A psychologist once conducted an experiment, randomly paired strangers in pairs, and then asked them to ask each other and answer 36 questions.
The questions were divided into three groups, starting with "If you could invite anyone in the world, who would you like to have dinner with?" "Do you want to be famous, and how to become famous?" This is relatively shallow.
Then it progresses layer by layer, until finally it is "Among all the family members, whose death would you be the most unable to accept?" "Share a problem in life and ask what the other person would say if they encounter such a situation." These points go straight to the heart.
Deep questions.
The result of the experiment is that a considerable number of participants said that after completing all the questions, their relationship with the other party exceeded that of everyone else.
There is also a part where we start dating directly after the end.
It’s not that these questions have any magic power. The explanation of psychologists is that these questions and answers are actually a process of self-exposure by both parties, and self-exposure can quickly bring interpersonal relationships closer.
If I use a simple example to illustrate, many people have known since childhood that sharing secrets with each other is a good way to get closer between friends, which is also a kind of self-exposure.
Neither Lin Yi nor his senior sister had studied psychology, and they did not realize that what the senior sister was showing was a side that they had never seen before, or they were aware of it but did not understand the significance.
"Hey, this doesn't work well."
The one who is in trouble is the female owner of the store. She tried very hard at first to make Li Moyan show off that kind of ladylike demeanor with a sweet smile, but found that it was not coordinated anyway, and instead revealed a "straight man photo taking"
The awkward feeling.
She used all her professionalism and tried everything, and finally discovered that Li Moyan had a special cold, noble, and jade-like temperament when he was not smiling. For this reason, she specially recreated Li Moyan's look.
Now the female boss felt that she had found the right way to open it, and she pressed the shutter while exclaiming.
Originally, we could call it a day after taking these photos, but when we were changing into the last set of clothes, the female boss made another unexpected discovery.
"The men's clothing size on the order seems to be yours, would you like to try it on?"
Li Moyan wanted to refuse. She had already guessed that this might be Han Xue's prank, but the female boss was so kind that she reluctantly changed her clothes.
After the senior sister put on men's clothing, she also took off her wig, which made her feel much more comfortable. Even in front of Lin Yi, she no longer had the weird feeling she had just now.
This time she didn't need to deliberately change her look when facing the camera, she just had to show off her usual demeanor, so the shooting went very smoothly.
Photographers also get itchy when they meet a model they like, so the female boss took a lot of photos in succession, which was far more than a set of photos.
In the end, the female boss said very boldly: "Originally, you ordered a group photo of a couple. Now that it is a single person, I will give you two sets of photos, so that you will not suffer any loss."
"But to be honest, today's set of photos is the best I have taken in the past two years. Can you keep a copy for me to display in the photo studio?"
Li Moyan flatly refused: "No."
Due to the resolute attitude of the senior sister, no matter what conditions the female boss put forward, she could not force her, so she had to regretfully give up the idea.
After the two left, the female boss looked at her masterpiece and thought that these men's clothes should be for girls. It seemed that the two had originally planned to take a set of cross-dressing photos.
So the reason for their quarrel is that the boys don't want to wear women's clothes?
…
Lin Yi didn't know that the female boss's thoughts had strayed to Java. He had given himself a very clear position today, that is, a bodyguard with no affection.
On the way back, the two of them had a tacit understanding and did not mention the photo shoot just now. Instead, they naturally talked about work as usual. Lin Yi told his senior sister that there should be news about the financing soon.
The two separated downstairs in the dormitory. As soon as Li Moyan returned to the dormitory, he met Han Xue standing there.
"Li Moyan! Tell me honestly, which man did you go out with?"
Li Moyan pushed the arm she held in front of her away: "I just want to ask you, what kind of inexplicable wish did you arrange, and why is it a set of couple photos?"
"Asshole! Asshole!"
She didn't know who she was scolding: "I prepared that for myself and you. Which bastard did you go filming with today?"
Li Moyan said to herself that it was true. She had guessed it from the moment the female owner of the photo studio noticed that the men's clothes were in her size. She took a few sets together, thinking that Han Xue might want them.
Although Han Xue is very different from her personality and often makes random mistakes, she is indeed Li Moyan's best friend in college. She has helped a lot in the past. When she decided to start a business, she also entrusted her with the public relations department.
rest assured.
Just think of it as fulfilling her Girls' Day wish.
"No, I took the photo alone."
Li Moyan told the truth, and this answer turned Han Xue's worry into joy: "Really? I will check the photo when I get it back!"
This made Li Moyan almost recall the scene just now. She quickly and casually replied: "You can pick it up yourself. Didn't you place the order online?"
Han Xue thought it was true. After the film was released, she had to take a screenshot and take a look. Then she thought about it and asked, "You haven't said who accompanied you to take pictures today?"
"Just an ordinary little junior brother."
Han Xue saw Li Moyan's expressionless face and found nothing unusual, so she started to curse herself:
"I'm telling you Mo Yan, you were right not to fall in love with that idiot Chen Shiyi. Ever since you rejected him, that guy actually started harassing me."
"He came to chase me after failing to pursue you. Who does he regard me as? Does he regard me as your spare tire? Will I accept the pleasure you don't want here? Does he regard me as a trash can?"
She looked particularly aggrieved. Even though they were alone, her usual ladylike image was completely ignored.
However, Li Moyan was not interested in the topic of Chairman Chen. She just declared: "Don't involve me."
As expected, Han Xue stopped mentioning her and just continued to complain: "After the meeting yesterday, he dragged me and said he had business to talk about, but it was bullshit business and he actually asked me if I had any Girls' Day wishes that I wanted to realize?"
"My wish is for him to get out of here!"
"If this guy hadn't wasted my time by pretending to be a private person, I would have gone back and grabbed the paper crane long ago. How could some junior brother get there first?"
"I really can't stay in the student union anymore. If you hadn't handed over the public relations department to me, I wouldn't have bothered to deal with those sanctimonious guys."
"I don't want to stay there and continue to smile after the change of term next semester. I can just leave the public relations department to that Zheng Xun and retire..."
She muttered there, letting Li Moyan roughly know why it wasn't her who showed up with the paper crane today.