Their mothers would only tell them to hide these "filthy" things and not let anyone see them.
Because once they are seen by outsiders, they will be stigmatized as dissolute, and even if they get married in the future, they will be looked down upon by their husband's family.
It is even possible that no one will want her, and she will become an old lady that everyone despises, which will also drag down the reputation of her parents' family.
Therefore, they have always tried their best to hide themselves since they were young. Even if they feel uncomfortable, they dare not ask or speak.
Because this is how their mothers came to be, and even their mother’s mother and ancestors have come this way for generations, so why should they be any different?
Except for a few people who can follow to Xuanhuo Island, most of them are half-sold and half-forced by their parents to marry a stranger for various reasons.
man.
Fortunately, their husbands never treated them badly, and since arriving on the island, they have gained much more than they imagined.
But now they realize that those shackles that made them feel shorter did not really exist.
But many of them are imposed by their parents or worldly vision.
Many of them had low self-esteem when they first returned to Xuanhuo Island with their husbands.
But after they finally saw everything on Xuanhuo Island, many people's thoughts began to change.
This is not a place where husband is the top priority.
Women can also participate in manual labor, earn the same remuneration, and even become managers of this island. Therefore, no one who comes here wants to leave, even if someone like Aunt Hua is abandoned by her husband's family.
As a person, when faced with the choice of being sent back to her parents' home or fending for herself on the island, she still chose without hesitation
On the island. Because here is not only her son and her concern, but also because she knows that if she is sent back to her parents' home, she may face being sold like an animal again.
, or being disliked by parents
She was kicked out of her home and became a beggar.
Lin Mengya's free clinic went smoothly, but when she felt a little hungry, she realized that it would take a while longer than she expected.
"Doctor Huo, it's getting late. Why don't you go back with me and I'll stew some meat for you!"
There was an enthusiastic lady who actively extended the invitation.
She didn't expect that Dr. Huo would solve the problem that had troubled her for many years.
She wanted to thank Dr. Huo, but she was worried that she wouldn't have the chance!
As soon as they heard what she said, several people around them stopped doing anything and invited Lin Mengya to have dinner together.
As a result, he was stopped by a loud voice.
"Doctor Huo has promised me that he will go to our house for dinner tonight. Please step back quickly and don't steal someone from me!"
Lin Mengya looked up and saw a kind smiling face.
The woman had an oval face, and although she spoke very crisply, she seemed very approachable.
And she must be very popular, as many people said hello to her when she first came over.
Some people joked that she was too domineering. Obviously everyone was the same, so how could she "occupy" Dr. Huo?
As soon as the man saw Lin Mengya, he smiled so much that he introduced himself without even noticing.
"Doctor Huo, my boss is Tietou. He told me to invite you over quickly. The house is ready and waiting for you!"
Only then did Lin Mengya remember that she had indeed promised Tietou that she would go to their house for a meal. She didn't expect the family to be so eager.
She looked at the sky outside.
At this time, the afterglow of the setting sun has filled the entire sky, and it is indeed time to eat.
"Okay, then I'll take care of it."
About a quarter of an hour ago, Long Tianyu had sent someone to urge her to go back, but she was solving everyone's problems at that time, so she told the other person to wait a little longer.
Now she has to tell her family if she doesn't want to go back.
Fortunately, there is always no shortage of manpower around her. Although Long Tianyu will not let anyone disturb her, there is no doubt about her safety.
Knowing that she was going to stay to have dinner with Tietou's family, her men immediately went back to report her.
Of course, they couldn't let Lin Mengya go to someone else's house alone for an appointment, but would leave two or three people behind to ensure her safety.
However, this person will not stay by her side, but will be scattered everywhere, but he will ensure that he rushes out to protect her as soon as possible.
Lin Mengya was quite accustomed to such protective measures, and she also knew very well that her man was doing it for her own good.
After all, there are dangers everywhere here. Even on Xuanhuo Island, there are certain dangers. They can't trust anyone 100%.
They must ensure their own safety at all times, and she will cooperate.
As Aunt Lanhua took her home, she kept looking at her and smiling happily.
"Doctor Huo, we as a couple really didn't expect that our two children would be so lucky to meet you in that situation." "Speaking of which, you saved not only our two children, but also our children."
It was the fate of me and the old man. Hey, He Niang is my little daughter. I almost gave up half my life to give birth to her, so after that, I and I
Her father just looked at her like a ball in his eye." "Who would have thought that she would later insist on marrying her man. At first, her father and I didn't agree, but later we both felt that this young man was pretty good.
He could take the initiative to choose to marry into his wife, and we both agreed later.
"
Lin Mengya is a person who makes it easy for people to relax and trust her.
Just like now, although she didn't say much, Aunt Lanhua felt that she didn't have to tell others what she had to say, but she had to tell her.
Lin Mengya was not impatient either. The two of them talked while walking, and soon they became closer.
As she spoke, Aunt Lanhua changed the topic and suddenly mentioned the depression she just mentioned.
"Well, Doctor Huo, my eldest daughter-in-law may have a little bit of the depression you mentioned before. I wonder if I could trouble you to take a look at her after dinner?"
After saying that, Aunt Lanhua also felt embarrassed.
They originally invited Dr. Huo to have dinner at their home just to thank him.
The results are good now. When she said this, it seemed like she was dragging people to her home to do free work for her. Lin Mengya didn't care, she just smiled and nodded and said, "It's okay, we'll do it in a while."
You can give her a look, and not all depression is depression. This matter also depends on the behavior of your eldest daughter-in-law.
"
She didn't take any money anyway, and the most important thing was that it was all a matter of convenience, and she had a pretty good impression of He Niang and his wife, and Uncle Tietou gave her a good feeling.
Although Aunt Lanhua talks a little more, she is enthusiastic and cheerful, and she is the kind of person who can easily make friends with her. "That's great! But we still have to have dinner at home first. I think you are doing this
The afternoon was hard enough. I used to think that we blacksmiths had a hard time, but now I see that these doctors are not light-hearted either!
"
Lin Mengya sighed, "Actually, I don't have to worry about hard work. The most important thing is that everyone can benefit from it."
There are many things that she can't change even if she talks about them for a while, such as some deep-rooted ideas, and some ideas that not only need to be changed by women, but also need to be changed by men.
In short, these things cannot be completed in three or two days or three or two sentences. They need to be changed subtly.
Even in modern times, there are still many people who look at women's problems through colored glasses.
What about the relatively conservative ancient times?
They soon arrived at Uncle Tietou's house, but what they didn't expect was that the neighbor next door was actually an acquaintance.
As soon as Lin Mengya got closer, she heard a cry coming from next door. This cry was so identifiable, and it sounded like a female ghost in the legend.
She immediately stopped and looked at the source of the sound with slightly furrowed brows.
"Aunt Lanhua, who lives next door to you?" Aunt Lanhua also heard the cry, her brows furrowed, and she whispered: "Hey, it's Maolin and that crybaby from his house!
Sometimes I wonder, what do you think Mao Lin is thinking? Just leave it alone.
Women don’t insist on asking for such a thing, don’t talk about him crying, even those of us next to us are upset when we hear it.”
Of course, Lin Mengya knew that this cry must be upsetting. If it was not upsetting, it would not have the effect of tormenting people.
An idea struck her, and she felt that there was something in Aunt Lanhua's words, so she took the opportunity to inquire about it.
"Aunt Lanhua, according to what you said, the wife Tie Maolin chose before was not her, so how did the two of them get together?" Aunt Lanhua opened the door of her house, first pulled her in, and then poked her head in
After looking around, he said in a low voice: "I'm telling you this, don't talk nonsense to the outside world! I heard Maolin's parents said that he should go first
We showed Xiang Mao Lin a house outside, and the girl in that house was quite capable."
"And their family didn't ask for much betrothal gifts. They also said that after getting married, the old couple could live with their son-in-law." "On the way back, Maolin rescued a girl who fell into the water. The girl said that she
Encountered a water bandit who accidentally fell into the water. After Mao Lin rescued him, she insisted that her innocence was ruined. If Mao Lin didn't marry her
If so, she would have no choice but to jump into the sea and commit suicide."
"Hey, what you said is really unbearable. Mao Lin rescued her with good intentions, and ended up rescuing an enemy!"
"How can she compare to such a nice girl? In the end, Mao Lin also softened his heart. He really couldn't see her seeking death and survival, so he agreed." Speaking of this, Aunt Lanhua felt a little sorry for Tie Maolin.
