"Xiao Bei, so, although you have made money during this period, you still don't dare to spend money on yourself, just to save the money for your brother and younger brother?"
Su Xiaotian understood.
I had always thought that the reason why the Qian family allowed their daughter to study was because they loved their daughter.
Only now do I realize that this is just a pig-killing tray.
Raise your daughter to be a talented person, and then let your sons lie on her body and suck her blood!
Qian Xiaobei hesitated for a moment and nodded.
"My mother said that when I go to college and have a job in the future, my monthly salary will be half of that of my brother and half of that of my younger brother!"
As Qian Xiaobei said these words, the girls in the dormitory were shocked.
Half brother, half brother?
What about Qian Xiaobei himself?
The salary is given to her elder brother and younger brother at home. If this girl doesn’t have food or clothes, won’t she get married in the future?
Her parents asked her to study just to achieve such a goal. It is unimaginable!
"Then what should you do yourself?" Zhao Hongmei couldn't hold back and asked.
Although I have always felt that there is a bit of patriarchal preference in the family.
But he didn't expect that compared with Qian Xiaobei, his parents were simply too fair.
She has never asked that she must help her brothers and sisters at home live a good life, but that she should go to college and have a good job so that she can live a comfortable life in the future.
Qian Xiaobei was at a loss, and his family didn't say anything.
She was probably allowed to keep a little bit for living expenses, right?
How would you live if you really didn’t have any money left?
Although he didn't wait for Qian Xiaobei's answer, Su Xiaotian probably understood.
"All the money you earned during this period was sent home?"
If the Qian family thinks this way, if Qian Xiaobei sends all the money he earned during this period, Qian Xiaobei's difficulties will still lie ahead.
Qian Xiaobei shook his head.
Su Xiaotian let out a long sigh of relief.
The other girls in the dormitory also breathed a sigh of relief.
"No, I only sent 20 yuan, saying that I earned it by working during the holidays. My family replied to me and told me not to go back during the summer vacation and to work in the capital to earn money."
When Qian Xiaobei said this, although there was a little smile on his face, he could not hide the sadness in his eyes.
"That's okay." Su Xiaotian breathed a sigh of relief.
After all, this girl is not stupid enough. If she sends so much money to her family this time, she will probably continue to send money like this in the future.
"My mother also said that the family is preparing to marry my eldest brother a wife, and the bride price has not been collected yet. She asked me to find a way to make more money. It is best to make money after school."
Ha, this idea really makes sense.
Since Qian Xiaobei decided to tell these things, he did not hesitate and made them clear.
In fact, she didn't think there was anything wrong with these words before, but during this time in college, she gradually felt that it was unreasonable.
"Then why didn't you give all the money you earned during this period to your parents?" Zhao Hongmei was curious.
According to Qian Xiaobei's character, he shouldn't be able to keep money in his hands, right?
Since everyone at home has spoken, Qian Xiaobei must find a way to send money.
Otherwise, we can only say that the Qian family's education is not a success.
"Jianhong said that we can't just be in the hair accessories business. We can try other things later. I think there may be investment by then." Qian Xiaobei said coquettishly.
Su Xiaotian didn't expect that this was the reason why this silly girl didn't send all the money.
If Jianhong hadn't said he wanted to expand his business, Qian Xiaobei would have sent all the money he earned during this time to his family.
"I never thought about not giving them the money I made. I just thought about making some more money and sending it home together!" Qian Xiaobei said in a low voice.
From what she said, Su Xiaotian could feel that this girl must feel that she was wrong, right?
In fact, how could she have done anything wrong?
It was clearly caused by the unreasonable behavior of the whole family and the preference for sons over daughters.
"It's okay even if you don't send money back." Qi Xiaofang said.
Qian Xiaobei was obviously confused and looked at Qi Xiaofang in disbelief.
The other students in the dormitory have good living conditions. After all, they live in the city.
She, Li Jianhong and Qi Xiaofang were the only three people who came from the countryside.
As a country girl, why would Qi Xiaofang say that she was right not to send money to her family?
Although she is smart and was admitted to Beijing University, deep down, she is a weak and inferior person due to the upbringing of her native family.
The young girl who was supposed to be carefree was not even sure whether it was right or wrong not to give all the money she earned to her family.
Her parents had written letters saying that the bride price for her eldest brother’s wife was not enough, but she still did not send the money.
Is this too selfish?
She looked at her roommates with longing eyes.
Several people who were walking towards the canteen did not leave either, but stood still and looked at Qian Xiaobei.
"Xiaobei, you are still a student. You should not bear the burden of the family. Your eldest brother's marriage is his own business. If it is more serious, it is your parents' responsibility, not yours." Chu Yue said.
said.
If these words are not made clear today, this girl may not be able to get through this hurdle in her heart.
"Yes, Xiaobei, it is a good thing for you to be filial, but filial piety does not mean agreeing to all the reasonable and unreasonable requests of your family." Su Xiaotian continued.
"My parents said they would support me in going to college, and when I have a job in the future, they would no longer care about me. They could only give me a small dowry, and the rest belongs to my brothers and sisters at home." Zhao Hongmei said: "They
Say, I have a job and can live a good life."
Qian Xiaobei looked left and right. Is this how it should be?
"But..." Isn't it too selfish to only consider yourself?
"Xiaobei, don't always think about what you should do more for your family. Think about what contributions your elder brother and your younger brother have made to your family?" Chu Yue was persuasive.
It's definitely unrealistic to get this girl to accept their ideas all at once.
But we can give this girl a little guidance to understand that she doesn't owe her family anything.
Just do your best to be filial to your parents.
Instead of taking the entire family's life on your shoulders and taking it as your own responsibility.
Their family has never asked her to take on any responsibilities at home.
Although this has something to do with their better conditions, it is not entirely the reason.
In fact, her parents have always emphasized that everyone in the family must bear different responsibilities.
According to their family's theory, as a student, what Xiaobei should do is study.
It is not right to bear the responsibility of the eldest brother in the family getting married.
Su Xiaotian couldn't help but sigh.
Not to mention that this is only the 1980s, even in the 21st century, there are still many people who think like this.
A daughter's mission is to help her son live a better life.