Gu Qingling never expected that after the news about the military training at Devil Academy spread, there would be so much gossip in the capital.
She thought that those things about her would definitely be at the top of the hot search list, but it turned out that with the Fu family, the Ruan family and the Ji family, people were fed up with it.
"Is there something wrong with Mrs. Fu?"
Gu Qingling's expression was hard to explain. As far as she knew, both the eldest son and the second son were her biological children, so why were they treated so differently?
Even though she has the sons of Uncle Yao, Second Master Yao and others, even if her ten fingers are of different lengths, she is not biased to this extent.
Li Wenchong shook his head slightly: "I don't know. When this happened, I couldn't believe it. But if it hadn't happened, the emperor would have almost forgotten that there was an official named Fu in the capital. He just didn't know that this time
Is being famous a good thing or a bad thing?"
If a man can't even take care of his own backyard, who would entrust him with anything important?
Li Wenchong felt that Mr. Fu was afraid that his career as an official would be over.
Also, I'm afraid that Mr. Fu is not a smart man. Otherwise, how could the eldest son whom the Fu family had trained with so much money be "forced" to be like this by a stay-at-home woman?
"How can your brother reuse a man who can't even manage the inner house?" Gu Qingling raised an eyebrow.
"Heroes think alike."
Gu Qingling rolled her eyes: "You men will only sympathize with Master Fu for his misfortune to meet such a daughter-in-law, but I don't know if anyone has ever thought about what Mrs. Fu looked like when she married into the Fu family, and what forced her to do this."
It’s like this now.”
"Uh..." Li Wenchong was embarrassed. He really didn't expect this.
He is a man, and when a problem arises, he will naturally consider it from a man's perspective.
But after being reminded by Gu Qingling, Li Wenchong really felt that the Fu family's feng shui was not very good.
"Isn't it? Girls from any family are not raised in a pampered way. They are trained in various ways before they get married. They are afraid that they will not be able to do well in their husband's family and will be rejected by their husband's family. But no matter how well the training is done by the mother's family, the husband's family will not live up to expectations.
, then it can only be said that if oranges grow in Huainan, they will become oranges, and if they grow in Huaibei, they will become oranges."
Gu Qingling said, "It seems that Madam Fu almost drove her eldest son to death, but in the final analysis, she was first driven crazy by the Fu family, and then she became mad and then used it on Mr. Fu."
As for Mr. Fu, there are also many problems.
He is not a three- or four-year-old child, he is already an adult, and it stands to reason that he should have an adult's way of thinking and doing things.
Even if he was suppressed by filial piety, there were many ways to deal with Mrs. Fu, but he just had nothing. Mrs. Fu forced him to have a heart attack and was bedridden, which was a bit "stupid".
"That's how people are. The more they lack something, the more they want to get it. Mr. Fu is probably too in need of love, so he pays so much attention to Mrs. Fu's opinion of him."
"The more Mrs. Fu treated him like this, the more he wanted Mrs. Fu to show kindness to him. As for Mrs. Fu, her eldest son was taken away as soon as he was born and she never hugged him properly. Deep down in her heart, she may also be worried about losing this son.
Son, that’s why the reaction to Fu Dagong’s incident was so big..."
"Mrs. Fu Da is ill. She probably wants to attract Mr. Fu's attention in this way and prove her status in Mr. Fu's heart."
"Not only did the Fu family not feel how painful it was for the mother and the child to share the mother and child as soon as the child was born, but they were afraid that the mother and child would have a deep relationship, and the mother would have too much influence on the son, so they specially separated them.
open……"
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Really, when Gu Qingling heard the gossip about the Fu family, she really wanted to roll her eyes, thinking that the Fu family was sick.
In the world of her previous life, scientists said that children cannot live without their mothers, and the education of children must not only start with children, but also with the parent-child relationship.
The most important of these is the role of mother.
Children under the age of three should not be separated from their mother. Only when the mother gives the child enough love can the child establish a sufficient sense of security and thrive in the future.
However, in this world, these big families are different. They really like to focus on the "education" of their children from childhood, but what they focus on is learning, but they ignore the spiritual needs of the children and their mothers.
They try to cut off the mother's influence on the child and shape the child according to their own imagination and standards.
Unfortunately, the extreme price is that it takes a lifetime to make up for an unfortunate childhood.
The cases of Master Fu and Mrs. Fu are just a microcosm of most people.
When Gu Qingling said this, Li Wenchong did not refute.
Because he suddenly thought of the royal family and himself.
Not long after the prince is born, according to the rules, he will be taken care of by other concubines besides his biological mother. This is to prevent the bond between mother and child from being too deep and the biological mother's influence on the child being too great.
It is said that other concubines take care of it, but in fact it is all left to the nuns and palace maids. Being the master is just a matter of words.
Enlightenment begins after the age of three, and students enter the upper study room to study.
At this time, the requirements are not so strict. You only need to study for a long time, and you can go back to the concubine to rest after the end.
When he was six years old, he had to move to the prince's residence. Until he got married, divorced and built a palace, he never lived with his biological mother in his life.
This is the case with Li Wenchong.
When he was born, the late emperor was already the emperor, and he followed the rules of a prince.
When Emperor Mingguang was born, the late emperor was still a prince and built a palace outside the palace. He still had the opportunity to live with his biological mother. However, he was enlightened at the age of three and moved to the outer courtyard at the age of six. His daily life was provided by nannies, maids, and eunuchs.
take care of.
The biological mother can ask, but apart from the time she spends sleeping at night and going to school outside, there is not much time left for mother and child to spend time together on a daily basis.
If you ask Li Wenchong, what does it feel like?
He himself was a little unclear.
When he was born, the late emperor was already old, and his biological mother was of low status. She gave birth to him just so that the mother could gain a promotion based on the son's worth.
Obviously, she was successful.
In addition, since he was the youngest son, the late emperor loved him very much.
Even Emperor Mingguang was old enough to be his father, and he took good care of his uncompetitive younger brother.
Of course, it cannot be ruled out that it is for the late emperor to see, brothers and sisters respect each other.
The tool man Li Wenchong hugged Emperor Mingguang's lap when he was still a baby. When the late emperor passed away and Emperor Mingguang came to the throne, he even held the tool man's seat firmly.
As time went by, I gradually became more sincere.
No one had mentioned this matter before, and Li Wenchong had never thought about another way of getting along between mother and son. He had never thought about it.
It's just a pity that I came from a royal family and couldn't be married to my biological mother like ordinary people. It's a bit regretful.
But this regret quickly disappeared in the face of royal rules.
Li Wenchong had a hole in his heart, but he didn't know where it came from.
Until I met Gu Qingling and was exposed by her.
"Can't you grow up next to your biological mother? Is the impact... so big?"
"Of course." Gu Qingling said with an affirmative look, "Not to mention others, let's take myself as an example. There is a big difference between the second master Yao who has been favored by me since childhood and the uncle Yao who has been ignored by me since childhood. Uncle Yao.
He is not as confident as Mr. Yao, and he does not trust me as much as Mr. Yao. He seems to be a gentleman, but in fact he is not decisive enough and hesitant."
