The Tao Te Ching says: "The five colors make one blind, and the five tones make one deaf."
The threshold for pleasure in life will continue to rise.
Once he bases his happiness on something, as time goes by, he will need more continuous and stronger stimulation in order to continue to obtain pleasure.
For example, some people smoke, starting with one pack every two days, then one pack a day, and then two packs a day, and finally they even need two cigarettes together to feel good. Pornography, gambling, and drug addiction also follow this logic.
If a person's desires can be infinitely satisfied, he is not far from destruction.
Xiao Wei's environment and everything he owns make it easy for his desires to be infinitely satisfied.
But still the same sentence.
Whatever makes you happy will also make you miserable.
Xiao Wei is experiencing this right now. As happy as he was when he was doing it, he is so painful now that he can't live without it.
From the physiological mechanism analysis, it is believed that addiction is the brain processing the reward mechanism. There is a "reward system" in the human brain. When a certain part of the cerebral cortex related to this system is stimulated, people will have a euphoric experience. After the stimulation is removed, the individual will have a negative reaction to the previous one.
The euphoric experience produces cravings, which is the basic mechanism for psychological dependence.
Generally, people who are prone to develop addictive personalities have certain flaws in their character.
Without positive guidance, his life will be filthy and sink deeper and deeper.
Ning Youguang analyzed the situation presented at home to Xiao Wei in detail and said, "Next, you can experience and confirm some of the information you want to know by yourself."
…
There were long lines of cars on the street and horns blaring one after another.
A luxurious black SUV.
Xiao Wei and Jiang Han were surprisingly calm.
Jiang Han sat in the cab and drove the car, not in a hurry.
Xiao Wei is still thinking about everything that happened today.
"Is your reaction just now an act?"
Jiang Han glanced at him with an incomprehensible look and continued to look at the crowded road ahead.
Xiao Wei continued, "Why didn't I know that you still have acting talent? That Yu Xian is the same. He is good-looking and has acting skills. He can come to our circle to develop."
"When you see a good-looking person, you want to attract them to your circle." Jiang Han sneered, "Do you think your circle is some kind of hot cake that everyone likes to take a bite of?"
"It's really not interesting." Xiao Wei let out a long sigh.
The whole person was slumped on the passenger seat, looking decadent and depressed.
"When I work for another two years, I don't want to show off to everyone like this every day."
Jiang Han gave him a sympathetic look.
The only thing that can crush a man is life.
Driven by his weak sympathy, he had a little patience to reply to Xiao Wei's previous questions.
"You think we are acting on the field, right?" He said, "When I first started to meet Teacher Ning's family platoon, I also thought we were acting."
Xiao Wei scratched his head in confusion, "Isn't it acting?"
"Why would you have those reactions if you weren't acting?"
"Don't you have experience yourself? Why are you asking this kind of question?"
"I have experience myself." Xiao Wei frowned, "But it's not scientific at all."
"Can you still talk about science?" Jiang Han mocked.
Xiao was speechless.
The car was blocked halfway on the road and could not move for a short period of time.
Jiang Han opened the car window, took out a pack of cigarettes from the drawer in the car, and took one out to smoke.
Xiao Wei quickly put on his hat and mask, only exposing his eyes, and looked around cautiously.
Sneaky like a spy spying on military intelligence.
Jiang Han felt tired when he saw him like this, and took another long puff of cigarette.
"Do you want to smoke or not?" he asked teasingly.
Xiao Wei shook his head.
"Whatever you are addicted to is this." Jiang Han raised his hand, "It's better than your stinky habit."
Xiao Wei said with self-loathing, "If smoking could solve this problem for me, I would have smoked it long ago."
Miraculously, Xiao Wei doesn't like cigarettes.
"It's a good thing you don't like these." Jiang Han said, "If you smoke, you will be completely ruined."
Xiao Wei laughed at himself, "How much better do you think I am than a drug addict?"
As his good friend, Jiang Han certainly knew his situation.
No words were spoken for a while.
After Xiao Wei was silent for a while, he asked him, "Why do you and that Yu Xian trust her so much?"
Jiang Han half-squinted his eyes and allowed the smoke to swirl between his fingers.
"What else could it be? You don't think we are doing it for Teacher Ning's fairy face, do you?"
Talking about Teacher Ning's beautiful face, Xiao Wei became more energetic again, "Isn't it?"
"Of course not." Jiang Han sneered, "Don't look at us with your superficial values, and don't look at her so superficially."
His face was carefree, but the look in his eyes was serious, "It's because her treatment has the best effect."
Xiao Wei also felt that he was a bit shameful. He reflected on himself for a while and said, "She does have some tricks. I didn't say anything. She asked us to walk around the court a few times and we all knew everything."
Jiang Han curled his lips, "Are you convinced?"
"Yes." Xiao Wei marveled at what happened before, "If she hadn't suddenly asked about the things that happened in our family, I wouldn't have been able to remember them."
"Isn't it amazing?" Jiang Han said with a smile, "When you go back and observe yourself, you will find more magical things."
Xiao Wei was even more surprised, "Is it so magical?"
Jiang Han said meaningfully, "You will know it after you experience it."
He said, "Otherwise, why do you think I brought you to find her?"
"And that Yu Xian, have you seen her trust in Teacher Ning? We have all witnessed Teacher Ning's miracles with our own eyes."
"Will this really work?"
"You will know soon whether it works or not."
…
When Ning Youguang returned to the dormitory from Wujianzizi, before he could reach the door of the dormitory, he met Shi Wangyue on campus who had returned from a business trip.
"Teacher Ning, I got your express delivery back for you." He was holding a pile of express delivery boxes in his hands, standing on the path at the corner of the campus dormitory, looking at her with a gentle smile.
Wearing crisp black trousers and a white shirt with sleeves rolled up to the elbows, he looks like a male protagonist who stepped out of a comic book.
Even the setting sun is very sensible. They penetrate the leaves and create a mottled dusk in the movie in time.
"Thank you." Ning Youguang smiled.
Uncontrollably, I quickened my pace and walked towards him.
Mr. Shi looked at his girlfriend running towards him against the setting sun, and looked at the pile of express delivery in his arms with some regret——
If I had known, I wouldn't have taken so much at once.
Otherwise, he can hold Teacher Ning in his arms now.