"But precisely when we do everything, it also means that we can't do anything well. When we can't do anything well, it also means that we don't know what we are doing at all -"
"The confusing period of life has come."
The joy of 'being seen' appeared on the young man's face, "Teacher Ning, I am in this state. I feel that I am very impetuous now and I am looking for the reason. I also asked many friends, and they analyzed many reasons with me, and even
Some people told me that the environment of the company I went to was not good, and that the feng shui of my family was not conducive to my career. Others said that I did not get along with the bosses of those companies. There were all kinds of random reasons..."
Ning Youguang felt a little dumbfounded after hearing this, "How did you deal with these factors that troubled you before?"
"Most of the time I choose to escape, not accept it, and choose another place. But later I found that it was just a waste of my time and energy."
"Continuously immersed in the uncertainty of life."
"Yes." The young man said helplessly, "I hope I can get out of this vicious cycle. I have also seen some people who will not stop living in the house because of the bad feng shui; they will not stop living because of the people they meet.
If you don't feel comfortable, stop dating... They can always find a way to balance these. From beginning to end, they are very calm, peaceful, and not anxious. I hope I can be in this state."
"That's because they have something very persistent in their hearts and they know what they actually want. They understand very well that all they have to do is try to balance all the adverse factors around them and strive for their goals. Only when they are determined can they achieve their goals.
As the saying goes, 'the environment changes with the heart', everything on the outside is transformed by the heart." Ning Youguang said clearly.
"Yes, Teacher Ning." The young man paused slightly and continued, "My biggest problem now is that I don't know what I actually want. I am constantly trying and making mistakes, but the sunk costs are already very high, so I still
I haven't found it. I see my classmates - some of them are doing very well in the workplace. When I see their high-spirited state in the circle of friends, I sometimes envy them, but most of the time, I feel
I can’t do it myself.”
After a conversation with the young man, Ning Youguang discovered that the young man is actually very smart and is constantly exploring the path of self-growth.
Now, he just encountered some temporary obstacles and was unable to overcome them, and there was no one around him who understood him and helped him through this period of confusion.
She said, "If you can't find what your heart wants for the time being, don't be afraid or anxious. You can focus on the present and do what you can do now. In this way, all the uncertainties in your life will be gone.
As the tide recedes slowly, certainty will surface. At that time, you will be full of security, see the meaning of your existence, and your life will naturally bloom."
The young man listened to her words and thought a little.
Ning Youguang continued, "The moment you decide to become yourself, you become your own 'creator', and eternal life can begin."
The young man thought for a while and asked, "Does Teacher Ning mean that I can keep my mind unshakable while searching for the direction?"
Ning Youguang nodded appreciatively, "Yes, first find where your heart is, and then move forward with determination. Time will tell you the answer. During this process, communicate frankly with your parents and tell them