As soon as Mrs. Hua appeared, her daughter-in-law in the crowd looked a little unhappy.
It wasn't that she had any objections to her ex-mother-in-law. The main reason was that after she became a mother, she realized what kind of cruel person she must be to do something to an infant child.
Therefore, she is even more pitiful towards her husband. Therefore, every time Hua Auntie appears, she will take the initiative to stand in front of her husband to prevent him from seeing this person who makes him sad. Now she sees that this cruel woman actually takes the initiative to get into trouble.
She was so angry that she was about to speak when she heard Dr. Huo say: "Yes, what I just told you is not actually the problem of the mother, but the problem of the mother."
Because they are sick, it is a psychological disease."
Postpartum depression was actually also called depression in ancient times.
It is just because of the lack of understanding in some aspects of psychology in ancient times that detailed divisions were not made, and many people still ignored this issue.
I thought it was just the birth of a child, so how could my temperament suddenly change?
So many people classify this kind of thing as madness.
But in fact, there are many causes of depression, especially postpartum depression. It may be due to the dual physical and psychological changes that make it difficult for people to adapt to it.
Either changes in body hormones or changes in the environment may cause such problems.
Even in modern society, many people still think that people with postpartum depression are hypocritical.
Obviously you have good food and drink, and there are people taking care of you, so how could you possibly be depressed?
But in fact, sometimes there is no absolute relationship between psychological problems and changes in the external environment.
Just like some people are psychologically strong and healthy even if they are in adversity all year round, while some people may have problems in their hearts and become very fragile even though things are going smoothly. There are cases of these.
Generally speaking, postpartum depression can be recovered through positive intervention or treatment in three to six months, and can be improved in one to two years at most.
But if you get pregnant again, there is also a risk of recurrence.
It’s just that in ancient times, when many technological understandings were backward, postpartum depression became an extremely lethal disease, and many people died from it.
Listening to Lin Mengya explain the causes and symptoms of postpartum depression in simple words, many people couldn't help but have red eyes.
"These are not your fault or your problem. You are sick. Even if you hurt your family members, I don't think you did it intentionally. It's just that your emotions controlled your behavior."
Lin Mengya's words directly made many people shed tears.
But Mrs. Hua didn't cry. She just had red eyes, and her eyes were blank. She didn't know what she was thinking.
After a long time, she let out a long sigh.
"It turns out it's not my fault, I'm just sick."
After she said this, she closed her eyes tightly and fell back.
Suddenly an exclamation came from the crowd: "Mother!"
Then I saw a tall and strong figure, quickly got out of the crowd, and hugged Aunt Hua's thin body in front of everyone.
Lin Mengya took a step back. From the look on his face, he could tell that this man should be Aunt Hua's son.
At this moment, his eyes were also red, and he hugged his mother's thin body tightly.
Lin Mengya sighed.
Who says mothers are the only ones who feel uncomfortable?
If a child is told from an early age that his mother doesn't love him or like him, and even wants to strangle him to get rid of him, what kind of big blow will it be to the child?
Because he was betrayed and abandoned by his dearest and most beloved mother!
A child's love for his mother is innate.
Therefore, when his mother's repulsive attitude hurt him, his sadness increased exponentially.
This is why when the same parent makes a mistake, the child may mind the mother more and be less willing to forgive the mother.
It's not a double standard, but because he loves his mother more and they were once connected by blood.
This is probably the deep love and hatred between mother and son!
Lin Mengya looked at the man's tall body trembling, sighed, and then communicated with him.
"Your mother's current physical condition is not very good. She must have been deprived of three meals a year, plus she is depressed, and her foundation has been hollowed out. If she is able to have children and raise her family well, she will only have three to five years left.
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Aunt Hua's heart is tied to that misunderstanding.
She couldn't forgive herself for hurting her child, but she couldn't resist her love for her child, so he was always tortured.
Aunt Hua's son is already a middle-aged man. In ancient times, it was normal for a man in his thirties to become a grandfather.
When he heard this, he couldn't hold back his tears and almost burst into tears.
"It's all my fault! If only I could forgive my mother, I just, I just want to ask her why she did that to me. I didn't know she was sick." The past misunderstanding is irreparable, but Lin Mengya saw that
The mother and son knew that they would definitely settle their differences, so she advised: "It's never too late. If you take good care of your mother from now on, maybe your mother can live longer."
, if we continue to waste time, wouldn’t it mean that the last time we met will be gone?”
Aunt Hua's son nodded frequently when he heard this. He felt that Doctor Huo was right, and now he regarded Doctor Huo as his benefactor.
If it weren't for her, the knot between me and my mother would never be resolved.
There is no use regretting. All he can do is to take good care of his mother in her limited time and feel the maternal love that has been missing for so many years.
He said thanks to Lin Mengya, then picked up his mother and walked home with his wife behind him.
When everyone saw this scene, they couldn't help but sigh.
No one thought that the murder was not out of hatred or Madam Hua was crazy, but because of depression.
Aunt Hua's parents-in-law were kind to her at first, and their family's conditions were not bad, but she got such a disease even though they had no worries about food and drink.
It can only be said that fate plays a trick on people!
Lin Mengya answered several people's questions one after another. This kind of depression was actually relatively common in ancient times, but many people ignored the emotional changes of mothers after giving birth.
There are more pregnant women who do not realize that they are sick. People like Aunt Hua are already lucky, and more people have died because of this.
Lin Mengya answered all these questions one by one without any impatience. Moreover, she would also enlighten everyone so as not to put too many questions on herself.
She encouraged all women to communicate with their families. If family members cannot communicate, then find friends or relatives, or even find a substitute.
In short, you should pour out all your inner thoughts instead of just holding them in, otherwise you will easily get sick.
Then she prescribed a lot of medicine, which can relax people's mood after taking it.
Xia Guizhi, who was sitting opposite her just now but was later squeezed away by many aunts and ladies, was stunned when she saw this scene. She didn't expect that the other party could be so messy.
What kind of depression? How come she has never seen it before? Moreover, she has heard of that Mrs. Hua. She is a vicious-hearted person. How come she became a patient in this woman's mouth?
She curled her lips in disdain. She originally wanted to cause trouble, but when she thought about how powerful the other party was just now, she thought it would be better to consider the long term.
So just as she was about to leave, Lin Mengya stuck her head out and looked at her with a smile.
"Don't leave in a hurry, Tie Maolin. I suspect your wife is also suffering from depression. Otherwise, why would she be crying all the time and her personality change drastically?"
Tie Maolin listened very carefully just now, and he felt that what Doctor Huo said was very reasonable!
So he quickly grabbed his wife's hand and said honestly: "Guizhi, just listen to Dr. Huo. Let's take some medicine. Maybe your depression can be cured?"
"I'm not sick!" Xia Guizhi immediately shook off the other person's hand and scolded with some dissatisfaction: "You are the only fool to listen to her lies about depression. I think what she said is purely a lie!
"But I didn't expect that other aunts and aunts heard this and said: "Maolin family, don't talk nonsense! The little girl from my natal family who got married suffered from this depression! Fortunately, my parents took her in at that time.
Come back, otherwise she wouldn't
She must have become a lunatic like Aunt Hua." "No!" Another aunt patted her chest with lingering fear and said, "When I gave birth to our second child, I always annoyed him. At that time, I thought I
I was possessed by an evil spirit. Only now do I realize that I got it.
What depression!”
These things are all sympathized with, so everyone thinks what Lin Mengya said makes sense.
That's because everything she said is true, so people who are really sick will think that everything she says is right.
Only people like Xia Guizhi who are pretending to be ill will think she is talking nonsense.
So in this case, if Xia Guizhi still insists that the other party is lying, then she will become an outlier.
Lin Mengya still smiled and continued to insert the knife, "Of course, Sister-in-law Xia may also think that what I said is wrong. After all, people who are sick never think that they are sick, or some people are pretending to be sick."
The last few words completely revealed Xia Guizhi's guilty conscience. Part of the reason why she didn't want to stay here was actually because she was afraid of being exposed.
"I, I didn't!" Xia Guizhi's tears flowed out again, but now although there was still sympathy in the eyes of everyone looking at her, that sympathy was somewhat clear.
This Maolin family member must be suffering from the depression described by Dr. Huo!
Even Tie Maolin thought this way. He suddenly felt that his previous thoughts were a bit ridiculous. Why should he care about a patient? So he shook his head and said softly: "Yes, you are not sick."
