
Regardless of whether it was appropriate or not, he cut him off first and played later without even saying hello.
Now that we are living together with someone else, we are even less likely to listen to her, which is really frustrating.
In addition, Ning Weimin seems to be a gentle and elegant person, gentle and kind.
He doesn't look like a person who can say harsh words and control his daughter at all.
She could imagine that after her daughter married Ning Weimin, she lost all restraints and scruples and became arrogant and willful.
She felt that this was too dangerous, and she was worried that if this continued for a long time, her daughter would be returned.
He could only say sincerely, "Qingzi, if you want to be with Amin, you will be his from now on. You must take on the responsibilities of a wife, focus on his career, and help him reduce the burden of life. Listen to me.
, you’d better retire as soon as possible and have a child as soon as possible.”
"We want children, but my career is also important. Why can't I take care of both? Why do I have to retire? I like acting very much..."
"How can that be done? From ancient times to the present, it has been the case that men take charge of the outside world and women take charge of the house. Only by working together can you make the family prosperous and live a good life. Especially men need to save face. If a married woman still goes out to work, it is
People will laugh at her husband for being incompetent. Why don't you think about him?"
"Mom, I'm not you, and Amin is not a person like dad. It's different. I've told Amin about this a long time ago. Amin has never made such a request to me, but has been persuading me.
Me, if you like acting, don't give it up casually. He is very generous and doesn't care about other people's gossip. Mom, I also think that I am happiest if I can have my own career after marriage. And conversely, I also think that is the only way,
Only then can I help Amin more. So, just take good care of Dad. How I live with Amin is my own business, and I will handle it myself. We will be happy, even happier than you and Dad."
"you……"
Changzi almost fell over in anger, feeling that her daughter didn't respect her life experience at all.
It sounds easy to live a good life, but how can it be so easy to live a good life?
Both of them require great effort and personal sacrifice. How can there be so many things that have the best of both worlds?
Besides, my daughter married this man and he was very profitable. He was also the president or president of the company.
Just let him work while hiring part-time workers and working as a cook?
It's fine for a day or two, but can it be done for a long time?
What's more, human energy is limited, how can a man make money and take care of his family at the same time?
Even at home, even though my husband is busy running the company all day long, he is considered a capable businessman.
But the accounts of the family and the accounts of the company are two different things.
If he were asked to take care of relationships, pension savings, needs during the holidays, and interactions with relatives and friends, he wouldn't be able to handle it.
These things still have to be arranged by your own hands.
How could my daughter do this!
If you are like this, can you get married?
What should you do if you are rejected one day?
It’s not too much to be driven back to your parents’ home!
She was so unlucky. What evil had she done in her previous life to give birth to such an inconspicuous thing? My heart was almost broken for her!
When Keiko saw her mother glaring at her angrily, her expression seemed to be really anxious, she immediately held her arm with a smile and tried to comfort her.
"Mom, I know you want me to be happy, but I'm already very good now. Don't always judge me by the same old methods. Don't forget, Amin is a Chinese, and he has the most gentle temperament. He is different from those who are not capable.
Japanese men with big tempers are completely different. We have a very good relationship, so don’t worry about it."
"The relationship is very good...haven't you ever had any quarrels? Have you ever seen him get angry? Does he think there's anything wrong with you?"
"Never. Oh, how can I make you believe me? Amin, he...he is the best man I have ever seen."
Matsumoto Keiko said with absolute certainty, "In Japan, as long as men are a little bit capable, men who are good at something, they all think that women should be their appendages. They take it for granted and think that they are the center and women should surround them.
But Amin is not like that. He respects me very much and never orders me anything. He just gives me suggestions. Most of the time, I do whatever I want. Even if I test him sometimes,
He didn't feel the slightest bit when he did something excessive on purpose. I don't know why there is such a big difference between Chinese men and Japanese men... Mom, I have to say, it is my luck to meet Amin, and he is worthy of my lifelong trust.
For such a good person, I am willing to devote myself to him. If one day, objectively speaking, he really needs me to retire, then I will take the initiative to give up my career and take care of my family without him having to say anything. On the contrary
, if I were like you, married to a man as arrogant as my father, and he insisted on ordering me to do this or that, then I wouldn’t be able to live for a day, and I would have to commit suicide..."
"Nonsense! What nonsense! Qingzi! You kid is too much! How can you say that about your father?"
Hearing the last sentence, Changzi couldn't help scolding him, but he nodded silently in his heart.
Indeed, this is also true.
If given a choice, who would want to see their daughter endure humiliation and bear the burden of serving others?
Compared with her husband, only someone like Ning Weimin can safely entrust her daughter to her.
Her daughter is too willful, too spoiled, stubborn, and has a bad temper.
But I'm afraid that being in the entertainment industry is not in vain. I am really smart and bright-eyed when it comes to important matters such as marriage.
When it comes to her worries, it's actually just because she's afraid that her daughter will always have her own way, without caring about the other person at all.
If Ning Weimin gets bored after being new for a while, and the two of them start arguing every day, problems will arise.
But everything is fine now. Maybe it's a little early to worry about this matter, and maybe it really shouldn't be too much.
I don’t understand today’s young people!
In desperation, she gave up completely and almost thought about it.
Regardless of whether you can rest assured or not, what can you do if your daughter is disobedient?
Fortunately, my daughter's luck is indeed not bad. She made the right choice for this prospective son-in-law.
He looks handsome, treats people sincerely, and is lovable at first sight.
He is also extremely smart, capable, hard-working, and definitely not the kind of person who is unreliable.
It can be regarded as complementary to my daughter who loves to be aggressive.
Probably as long as his daughter wins his heart, a lifetime of happiness will not be a problem.
I have to admit that it seems that my daughter's life is better than my own.
