Liang Yule also secretly used recording software to write down everything Ning Youguang said.
Ning Youguang smiled at her and continued to tell Liang Yiyi, "Through these points, you can free yourself from control and regain your consciousness."
Liang Yiyi nodded seriously, "I will do what you say."
Ning Youguang said warmly, "Change never happens overnight. I suggest you start with a small executable step."
…
On this day, after returning from the hotel.
Ning Youguang posted two Weibo posts in succession——
[An ordinary person: When the ice shell of the soul is shattered by the fragrance of flowers in the sun, I know that spring has really come.]
[An ordinary person: accept yourself unconditionally, accept your own existence and uniqueness, reduce or stop self-evaluation. - Albert Ellis, wish you well! // @ Strawberry Meets Peach: Teacher, please ask
How can I relieve my anxiety?”]
…
The sunshine and flowers in spring are so exciting.
When Ning Youguang rode his bicycle and passed by the white magnolia petals all over the ground, he couldn't help but take out his mobile phone and call Shi Wangyue.
"what are you doing?"
"I just finished handling some things and was about to take a rest." Shi Wangyue got up from the office chair and walked to the window.
The sunlight outside the window just melted into his deep eyes.
"Can Mr. Shi go fishing this afternoon?"
"Teacher Ning, what advice do you have?"
"Let's go pick the spring sunshine."
"Okay, I'll go back now."
"You don't need to be in such a hurry. If you have any unfinished work, you can finish it first. It's not important to me."
"Which of your matters are you not urgent about?"
Ning Youguang was suddenly speechless.
…
Suburbs of Beijing at dusk.
Ning Youguang sat on a simple stool, took out a few napkins and wiped some greasy tables next to him. After wiping for a long time, he couldn't wipe them clean, so he stood up and said, "Let's change them."
She and Shi Wangyue had just changed tables.
A dark-faced elder brother placed two steaming bowls of noodles and hot soup in front of her. His accent sounded like a bitch.
He laughed and teased Ning Youguang, "No wonder I came alone before. It turns out that I have high standards for finding a partner."
After he finished speaking, he winked at Ning Youguang, "My wife's lotus root and pork ribs soup is delicious. You guys have a try."
Ning Youguang gave a thumbs up, "Thank you, my favorite is the lotus root and pork ribs soup stewed by Sister Hua."
This noodle shop looks simple, but its location is really good.
A few steps outside is a wooden staircase surrounded by railings, and going down is a green, open field.
It's rare to go out for an outing, and the noodle restaurant is in the fields.
The two of them chose to sit in the small thatched hut at the entrance of the noodle shop to have dinner. They could hear the cheerful chirping of birds and the sound of streams running through the mountains behind them. They could see stretching green hills and fields, a vast expanse of green.
green.
"This is my favorite place in the city. Whenever I want to be alone, I come here." Ning Youguang gently pushed the bowl of noodles towards Shi Wangyue.
"Sister Hua's noodles are amazing, try them."
Shi Wangyue handed her the cleaned chopsticks.
Then, he followed her example and mixed the noodles. After the noodles and sauce in the noodle bowl were completely mixed, he rolled up a chopstick and started eating.
As soon as he took the soup and noodles into his mouth, he realized that she was indeed right, the noodles here were really delicious.
The soup is a Laohuo soup made with seafood, bones and lotus roots. It is very delicious.
The noodles are hand-rolled and mixed with homemade scallion oil, which is very chewy. There is also a layer of shrimp paste made by the boss himself on top, which is the whole essence of this bowl of noodles.
Soon, the boss served another plate of fresh lettuce cores.
When he put the vegetables on the table, Shi Wangyue discovered that this plate of lettuce only had the tenderest part of the lettuce core, and a special sauce was poured on the core.
"This lettuce is grown by the boss himself. It's very sweet."
Ning Youguang couldn't wait to pick one up and stuff it into his mouth.
After eating the first lettuce core, she asked Shi Wangyue with a pair of clear smiling eyes, "Is the noodles delicious?"
"tasty."
I smile when I look at the moon.
A pair of beautiful eyes, as if dyed with the stars and the spring breeze, softened into a clear glow.
How could it not be delicious?
For him, even if it is not delicious, it cannot not be delicious.
What's more, she had a good day today, the scenery around her was good, and she was in a good mood.
For him, there is nothing bad about it.
She invited him out to enjoy the spring scenery, shared the most delicious noodles with him, and shared her secret base with him.
So gentle and affectionate.
Let his heart be filled with the whole spring.
…
In the cafe outside the National University of Science and Technology.
The young man in cotton clothes handed Ning Youguang a carefully carved wooden box.
"Teacher Ning, I have resigned and set up my own studio." The young man said with a warm smile on his face, "These are two candlesticks I made by myself. I hope you like them."
Ning Youguang took it with both hands, opened the wooden box in surprise, and found two candlesticks with simple shapes and quiet beauty lying inside.
"Too beautiful."
She couldn't help but take out a candlestick from the box and put it in her hand, stroking it gently.
The candle holder made of solid wood feels warm to the touch, and the surface has been carefully polished to be smooth and delicate to the touch.
In addition, the shape of the candle holder is also very beautiful.
She liked it very much.
"I like it so much, you did a great job."
The young man was a little embarrassed by her praise.
He blushed and lowered his head, "As long as Teacher Ning likes it. When I talked to you last time, my mind was too messed up to remember. In fact, I have hobbies. I like wood carving very much. I have liked it since I was a child. I like to hold wood in my hands.
It has a warm feeling, and I also like the simple wood pieces being constantly created into various shapes in my hands."
"I used to think that interest is interest and work is work, and the two cannot be confused." He raised his head and said, "But since the last time I had an in-depth chat with you, I no longer think about work when I go home.
I no longer care about what my friends around me do every day. This month, I just think about playing with wood every day. I bought a lot of wood-making tools online, and while playing with them, I made a lot of small things at home.
The cupboards are almost full.”
He laughed and said, "When my mother was cleaning my house a few times, she couldn't help but mutter to me, 'You made the wood so beautiful, and you didn't sell it for money, and you didn't give it away, because you wanted to fill up our house.
?'."
——"I just realized that these handicrafts of mine can be sold or given away."
"Mom didn't criticize you for playing with wood because you don't work?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"No." The young man also smiled, "After I finished talking to you, I went home and had in-depth conversations with my parents several times, and then they didn't rush me to go out to work."
"Mom and dad are still very reasonable." Ning Youguang gently put the candlestick in his hand into the wooden box.
"Yes." A warm sense of satisfaction appeared on the young man's face, "It was only after in-depth communication with them that I discovered that a lot of my parents' worries about me were largely due to the fact that I didn't tell them many things.
clearly."
"That's it." Ning Youguang said, "Mom and dad love you so much. Once they understand you, they will naturally be willing to support you."
"Yes." The young man lowered his head in shame, "It was because I didn't communicate with my parents properly in the past that we didn't understand each other and caused so much unhappiness."
"It's good to be fine now." Ning Youguang said with a chuckle, "Please share with me, how did you come up with the idea of setting up a handicraft studio?"
"After I listened to my mother's words, I started giving away the wooden handicrafts I made to my friends." The young man's face was filled with a smile of joy. "I didn't expect that they all liked it very much after receiving it.
Some friends said that their friends wanted to buy them after seeing them, so one after another they suggested that I open a store and sell these handicrafts."
"You just obeyed me?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"Yes." The young man said, "Didn't I work in the Internet industry before?"
"I remember you told me about your work experience."
"After listening to my friends' suggestions, I started thinking about how to sell these handicrafts." The young man said, "Opening an online store or a micro store does not have a lot of operating costs in the early stage, and it will be slower to open up sales.
The expenses would also be high, so I decided to start shooting hand-made videos and put them on the new media platform to try out the water. I am also very lucky. My video content is liked by many people, and gradually more and more people like it.
People are buying my handmade products.”
"Congratulations, congratulations." Ning Youguang was very happy for the young man.
"Thank you." The smile on the young man's face never dropped. "After my handmade products were sold, gradually, I received more and more feedback. Many netizens and customers told me whether it was
From watching me making handicrafts in the video to receiving the handicrafts I made, they all feel warm and happy."
"I am also very happy." The young man's eyes were touched and filled with joy, "Not only because my handiwork can be liked by others, but also because my handiwork can bring warmth and happiness to people."
"Works made with love can naturally bring beauty and warmth to people," Ning Youguang said.
The young man smiled and nodded.
After a while, he sighed softly and said, "Teacher Ning, I finally understand why I couldn't persist in my work for a long time and why I always felt unhappy."
"It's because you can't enjoy your work." Ning Youguang said, "You can't get fun from your work."
"Yes." The expression on the young man's face was a little excited, "Now I can do what I like every day, and the works I make can bring joy and happiness to people. I feel very satisfied, very happy, and I don't feel that
tired."
He said, "Actually, I work much longer every day now than when I used to work, but I am very motivated every day. I will be tired even when I am tired, but it is just physically tired. When I am tired, I have a good sleep and will be better the next day."
When I opened my eyes and woke up in the morning, I found that I was full of strength again. Unlike before, I was tortured and exhausted even though I didn’t do anything.”
Ning Youguang chuckled, "The motivation to enjoy work and complete tasks are different, so your work efficiency and mood will naturally be different."
"Yes." The young man's face was full of surprise, "Since I devoted myself to wooden handicrafts, I found that work not only brings me satisfaction, but also gives me a steady stream of strength. Now I feel that there is not enough time every day.
I am looking forward to the arrival of a new day. I hope that my handiwork can be liked by more people and bring happiness to more people. At the same time, I also look forward to creating more good works."
Ning Youguang nodded and asked with a smile, "How is the business volume of the studio?"
"Survival is no longer a problem." The young man said modestly, "Mr. Ning, I don't know if it's because I have found a career that I really love. Now I don't have as much desire as before. I don't want to buy things when I have money. I just do simple things every day.
Just being alone makes me feel rich and happy.”
"Spiritual poverty will cause people to become greedy in material desires." Ning Youguang said, "On the contrary, if a person is spiritually and spiritually rich, his need for material desires will be reduced accordingly."
"Thank you for Teacher Ning's guidance. It feels great to be able to focus on doing what you like!" The young man stood up from his chair with gratitude and bowed to Ning Youguang.
The spring breeze is promising, the flowers are blooming, and all the good things are on their way.
Holding a gift from a student friend, Ning Youguang walked back to the dormitory and looked at the blooming spring flowers on campus.
Eyes smiling.
She thinks this kind of life is really good.
——The days are hot, hot and bright.
…
Spring of 2026.
The good news Ning Youguang received was far more than the fact that the young man had a career he loved.
And Xiaoqi’s mother.
One bright spring morning, she called her.
He told her in a relieved and relaxed tone: "His father and I are divorced."
"Should I say congratulations to you?" Ning Youguang asked with a gentle smile.
"Of course." Xiaoqi's mother was on the other end of the phone. Just by listening to her voice, she could feel her vigorous energy, which was completely different from the way she had seen her before.
"Congratulations on being single again." Ning Youguang smiled.
"Thank you." Xiaoqi's mother said, "Teacher Ning, I have now understood that money is an external thing and is far less important than my freedom and my child's health. Anyway, what I have now is enough for myself and Xiaoqi.
I don’t want to force myself anymore.”
As she spoke, she couldn't help but choked up, "Teacher Ning, really, I'm not afraid of your jokes. I used to tell myself that since men are unreliable, it's better to have money. Anyway, life is like this, but sometimes I wake up at night and see
When I see Xiaoqi's father's face, I can't help but want to vomit, especially when I think about him having sex with other women, I really feel like vomiting."
After a slight silence, she regained her energy.
"It's fine now. This disgusting thing is finally gone," she said. "I originally thought I would be very scared after the divorce, but when I walked out of the administrative building, I found that I wasn't."
"I'm free, what the hell can I do!" 1314
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