A confused young man walked into Teacher Ning's office.
"Hello, Teacher Ning." He lowered his head and bowed to her.
He is a friend introduced by Ning Youguang's student, and he has respected her for a long time.
"How did you get here? Is the road smooth?" she asked softly.
"Come here by subway." The young man stood in front of her, full of restraint.
"Drink some water." Ning Youguang walked to the desk, picked up a bottle of water that she had already placed, and handed it to him.
"Thank you." The young man took it with both hands.
"It's quite a long way from your house." Ning Youguang sat down on the white chair in the middle of the office.
Under her guidance, the young man also sat down on the chair, "It's okay, I'll leave early."
The young man smiled shyly.
His hair is a bit long and he has a gentle face.
"What's the problem you came to see me with?" Ning Youguang asked after a few simple greetings made the young man relax slightly.
The young man immediately sat up straight and answered seriously, "Teacher Ning, I don't know what I should do or what I can do."
Ning Youguang nodded slightly, "Then what are you doing now?"
"I resigned two months ago. Now I am at home and have done nothing." The young man said frustratedly.
"Do you like staying at home?"
"I live with my parents now. I don't like staying at home. If I were alone..." The young man thought seriously, "I should like it."
"How is your relationship with your parents at home?" Ning Youguang continued to ask.
"My parents are very good to me, but they always urge me to go to work, which makes me very uncomfortable." The young man looked depressed.
"Don't you like going to work?"
"I think, yes." The young man said word by word.
"Many people don't like to go to work." Ning Youguang chuckled, "This is a natural thing."
"Yes." The young man nodded with a smile. Soon, a painful expression appeared on his face, "But my parents don't think so. They think that college students don't like to work after graduation.
Eating well is urging me to find a job."
"Then what do you think your parents think?" Ning Youguang asked.
"I can understand their thoughts, but I don't like them imposing such thoughts on me." The young man seemed to have been tortured by his parents.
Ning Youguang continued to ask, "What kind of hobbies do you have?"
"Yes." The young man answered quickly, "I like to do carpentry."
"Oh, it sounds great." Ning Youguang said with a smile.
The young man lowered his head when she praised him, "It's just for fun."
"What kind of work did you do before?"
"I have worked in IT, new media, administrators, Internet companies, etc."
"What's the longest thing you've ever done?"
"Internet companies, eight months, others have not exceeded three months."
Ning Youguang looked at the young man who lowered his head and was full of unconfidence and confusion. He changed his position and said, "The world we live in is based on uncertainty, but we can use this according to our talents.
Uncertainty turns into certainty. In this process, we have two states of existence: first, I know what I want, and second, I don’t know what I want.”
"When we don't know what we want, it actually represents our future. Time and space are unlimited. We can play with anything and experience anything. At this time, you can do anything.