The place where Ning Youguang treated Liang Yiyi was the hotel where the mother and daughter stayed after arriving in Beijing.
This is the place Liang Yule chose after communicating with her.
This time Liang Yule was able to bring her mother out——
She felt, "Fortunately, Teacher Fairy once treated my mother's illness and she still looks very good-looking."
In addition, her father would be away on business for a long time before she could abduct her mother.
"I still remember when Lele was born, she was so small. Now she is old enough to take care of her mother." After observing Liang Yiyi's condition, Ning Youguang decided to start the topic with her daughter.
"Lele has grown relatively quickly in the past two years." Liang Yiyi replied with a smile, "She is now 1.68 meters tall and is in her second year of high school."
"Wow!" Ning Youguang praised, "Then her height will definitely exceed 1.7 meters, and she will have long legs by then."
Liang Yiyi heard her words and asked, "Does being 1.7 meters tall mean you have long legs?"
Ning Youguang nodded seriously, "The girl is only 1.7 meters tall, but her legs are not much shorter."
"I'm also 1.7 meters tall." Liang Yiyi struggled, "But my husband often says that I have short legs."
After a while, she frowned and looked at her daughter again, "I hope Lele will be like dad, not like me. It's better to look like dad, but miserable like me."
She loathed herself and said, "The body proportions are not good and ugly."
Ning Youguang asked calmly, "Your husband often says you have short legs?"
Liang Yiyi nodded sadly, "Yes, he always says that I am too fat and that my legs are short."
Ning Youguang asked, "Do you often say this? When did you start?"
"It started after we got married." Liang Yiyi said, "Actually, I think he is right, because I am really fat."
Ning Youguang showed an expression of disbelief, "How could it be possible? You are so thin now!"
"I have lost a little weight now." Liang Yiyi said, "But when my husband and I got married, I was still very fat. At that time, everyone else wore size XS in wedding dresses. I wanted to wear size XL, and many people laughed at me behind my back.
I’m so fat even when I’m married, but fortunately my husband doesn’t dislike me and says I’m cute like this.”
Perhaps because she was caught up in the beautiful memories of the past, her face showed a bit of sweetness.
However, she soon fell into sadness again, "But I became fatter and fatter later. Doctor Ning, do you remember? When I gave birth to Lele, I was very fat. I weighed more than 170 kilograms at that time.
Woolen cloth."
"I came home from the hospital after giving birth to Lele. One day, I came out of the bathroom naked after taking a shower. I saw myself in the mirror, a pile of white meat, no different from a pig, with a protruding waist and abdomen.
"At that time, I felt that I was so ugly. No wonder my husband said that I was too fat and wanted to sleep in a separate room with me."
Ning Youguang said, "Women who have just given birth have to go through this. This is normal and they will recover later."
Liang Yiyi shook her head, "But some people get back in shape immediately after giving birth, and their figures are even better than before giving birth. My husband told me that a friend's wife gained 15 pounds from pregnancy to delivery.
She returned to her prenatal weight after her son was born, and her son weighed 7 pounds after birth."
She said sadly, "I, Huailele, have gained 45 pounds, and our family, Lele, only weighed 5 pounds when she was born. All the fat has grown on me. It's because I didn't manage my figure well. It's because I'm greedy."
, it’s all my fault.”
Liang Yule saw his mother constantly blaming herself, with a look of worry and anxiety on her face.
She opened her mouth and wanted to say something, but she calmed down under Ning Youguang's eyes.
Ning Youguang said, "Everyone's body is different. Some people do not gain much weight during pregnancy, while others gain more weight. This has something to do with genes."
However, Liang Yiyi, who was stuck in a fixed self-perception, firmly believed that her fat figure was due to her lack of self-management and it was all her own fault.
Ning Youguang had no choice but to ask, "Then how did you lose weight later?"
"Get a personal trainer, go on a diet, and exercise."
"How long did it take?"
"For more than a year," Liang Yiyi said, "diet and exercise were really painful, and I was always undisciplined and couldn't stick to it every day. I gained weight for a long, long time."
"It's been more than a year and you're pretty good." Ning Youguang said, "After you lose weight, your husband shouldn't say you're fat, right?"
Liang Yiyi shook her head, "I haven't lost much weight, I'm still fat."
"So your husband still calls you fat?"
"Yes, I still have a lot of meat on my body." Liang Yiyi said, "My husband said that I am prone to obesity and cannot relax, but must be self-disciplined and persistent. He also reminded me very carefully to be alert, so that
I will not indulge in my diet and eat randomly. With his supervision, I will indeed be much better and I will not dare to eat randomly."
Ning Youguang couldn't help but feel a chill running down his spine.
"What do you usually eat?"
"Eat boiled vegetables, fruits, whole grains, high-grade protein, etc." Liang Yiyi said, "Sometimes I can't help but secretly want to eat some cake."
She made a gesture, which was about the size of a thumbnail, "But it can't be seen by my husband. If he sees it, he will accuse me again."
"Don't eat sugar at all?" Ning Youguang asked cautiously.
"Sugar will make me gain weight." Liang Yiyi said firmly, "Can't eat it."
At the same time, her eyes showed great desire.
It's obvious that she likes sweets.
Ning Youguang asked softly, "Do you know that if you don't eat sweets at all, it is easy for people to fall into depression?"
"Will I fall into depression?" Liang Yiyi's face showed confusion, "Wouldn't not eating sugar make people age less?"
Ning Youguang said, "It is indeed bad to eat too much sugar, but the human body still needs to consume some sugar if it needs it, otherwise your metabolic system and secretory system will be destroyed. At the same time, an appropriate amount of sugar will make you
To maintain a good brain function, not eating at all is not good for your health."
She then asked, "Have you ever looked in the mirror after losing weight? You have a good figure and you no longer need to use such extreme means to lose weight."
Liang Yiyi was lost in thought. After a while, she said, "When I weighed close to 100 pounds, my coach and classmates all said that I looked good after losing weight."
Sometimes she looks at the person in the mirror and feels that it's okay, almost done.
She happily went to the mall and asked the store clerk to help her choose a bunch of beautiful new clothes from head to toe.
After replacing it.
She felt that she had taken on a new look and became a beautiful woman with a good figure.
When she was shopping in new clothes, many people around her couldn't help but cast admiring glances at her, and she herself was very happy.
But when she came home wearing new clothes and saw her husband in the afternoon.
The first time he saw her, he frowned, "Yiyi, why would you buy such clothes? This kind of clothes doesn't suit you at all. It looks really ugly."
He went on to say: "Please, can you have some brains? Next time you go shopping, tell me in advance. Don't go to the mall and be fooled by those salesmen who specially choose inappropriate clothes for you. You always wear clothes."
It’s so disorganized.”
After hearing what her husband said, Liang Yiyi was very hurt and felt extremely embarrassed.
Why is it that the clothes that make her feel happy and confident when she wears them in the afternoon are deemed useless in the eyes of her husband?
She recalled in her mind what she saw in the mirror in the mall in the afternoon, and tried her best to argue for herself, "I look good in the mirror. This dress is the latest style. These are very popular this year. Do you think I look good in this?"
Show off your waist?”
However, it seemed that her husband couldn't bear to look at her even once more.
He looked at her with a very disapproving look, "Yiyi, could I lie to you?"
"Do those who sell clothes know you, or do I know you better?"
He almost shouted the last words.
"After he finished yelling, he flicked his hand and went upstairs and stopped paying attention to me. He looked very angry." Tears flowed from Liang Yiyi's eyes, "I feel very confused."
"I actually like my new clothes and think they're pretty good - but maybe my husband really thinks they're ugly?!" She looked at Ning Youguang and said, "My husband has such good taste, I think I might have mistaken my belief.
Got a shopping guide.”
"What about yourself?" Ning Youguang asked, "Do you think those clothes look good?"
"I don't know anymore." Liang Yiyi said, "Anyway, that night, I went back to the room and put all the new clothes I bought in the afternoon at the bottom of the closet, and never took them out to wear again."
Under the long-term mental control of her lover, Liang Yiyi has developed a wrong perception of whether she is ugly or beautiful.
"Can you tell me about Lele's father? I still remember how you looked when you got married. You were very handsome."
"My husband is very handsome." Liang Yiyi showed a fangirl-like expression, "The facial features are very beautiful, especially the eyes. When he looks at me, I feel like I am the only one in the world.
one person."
She said, "And he is very romantic. He will carefully prepare gifts, champagne, and flowers for every festival. He will also take me to a hotel with a good environment. He will often prepare surprises. He is a person who knows how to live. He is simply
My ideal type.”
Ning Youguang waited for her to finish speaking and asked softly, "He does sound like a very charming man." She said, "Such a perfect man is rare. Isn't there anything bad about him that makes you feel bad?
"
Liang Yiyi thought for a while, "If I do something wrong, his temper will become bad and he will be very angry."
"He will also be cold and violent."
"This is what I don't like."
She said very frustrated, "But these are all because I did something wrong first, so he was angry."
"Does he often tell you that you have done something wrong?" Ning Youguang asked.
"Yes." Liang Yiyi said sadly, "He often said to me, 'Don't you think you did something wrong?', 'Why can't you even do this well? What can you do well? You can't even do this well?'
If you don’t know how to do this, wouldn’t you be able to find a way or think about it yourself?’…” 1314