After hearing this, Ning Youguang has determined that Liang Yiyi's husband is a mental manipulator.
He often used cold violence against Liang Yiyi, and refused to explain his unreasonable anger or disappearance. After he came back, he would carefully prepare some romantic gestures to cover up his excessive behavior, and mislead the facts to make Liang Yiyi continue to compromise.
Bear the pain and discomfort alone.
Before marriage, she had a gentle personality, was willing to help others, and showed a high degree of tolerance for her lover. This also caused Liang Yiyi to like his personality so much that she decided that he was her Mr. Right after not dating for long.
Her parents were still there at that time, and they felt that their daughter's boyfriend was a bit strange and needed more observation. However, they died after a short period of observation.
Liang Yiyi married her husband under the huge fear of suddenly losing her parents.
And her husband also took advantage of her fear of losing her parents, her worries about her body, and her inner desire to be understood, appreciated and loved... to control her over the years.
She over-idealized her husband and desperately wanted to believe that he was the person who loved her most, could protect her the most, and was the most trustworthy in the world.
Until the first problem occurred——
That was the first time he accused her of doing something she didn't do and expected her to agree with him.
When she thought it was an accident, the problem would eventually arise again.
But because she was manipulated in their relationship, she didn't want to blame him or re-examine him. Instead, she stuck to the romantic image of the perfect lover in her mind.
The family changes that happened to Liang Yiyi and her personality provided the perfect entry point for her husband's manipulative behavior.
Liang Yiyi's husband's personality is a typical "charismatic gaslighter".
In daily life, some men often use this method to conquer women.
They can often be very confusing -
When people get along with them, they feel that something is wrong, but they also enjoy the romantic and sweet feeling they bring.
And they have a very rigorous set of logic to defend their views, making the other party feel that what they say is actually reasonable, and they are slowly brainwashed by him, thinking that everything he says is right and everything he does is good.
When having a relationship with this kind of "charismatic gaslighter", both men and women will feel as if they have been poisoned by them. They will be bewitched and controlled by them, thereby losing themselves and even causing harm to others in life.
This kind of mental manipulation occurs not only in relationships between the sexes, but also in the workplace and at home.
It's just that some people can tell the difference, and some people can't.
When Liang Yiyi met her husband, it was the beginning of her pain and lack of confidence.
As a result, she changed from a cute, carefree rich girl to a nagging person with no self-confidence and full of doubts about the world and herself.
What Ning Youguang needs to confirm now is - to what stage Liang Yiyi's husband has controlled her.
Thereby formulating the most effective treatment plan to free her from long-term mental control.
The essence of "mental manipulation" is control, and control is to make a person unconditionally believe what he or she says.
All Liang Yiyi's weaknesses can be targeted by her husband.
In the beginning, he attacked her figure and appearance, which was the first stage.1314
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