Sometimes, Yao Anyi also thought, if he had not been raised as a girl from the beginning, would he have become what he is now, and even he hates it?
Yao Anling thoughtfully said: "What you said seems right. You were not born like this. You were harmed by your third aunt..."
Yao Anyi, who was just about to be moved: "..."
——Although you are right to accuse my mother, but can you please stop speaking ill of my mother in front of me?
——It doesn’t matter if I refute it, nor does it matter if I don’t refute it.
"And me," Yao Anxin squeezed the handkerchief in her hand and said nervously, "I am a bit weak-tempered. The old lady always encourages me to talk more, and even specially invites me to speak... I dare not
I'm talking because I feel... I don't have a brother, I... I don't have the confidence."
When talking about the latter part, Yao Anxin's eyes suddenly turned red.
This was the biggest secret she kept in her heart, but now, she had the courage to speak out.
Yao Anling: "..."
——Well, this is indeed a good example. She used to "laugh at" her cousin because of this matter.
——You think it doesn’t matter if my cousin relapses, she still doesn’t have a biological brother?
--Pitiful!
Yao Anling looked at her brother Yao Anhong. The reason why she is so arrogant and fearless is because she has a brother, right?
Is her brother one of the most beneficial factors in her growth?
"The reason why I study so hard is because I don't want to live up to my parents' expectations." Seeing everyone confiding their secrets, Yao Anhong also said it, "It's because I'm afraid that I won't be able to do what they want.
Look, that’s why I used to secretly read books behind my parents’ backs, desperately trying to make them proud... This can be considered one of the environmental factors, right?"
"It definitely counts," Yao Anling nodded and said seriously, "If the old lady hadn't intervened and asked my brother to make a study plan in advance and forced him to study according to the plan, he finally corrected his study habits.
My previous study habits have been like this for a long time. Not to mention getting better, my brother's health will probably get worse..."
Despite her young age, she knew that her brother would secretly read behind his parents' back even when he was sick.
At that time, Yao An also hated that she was not a boy, so she made her brother work so hard. If she were a boy, her brother would not have to study hard regardless of his health...
As a result, after the old lady intervened, Yao Anling realized: You should study hard, her brother is a fool!
There were obviously better and healthier ways to read, but her brother chose the stupidest one, which not only ruined his body but also failed to read anything.
It was then that Yao Anling realized how important reading methods are.
After Yao Anling had her own study tasks, she paid special attention to this point, fearing that she would learn from her stupid brother and only study hard, which would damage her body.
The four members of the kindergarten group, you and I, were looking for the "change" that the old lady said, and picked out the so-called influencing "factors" one by one.
Then they discovered that what the old lady said seemed to be true, because when they started to change, it was when they were taken away from their parents' bodies by the old lady with a strong attitude, and they could not even bring a close servant to live in them.
I walked into the old lady’s yard and followed the old lady’s rules, and then...
Seeing that it was getting dark outside, Yao Anhong reminded everyone that they had almost finished the summary. Otherwise, missing dinner would be a trivial matter, and the remaining time would not be enough to complete the homework assigned by his husband, which would be troublesome.
The old lady's rules were very strict, and the gentlemen followed suit and strictly required them to "do all the work on the same day," without any special factors. If anyone dared to stay until the next day, they would be punished collectively.
If you don't want to be blamed by others in the group, you must be strict with yourself and complete the homework assigned by your teacher on time.
"Ah, if it hadn't been for my brother's reminder, I wouldn't have noticed that it was already so late." Yao Anling looked at the sky outside, feeling annoyed, and quickly asked everyone to start summarizing.
Now that they have determined that "environmental" factors are very important to a person's growth and what are the "factors" produced by these, they will understand what the "early education" that the old lady wants is like.
They don't need to consider the big environment. Since the old lady can educate them well, she will definitely not educate the ninth young master poorly. So the question now is, in what aspects do they need to invent and create something suitable for such a young child to "learn"
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"If you put it this way, then whether it is black and white cards or color cards, we should start from the most basic cognitive things..." Yao Anhong said thoughtfully, "When I was a child, Sister Ling didn't know anything.
The adults told her. But at that time, we didn’t understand, just what she asked, what we said. Now Uncle Jiu is still young and can’t ask questions, so we will sort out the questions he may ask in advance.
Come out, put it on a card, and tell him in advance."
"But, how do we know what questions such a big child will ask?" Yao Anling tilted her head, "Brother, do you still remember what questions I asked you back then?"
Everyone looked over with curious faces, waiting for his answer.
Yao Anhong said with a smile: "Although I don't remember clearly, we can just rely on a piece of white paper. You have forgotten. Can the old lady remind us that a newborn child is a piece of white paper? What is white paper?"
What it looks like? It’s just blank, with nothing..."
Yao Anling's eyes suddenly lit up: "I understand, what brother means is that the guy doesn't know anything now. No matter what is drawn on the card, it is actually okay, right?"
"But you can't draw everything, right?" Yao Anxin hesitated, "It's just like when we study in an academy, the teacher didn't teach us everything at once, but started with something simple and taught us one step at a time.
A stage of learning..."
"Well, let's start with the simple ones." Yao Anling felt that her cousin was right, nodded and said, "Just like the number coloring cards that the old lady gave us, mine is the simplest, and my cousin's will
A little more difficult... Then we now need to set a slope from simple to difficult, make a sample and show it to the old lady first, and then we can know how to solve the problem of difficult slope. With this, we will move on
It will be simple if you just take care of it."
Yao Anxin gave a thumbs up: "Sister Ling, you are really smart. You are worthy of being our team leader. You think very carefully."
"Of course, who am I? I am Yao Anling!" Yao Anling raised her chin with pride on her face.
Yao Anyi snickered beside him.
It was only at this time that he felt that this little cousin was still a child, a very arrogant child!
