"No, I've obviously read movies and articles analyzed by psychiatrists." Liang Yule denied.
"You have read movies and articles analyzed by psychologists, but can this make you 100% sure that your mother was really raped by your father? If you were really sure, you wouldn't come to me for help today.
,right?"
"Yes, I'm just guessing. I haven't been able to completely confirm this yet, but I think it's very likely to be right."
"You are right. Since there is no way to prove this 100%, then the idea you are guessing now will show two results, one is 'you are right' and the other is 'you are wrong'
, since there is no completely accurate result yet, why are you so sure that your guess is right? You may also be wrong."
"Then what should we do?" Liang Yule felt very distressed.
"It's very simple, just think of something that has not been fully confirmed as false, and don't think about it constantly, because it is a scary thing in itself. The more you think about it, the more scared you will be."
Liang Yule clarified his thoughts and said, "Okay, I will be angry enough not to think about this."
"It's useless." Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "If you don't think about something, it will only make you think about it more."
"Then what should I do?" Liang Yule had a big head.
"It's very simple." Ning Youguang said, "When these fearful thoughts come up, you know that they are false, and then you watch them come and go."
She looked at Liang Yule's blank face and said, "You don't understand, do you? Let me give you an example. For example, someone said to you, 'Our country is at war and we are all going to die.' You know this is completely false. You
You won’t believe it, right? Then, you will think she is making it up, ignore her, and then continue to do your own thing and live your own life.”
Liang Yule said, "I understand. For example, I often think, 'My father is going to kill my mother.' In fact, this thing is not happening now. It is just an illusion that I guessed. I treat my brain as a mess."
People who tell lies, then if I know what they say is false, I won’t believe it, and I will just live how I should live, right?”
"Yes, that's how you think." Ning Youguang said.
"Okay, I understand, teacher." Liang Yule scratched his face, "Then what we need to do now is to determine whether my mother has been raped by my father?"
"You can say that."
"My mother can't come out." Liang Yule said, "Teacher, can you go see her? No, I think it's better not to let my mother know now."
"She can't think independently yet, so it's better not to be reckless."
"Then I secretly take a video and show it to the teacher. Does the teacher think it's okay?"
"Okay." Ning Youguang thought for a moment, "Don't let your father know. We don't need to maliciously speculate on others, but we must have the awareness to protect ourselves."
"Okay, teacher." Liang Yule said, "I'm only at home on weekends. I usually live on campus, so I can only send you a message on weekends."
"No problem." Ning Youguang said, "Everything is fine."
"However, I can post more videos during the winter vacation." Liang Yule asked again, "When will the teacher return to the capital?"