In the family scene, Ning Youguang focused on guiding everyone.
She said, "Xiao Wei, tell Jiang Han."
——"Yes, that's it."
Xiao Wei raised his head and looked at Ning Youguang. It was hard to say this.
Ning Youguang reminded him several times before he said this to Jiang Han.
"Yes..." He took a deep breath, his lips trembling slightly, "That's it."
Ning Youguang continued to guide Xiao Wei, "Xiao Wei, keep talking to him."
"Yes, that's it. I accept it all and regard everything that happens as a trial and challenge in life."
Xiao Wei repeated this sentence.
Jiang Han, who was originally lying on the ground, started to move when Xiao Wei said his first words. He was no longer curled up, but lying straight on the floor.
When Xiao Wei said the second sentence, he reached out to touch Xiao Wei.
Ning Youguang continued to guide Xiao Wei and said to Jiang Han, "I went through this with you, you are my family - everything is like that."
After the family arrangement is over.
Ning Youguang first wrote something down in his notebook, then looked at Xiao Wei, "We need to have one-on-one communication next."
Yu Xian stood up from the ground and called Jiang Han, "Let's go drink tea."
…
"Are you addicted to something?" The other two people left, and Ning Youguang didn't want to make any detours with Xiao Wei.
Xiao Weishuo opened his eyes wide and was stunned on the spot.
"Yes, I can see it." Ning Youguang's clear eyes fell on Xiao Wei's face.
Xiao Wei was silent for a long time and lowered his head, "Teacher Ning, please keep it confidential."
"Of course, this is the most basic professional ethics." Ning Youguang said, "You can trust me."
Then she said calmly and objectively, "Addiction is a normal thing. You should not have too much psychological burden."
"As far as I'm concerned, if you are sick, I can cure you. It's that simple."
Now that she has seen it all, Xiao Wei feels that if he hides it any more, he is just covering his ears and making himself look cowardly and ridiculous.
Next, he spoke seriously about his own problems.
It turns out that with the rapid rise of his career in recent years, Xiao Wei has gained unprecedented attention, which has also resulted in him having endless jobs, endless stage appearances, and endless plays.
He was very busy every day, and he was under a lot of pressure when he was busy. In addition, as his fame became more and more famous, more and more girls jumped on him, and gradually he got a little out of control.
"In the past, I desperately wanted to be famous. When I did, I found it annoying. Many people liked me, and many people cursed and hated me." Xiao Wei said, "Teacher Ning, I have to admit that I'm not that strong.
, I can’t turn a blind eye to these, I still care about what others think of me.”
This also led to the comments from the outside world and the intrigues at work, which caused him a lot of trouble.
"Ever since I entered the industry, I have been very anxious for a period of time every month. When I feel anxious, I will watch movies to escape, or find girls to play with, because this will make me relax."
However, placing all his happiness on the movie and the girl gave Xiao Wei a brief relief from stress.
However, as time passed, he realized that he was finished.
Doing these things is like taking drugs to him.
When the medicine wears off, happiness will disappear.
"In recent years, I need to keep watching movies and constantly looking for new things to be stimulated and happy. Every time after watching a few minutes, I want to watch another one and see the girls surrounding me.
Just thinking of that, I became addicted to the stimulation of dopamine." He said, "At first I thought it was because many people in our circle were doing this and it was normal. Later I found out that it was not the case. It was me who was more addicted to these things than others.
high."
"Ordinary and normal sex life can no longer make you feel exciting?" Ning Youguang asked at the right time.
"Yes." Xiao Wei held his head in pain.
He either didn't dare to see a psychiatrist casually before.
He couldn't help but go to the doctor and didn't dare to tell him about his addiction, so the doctor's advice had no effect on him.
The more anxious he is, the more addictive he becomes to these things, and the more anxious he becomes after the pleasure disappears. This is a vicious cycle, like a combination of obsessive-compulsive disorder and drug addiction.
"In the past two years, my life has been greatly affected. I have been driven crazy." Xiao Wei was restless. "It has been difficult for me to focus my attention and interest on real life."
He said, "When I indulge in these things every day, my consciousness is also blurred. I often can't think of anything except the little time of 'happiness', and my thoughts become negative."
He couldn't help but compare the women around him to those on the screen.
In this way, he was embarrassed and confused between reality and fantasy.
Torturing himself and torturing others.
"Teacher Ning, please help me quit these things."
It’s not like he didn’t work hard on his own.
I also secretly made plans to challenge myself and use more work, fitness and training to dilute my addiction to these things, but I still couldn't return to a normal life.
"I'm very anxious and depressed now. I can no longer find them sexy, and even feel disgusting. Of course, I feel disgusting myself." Xiao Wei said painfully, "Teacher Ning, I hope I can control myself."
desire to be a normal person.”
"Please help me and tell me what to do." Xiao Wei fell back and lay on the ground, looking at the ceiling with his eyes blankly, like a rag doll that had been torn by fate.
Ning Youguang can actually understand his current despair.
If a person cannot freely control his desires and has to succumb to external stimuli, then what is the point of living in this life?
That's why he paid so readily.
Generally speaking, it's like Xiao Wei's situation.
Addicted to this extent, his entire life has been basically devoted to this thing.
If no one forces him to do so or objective conditions prevent him from continuing.
As long as you have the conditions, money, or time, you will never be able to quit these addictive things.
Addiction is a terrible thing and a disease.
Addicted people feel great joy when doing this.
Basically what motivates him to keep doing things is for "fun".
And about being happy——
Shallow levels of experience include: jokes, food, teasing, compliments, watching fun, and even being frightened (this is why many girls like to watch horror movies).
The mid-level experience is: smoking, gaming, and plastic surgery.
Deep experience: pornography, gambling and drugs.
Comparing these three, pornography, gambling and drugs.
The dopamine content of x is 100%, then the dopamine content of cocaine is 350%, and the dopamine content of methamphetamine is 1200%.1314