Although she only had a phone call with Ning Weimin, she felt completely different after the call.
The magical thing about this phone call is that it seems to satisfy all her spiritual desires.
For example, the manifestation of motherhood, the joy of being recognized and needed by others, and the pleasure of meeting the person you have longed for...
Of course, there is also curiosity about Ning Weimin.
Keiko Matsumoto couldn't help but feel that he was becoming more and more mysterious...
However, if you want to explain it from a psychological perspective, it is actually a very easy thing.
First of all, Keiko Matsumoto’s emotional reaction confirms the Franklin Effect in psychology.
This psychological effect means that those who have helped you before will be more willing to help you again than those who have been helped by you.
In other words, the best way to make others like you is not to help them, but to try to get them to help you.
If you want to gain favor from others, there is no harm in speaking up.
It is best to trouble the other party as much as possible and increase the other party's cost.
Because only the more the other party pays for you, the more they will value you.
This is the psychological basis for a man and a woman who hate each other at first, but eventually fall in love because they help each other.
Some people are thin-skinned and are too embarrassed to bother others, but instead silently give to the people they like. This is actually the opposite.
The result will often only make you like the other person more and move yourself, rather than making the other person like you more.
Keiko Matsumoto is an example of this direction. She has a giving personality.
The more you like someone, the more you like to consider and pay for them.
Although Ning Weimin didn't say anything, she was still able to put herself in his shoes and actively wanted to give him all the good things.
As a result, the more you pay, the more you become obsessed with it.
I think she felt the same way about director Fukasaku Kinji.
Because you fall in love with someone you shouldn't fall in love with, the final result is that you are exhausted and seriously injured.
As for real life, there are countless such examples.
Why do secretaries and assistants often fall in love with their bosses, why nurses easily fall in love with doctors, why flight attendants always fall in love with pilots, and why actresses always fall in love with directors.
In addition to utilitarian factors, these relatively common phenomena in the workplace also stem from a large number of psychological factors.
You know, because of the work affiliation, as we get along for a longer time, we have to obey orders more often.
Even if I don't feel anything at first, one day I will be confused about whether I like him or not.
And this illusion of obsession will become more and more serious.
It's even serious enough that some people are willing to be mistresses even if they know the other person has a family.
Sadly, those who are deeply involved in it are completely unaware that their love for others is actually just a mental illness.
Secondly, there is a psychological effect called "random reward" in psychology.
The famous psychologist Skinner once conducted such an experiment using the "Skinner Box".
Skinner placed the experimental rat in a box with a button.
As long as the mouse presses the button, food will fall from the top of the box.
After a long period of repetition, the mice learned this operation - pressing the button.
Then Skinner moved the rat to another box.
This box randomly drops food from the top of the box when the button is pressed.
It used to be that once you press it, food will drop. Now you need to press it multiple times to drop a piece of food.
So the mice learned to press buttons like crazy.
The results of the experiment show that there are no fixed rules and it is impossible to predict the time when rewards will appear. A reward pattern full of "uncertainty" will strengthen people's behavior.
For this kind of unpredictable reward, people will be deeply involved in it and try crazily in order to obtain the reward.
For example, buying blind boxes, claw machines, lucky koi, etc., many people will become addicted to them.
It can be said that almost all gambling games are examples of "random rewards" in real life.
In fact, during the relationship between Ning Weimin and Matsumoto Keiko, such things happened constantly.
For example, the chance encounter between two people for the first time, or the invitation at the station on a rainy day.
There is also the jade bracelet given by Ning Weimin last time. He took the initiative to invite Matsumoto Keiko to watch the sunrise at Odaiba Beach. It was nothing less than that.
Even though we didn't spend much time together, it was a surprise that Ning Weimin didn't come and introduce too much about his work.
As for this call, although Ning Weimin rejected Matsumoto Keiko's kindness from the beginning, even if Matsumoto Keiko was tolerant, she would still feel unhappy because of frustration.
But then Ning Weimin took the initiative to make another request, but it had a miraculous effect, which was also consistent with this law.
Not only did it completely make up for Matsumoto Keiko's regret, it even made her even more excited.
This is like what Ning Weimin himself once said - "Romance is unpredictable, breaking the rules and leaving no trace."
To be honest, many times, young men and women love each other so much that they know that the other person is the only one.
When describing it, I always use the words "fate" or "true love" to summarize this kind of love.
But if analyzed scientifically, it is nothing more than the way they contact and get along with each other, which unexpectedly conforms to these psychological effects that are conducive to promoting love.
It might be more appropriate to describe it as "co-production".
In short, although there is no routine and it is completely an unintentional coincidence, it is precisely because of these psychological effects that it plays a benign role.
As soon as the phone call ended, Keiko Matsumoto was radiant and energetic, as if she had been nourished by love.
She completely regarded Ning Weimin's entrustment as the most important thing. She immediately called Fuji TV and formally asked a familiar producer to help her.
After getting a response from the other party, he called the office and asked his subordinates to go to the production department of Fuji TV immediately to find film sources for Ning Weimin.
Because the time requirement is tight, the specific requirements are not clear enough.
In fact, this matter made both the people at the office and Fuji TV a little nervous.
Everyone thought it was involved in something important, so they worked overtime that day and waited until midnight to fulfill Keiko Matsumoto's wish.
So as soon as she got what Ning Weimin needed, Matsumoto Keiko quickly contacted him and made an appointment for a time and place to meet.
That night, Matsumoto Keiko was finally able to fall into a sweet dream and sleep peacefully.
The next morning, I arrived at the agreed date place early.
The moment she saw Ning Weimin walking into the restaurant door and greeting her with a smile, Matsumoto Keiko was so excited that she wanted to cry because she missed her so much.
She wanted to joke with him, make all the jokes, laugh together until sunset, and then laugh together until sunrise.
She laughed happily, laughed happily, and fell into his arms.
Press your face against his chest, press it tightly, and then be hugged tightly by him.
It's best if the whole body is wrapped up...
She wanted to be serious with him again, because he was still very young and needed to be carved before he could be made into something.
He should invest his precious youth and precious time in industries that are more worthy of his efforts, in order to achieve brilliant achievements.
And she is willing to help him, assist him, and do everything possible to help him succeed...
She wanted to be with him again - neither joking nor serious, or whatever she wanted.
You can worship, you can quarrel, you can be obedient, you can be unruly, you can be tolerant, you can control, you can also be criticized by him, manipulated by him... They will roam in the endless universe without boundaries.
"Did you really get it? So fast?"
Suddenly, Ning Weimin's question suddenly brought Matsumoto Keiko back to reality from her wandering thoughts.
"Yes, I got it."
She smiled a little sheepishly, then slowly took out the videotape ripped by the TV station and placed it on the table.
Fortunately, Ning Weimin's focus was entirely on the videotape and he didn't notice her wandering embarrassment.
"Thank you so much. I didn't expect it to be so timely. It must have caused you a lot of trouble, right?"
"You're welcome, it's not troublesome, it's a very simple matter."
"Although you say so, it would be very difficult for me to do it without your help. I must thank you very much."
"If you really want to thank me, just try to take care of yourself. You are still young and don't understand the importance of health. Don't be exhausted from work. Don't have too much pressure...it's best to let nature take its own course."
After a pause, Matsumoto Keiko even offered financial help.
"If you have money difficulties, please tell me. Money will compromise your dreams...I will support you."
"Okay, I remember."
Listening to this, Ning Weimin is definitely not as aggressive as most young and energetic boys.
I didn't feel any resentment at being looked down upon, but felt warm for this kind of considerate concern.
Even later he also cared about Matsumoto Keiko.
"Same for you. What I advised you also applies to you. I see that you don't look too good either. You seem very tired recently. You must also take care of yourself, okay?"
Matsumoto Keiko couldn't help lowering her head and touched her red cheeks.
There was a special feeling in her heart, a kind of happiness that was answered soaked her in honey. A woman in love is so easy to be satisfied.
"By the way, this is for you."
But Matsumoto Keiko didn't dare to immerse herself in it for too long, so she deliberately changed the topic and took out the pager she bought for Ning Weimin.
To be honest, I was a little worried at first.
She originally thought that this would easily lead to misunderstandings, and she would have to go through a lot of trouble to get Ning Weimin to accept it.
But just when she was thinking about how to explain that she had no intention of monitoring.
Ning Weimin actually accepted it calmly.
It was easier than the last time I accepted the watch, and he understood her thoughts very well.
"Thank you, I just needed something like this. I just had a headache about the application procedures and haven't taken the time to buy it yet. It's fine now. I didn't expect you to think of it for me. It will be much easier for us to contact you in the future. I like this Christmas gift
, so useful”
Such compliments made Keiko Matsumoto feel happy from the bottom of her heart.
"Do you think so too? That's really great."
But Ning Weimin then said, "It's just that I haven't had time to prepare a gift for you, so you deserve it! I'm sorry to ask, Miss Qingzi, do you have any gifts you want? Jewelry, or clothing,
Shoes? Just ask and I'll buy them for you."
Matsumoto Keiko subconsciously declined.
"No, no, it's not necessary."
"How can this be done? The gifts should be mutual. If you don't tell me, then I will have to consider it myself."
Ning Weimin smiled, but this stubborn and steady energy could not be rejected at all.
Matsumoto Keiko suddenly understood what he meant. Whether it was out of male pride or not, he still didn't want to receive benefits in vain.
For this reason, she was both appreciative and a little helpless, not knowing how to react.
But fortunately, she quickly gained a quick wit and spoke again.
"Do you really want to give me a gift that I will really like?"
"Yes, I'm very sincere, that's what I think."
"Okay, then can I think about it carefully before making my request?"
"Of course, it's just...Christmas is only a few days away. If you make a wish, I don't know if there is enough time to come..." Ning Weimin seemed a little hesitant.
"It's okay, don't worry. In fact, we don't have to stick to the time issue. A gift is a gift. I don't mind when I get it. As long as it suits my heart, I will be very happy."
Matsumoto Keiko looked pleased and smiled warmly.
"That's good, think about it slowly, don't be in a hurry."
Ning Weimin, who was preoccupied with business matters, was naturally not in a hurry, and he also smiled.
Secretly glad that I narrowly escaped a hurdle and made a mistake.
Although they were separated by a table, their eyes intertwined and they seemed to be intimate.
During lunch, they chatted about more and more topics, from literature to performances, from Tokyo to the capital, and from life to ideals.
No matter what we talk about, it is full of novelty.
Even if you have already talked to others about topics that they thought were boring in the past.
But time passed quickly, and Ning Weimin, who had work in the afternoon, had to say goodbye at this time.
"I have other things to do. You drive back and pay attention to your safety..."
However, Matsumoto Keiko was not as easy to appease as he thought. Women have their own things they care about, and they have their own calculations and scheming.
Right now, she began to use her woman's wisdom and try to test the distance between them.
"Can I... know what it is?"
Matsumoto Keiko, who has experienced major emotional setbacks, falls in love with someone again and becomes in great need of a sense of security, a sufficient sense of security.
For her, measuring the degree of intimacy between two people is not necessarily how close they are physically. The key is how much personal privacy each other is willing to reveal.
Ning Weimin hesitated for a moment, "I'm going to see my boss. His flight is tomorrow. I have to prepare the luggage with him today. He has to bring this video tape with him. I also have to take him to Akihabara to buy some bargains.
Electrical appliances. You should be aware of the situation in China. It is inevitable for people from our country to go abroad..."
"Then let me drive you there. I brought the Crown here just for fun today..." Keiko Matsumoto asked in a questioning tone.
"Isn't this... not good? You will be recognized. Aren't you worried about reporters?"
"I'm just driving you to the Electrical Appliance Street in Akihabara. Besides, your boss is also Chinese, isn't he? But... if you don't want to..."
As he spoke, Matsumoto Keiko lowered her head and remained motionless, showing a gloomy and lonely look.
It was as if she had been abandoned, as if she had lost something important.
How can Ning Weimin stand up to actress-level acting skills?
After thinking about it for a while, I immediately changed my mind.
"I don't mean anything else, I'm just afraid of wasting your precious time. If you are willing to send us a gift, it's not too late to thank you."
"That's great, let's go together."
Matsumoto Keiko's voice softened, and she couldn't help but feel moved, and she also grabbed Ning Weimin's arm.
To be precise, she was extremely excited.
Because Ning Weimin expressed it so straightforwardly, he was willing to stay with her for a while and let her know more about himself.
"Is it really okay? Will your time not be interrupted? I have to tell you in advance that your movies are very popular in China, and my boss should also recognize you..."
"It's okay. I don't mind. Don't worry."
Matsumoto Keiko responded enthusiastically.
The corners of her lips were slightly raised, and what appeared on her face was the unique smile of a happy woman.
"It's actually quite boring. I really don't know why you want to go?"
"not boring!"
Keiko Matsumoto stared into Ning Weimin's eyes, which exuded bright, beating heat.
After a moment, she said earnestly, "Being with you is never boring!"
Ning Weimin finally understood Matsumoto Keiko's eyes, and a feeling of conqueror suddenly arose in his heart.
But it was his look in return that made Matsumoto Keiko's ears suddenly feel hot, and she couldn't help but avoid his gaze and turned her head.