Chapter 154 The beginning of maturity
For the same reason, even now, when they are so incompatible with each other, they still care about each other and are unwilling to reconcile.
They had regrets from beginning to end, and they couldn't figure out one thing even if they tried hard to think about it.
That's why.
Why did everyone give us such heartfelt and heartfelt support in the past, but never got a perfect ending, and ended up repeatedly paying for it wrongly.
Even if I try my best, I can't survive.
Let Wu Hao, the author who is obviously a bit perfunctory and decadent now, regain the confidence of the past.
Let him once again be confident and full of enthusiasm to embark on the bumpy journey of successfully rising to the top and becoming a god.
Got it.
Through the careful reflection just now, the author Wu Hao finally figured out everything and why those loyal readers who once supported him so enthusiastically suddenly took a turn for the worse and had such a big change in their attitude towards him.
It was completely out of infatuation that I was angry and refused to fight, so I had such great anger and resentment.
As the saying goes, deep love brings deep responsibility.
If there is not enough care, who would put so much attention on you regardless of time.
And knowing that you are tired of listening to any advice, who will still go to the trouble of nagging without any benefit, thus causing you to become even more alienated and disgusted.
The reason why they are like this is not because they want to gain any profits and benefits from themselves, nor is it because they are born with unique preferences and like to be disliked and alienated.
Everything can only have one reason.
That is, they sincerely care about themselves. When they see themselves falling into decadence and depression, they also care about themselves, so they act so anxious and sociable, and can't help but give good advice, and even
Use another unfriendly way to stimulate yourself.
Even if this method is not very good and makes you hate it very much and you don't like it at all, you can't question their good intentions and most sincere starting point no matter what.
All of this is due to having too much care for yourself.
It is precisely because of this heartfelt care that they appear so irritable and anxious when they are depressed, and they can't help but want to nag, remind and complain a few words in order to make themselves feel better.
Discover your problems early and wake up from your decadence quickly.
How to describe this mentality?
It's like the care that a snarky old mother shows to her somewhat rebellious baby son.
You can be impatient and retort, but you can't deny that the love is really heavy and sincere and comes from the heart.
No matter how wrong their methods are and make you bored and unable to accept them, at most they are really driven by frustration and decadence and have too much anxiety and worry about your future, which is why they act so anxiously.
When you get angry, the method you choose will be so drastic and unpleasant.
There may be something wrong with their methods and they are not really effective methods.
Just like this, it is possible to choose the wrong method in a hurry, making each other even more alienated and bored.
But no matter what happens, they are all attentive, and they really treat you with all their heart and soul.
The reason why they chose the wrong method is at most because they are not high enough and have insufficient ability.
But who can be too demanding on this point?
Who can guarantee that all the caring old mothers at home are psychological experts, omnipotent in heaven and earth, and proficient in all walks of life?
It is said that my elderly mother made such a harsh request and asked the most intelligent and top experts in the world to try it.
They are also unable to achieve it, and they can only look forward to it and sigh that it is beyond their capabilities.
After all, a person's ability is limited anyway. No matter how talented a person is, he or she is only good at a certain aspect.
It is impossible for him to fully blossom and touch every aspect of this world.
Such requirements are simply too strict and harsh. Not to mention humans, even those omnipotent gods in people's dreams are also unable to fulfill them.
Otherwise, those omnipotent and aloof gods would not be described in various myths and legends as being like those of wind, fire, thunder and lightning, the Moon Old Thunder God, and the Dragon King.
As long as you taste it carefully, you can find all the subtleties hidden in it.
That is, no matter how omnipotent and powerful they are, it is impossible for a god to be all-encompassing and touch every aspect.
They also have a clear division of labor and are in charge of areas they are very familiar with based on their own expertise.
If it's time to thunder, just concentrate on thundering.
When it’s time to discharge, discharge it wholeheartedly.
Those who should manage their marriage should do a good job of pulling red strings and playing matchmaking.
The wind blows when it's supposed to blow, and it rains when it's supposed to rain...
As long as you calm down and analyze their respective responsibilities, you will easily discover a fact.
That is, even gods cannot know everything and are omnipotent. They will be just like ordinary people. The work they are engaged in must be the field in which they are best at.
Since even the superior gods are like this, how can anyone be too harsh on those loyal readers who truly care about them?
Go and ask them all to speak like lotuses, and to speak in a sweet and gentle manner.
Ask them all to have god-like observation skills. Just by looking at you or listening to the tone of your voice, they can immediately tell whether you are happy or sad, whether you are holding back grievances or whether you are depressed.
I was so happy that I couldn’t help but dance...
This requirement is really too high, and it is too strict and harsh, so harsh that no one in the world can meet the standard.
In this case, then change your position and adopt the mentality of an ordinary person to understand and accept it.
Correct your mentality, filter out those negative emotions that don't feel good, and just be extremely happy to feel their heartfelt care.
Don't pay too much attention to some bad details, or some highly offensive Chinese language in their expressions.
After all, no matter what they do, their original intention is out of love for you.
You can feel disgusted or alienate them for a while, but you must not easily draw conclusions and deny their good intentions that come from the bottom of your heart.
This is very simple to say, but very difficult to do, not easy at all.
Chapter completed!