Chapter 153 Unwilling
Some things cannot be forced, let alone forced to change.
After all, no matter what the outcome is, it is other people's rights and freedoms.
As long as others are mentally prepared enough and are willing to bear the dire consequences and burdens that are most likely to result from this, then it is up to them to do whatever they want.
As long as his behavior does not violate the law and does not cause any fear or danger to others, then feel free to do whatever you want.
After all, that is also the right that others should have. No one can force others. You should not blame or interfere because you cannot accept something of your own, or you don't like it.
That would only arouse conflicts and cause various disputes, which is obviously not the result that everyone wants.
As long as you understand these things, people will have a relatively peaceful mentality and can face everything calmly and calmly.
After some careful reflection, the author Wu Hao finally clarified all the clues and had a clear and rational correct identification of himself for the first time.
Yes.
In the past, I was not perfect at all. I had many shortcomings that I urgently needed to discover and correct.
However, you cannot deny everything about yourself just because of this, or even go to the extreme to deny the value of your own existence.
This is originally what a person should experience when growing up.
Discover yourself step by step in difficulties and improve yourself.
In this case, why should you completely deny yourself just because you find some shortcomings in yourself?
That's not what a sane person should do.
Making mistakes is not terrible at all. As long as you correct them in time when you find them, it's really not a big deal.
For example, I used to be too lazy and casual, and I had some irresponsible habits. I always made promises to others without taking them seriously, and would just throw the promises aside and ignore them.
If you sincerely do not change these things and continue to do so, you must correct them in a timely manner.
After hearing this, the author Wu Hao couldn't help but feel guilty, and he felt deep guilt and self-blame for the loyal readers who had been extremely tolerant of him in the past.
Some things are like this. When you fully own them, you may deliberately ignore them, not cherish them at all, and not take them seriously.
But once you lose it completely, you will truly discover something. You will find that it is so hard-won, and it is so precious and important to you. You wish you could turn back the time and firmly grasp the loss.
everything of.
But is it possible?
It is impossible for others. The author Wu Hao at this moment is obviously unable to predict, let alone feel and discover something.
The only thing he felt and had a clear understanding of was that it was impossible for him to go back in time, let alone go back to the past and change everything that happened in the past.
In this case, he will naturally not place his hope in illusions and be immersed in the heartache of loss.
At this moment, he had a clear understanding of his future.
That is to start from this moment and work hard to change yourself and regain everything you have lost.
He knew very well that the reason why those loyal readers in the past trusted him so enthusiastically was inseparable from the fact that he had entered the field of online literature and that a newcomer who had just entered the field was full of enthusiasm and motivation.
Precisely because I was full of passion at that time, the words between the lines were full of my own hopes and longings.
So I was really full of energy and motivation, and the words I coded always had some irresistible enthusiasm, which made those readers who are chasing books naturally feel everything, thus generating deep appreciation and recognition.
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It is precisely because of this that they will truly accept themselves in their hearts because of their recognition. Out of the appreciation and recognition in their hearts, they will spare no effort to support them.
In the same way, the reason why they are so resentful and indifferent to themselves now is also closely related to their perfunctory attitude of not updating every now and then and not being careful enough when coding.
Because I have been in the Internet literary circle for a long time, although I have not been able to achieve very good results, I have become a veteran in the Internet literary circle, with a decadent mentality of just letting it go and getting by.
Once you have this decadent mentality, it will naturally come out from between the lines inadvertently during your coding process.
Because of this, the original loyal readers had a very clear feeling for the first time, and felt their perfunctory and decadent nature.
They felt something was wrong the first time they discovered it, and out of good intentions, they started making repeated suggestions and reminders.
But at that time, I was too arrogant to listen to this, and as a result, I misunderstood due to some bad emotions.
To mistakenly think that this is all about readers looking for trouble to find fault in the eggs, this is an extremely serious provocation and offense.
It was because of this undesirable emotion that I, driven by my over-inflated self-confidence at that time, could no longer tolerate any criticism or opinions from others, and started to respond passionately without saying a word.
The result was really bad.
After repeatedly provoking readers to their limits, the loyal readers who originally trusted and supported me were completely disappointed.
They were so disheartened that they no longer had the urgent need for support to continue walking together through thick and thin.
So, under extreme disappointment, they started a confrontational mode of choosing to stand aside and watch indifferently, sometimes making sarcastic remarks.
From that moment on, the relationship between the author Wu Hao and his loyal readers in the past has completely changed. From the previous mutual trust and harmony, it has transformed into an embarrassing state of resentment, dislike, and confrontation.
Although it has become such an extremely embarrassing confrontation mode, the author Wu Hao can still vaguely hear it through the brief eavesdropping that he just sneaked into the reader's chat room.
In fact, even if the quarrel is like this, everyone is so tense with each other, and it is so serious that they will start fighting with all their strength if they disagree.
The author Wu Hao cannot deny one thing in any case, that is, readers complain and criticize others, but in their few words, there is still a strong sense of reluctance and unwillingness.
Some are reluctant to let go of those days when we spent time together where we had mutual trust and warmth.
Also very unwilling.
Even now, they still feel a deep sense of incomprehension and unwillingness in their hearts.
Chapter completed!