But after all, she believed in Ning Youguang's professional ability.
Therefore, after she was silent for a while, she said to Ning Youguang sincerely, "Teacher Ning, I'm sorry, I still don't quite understand what you said. However, I believe in your professional ability. My cousin would like to ask you to help me."
, thank you for your trouble."
She paused slightly, "As for the issue of the original family you mentioned, if you need my aunt and uncle to cooperate, just tell me and I will do their ideological work."
"Okay." Ning Youguang smiled softly, "I don't need you to watch over me for the time being. Why don't you call Weiwei to see where she is and ask her to accompany you around our school. Let's
There is a ginkgo forest in the school that is beautiful right now.”
"Okay." Miss Wang smiled, with gratitude in her eyes, "I'll excuse you here. It's almost time, we'll be here."
…
When Ning Youguang returned to the office again, he saw Xiaotian scrolling through his cell phone.
She chuckled and asked, "How are you? Are you feeling better?"
"Much better." Xiaotian scrolled through his phone for a while before raising his head, "I feel better after my cousin leaves. I get annoyed when she talks."
Ning Youguang chuckled, "You've been under a lot of pressure lately, right?"
Xiaotian lowered her head again and was silent for a long time before she asked Ning Youguang, "Have you seen my news on the Internet?"
"I've seen it," Ning Youguang said.
"I knew it." Xiaotian sneered, "You must think I'm ridiculous, right?"
Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "There's nothing funny."
Xiaotian was slightly stunned, "Are you sure?"
"I'm very sure." Ning Youguang's clear eyes seemed to penetrate Xiaotian's black sunglasses and fell on her eyes.
Such clear eyes made the latter turn his head uncomfortably and want to dodge.
Ning Youguang's attitude did not change at all because of her dodging and evading, and he still looked at her quietly.
After dodging for a while, Xiaotian turned his head again and his eyes fell on Ning Youguang's face again.
She could feel that the professor in front of her, who was even prettier than a female celebrity and looked particularly young, was really not lying.
"Why?" she asked in confusion, "Is it because you are a psychiatrist?"
Ning Youguang said, "You can understand it this way."
"So, you also think I'm sick, right?" Xiaotian felt a little uncomfortable again.
Ning Youguang took a sip of water calmly, "Why do you think I don't think you are ridiculous because I think you are sick?"
"Isn't it?" The feeling of discomfort in his heart made Xiaotian feel thorns on his body.
"This is your opinion, not mine." Ning Youguang said warmly, "And your own opinion makes yourself uncomfortable."
The expression on Xiaotian's face paused.
Ning Youguang laughed, "You can ask me why I don't think you are ridiculous."
Xiaotian fell silent.
Ning Youguang said, "Many times, we tend to use our own ideas to interpret other people's words, and often misinterpret them. In this process, many people like to insist that their interpretation is correct, so,
As a result, many of us in our daily lives feel that we are not understood and cannot understand others. It is actually very simple to solve this contradiction of mutual incomprehension. That is, whenever we feel uncomfortable emotions, we might as well be patient.
Come and ask the other party - 'What do you mean by this sentence?' This can effectively prevent us from getting along unhappily because we don't understand each other."
After listening carefully, Xiaotian asked, "Why don't you think I'm ridiculous like them?"
Ning Youguang said, "You must have a reason for doing what you think is right. No one would do something they think is wrong."
Xiaotian said, "Yes, I'm not wrong. Why do they say I'm wrong and laugh at me? There are so many people wearing fake name brands, why can't I wear them? So many Internet celebrities and celebrities have created their own personas. I
What's wrong with setting up a personal profile? Why are they so harsh on me? I don't believe they live without telling lies..."
Ning Youguang listened quietly and patiently to Xiaotian venting his anger.
After she finished speaking, she asked gently, "Are you feeling better?"
Xiaotian pursed his lips and nodded.
Ning Youguang said, "Now that I'm in a better mood, let's talk about half of the topics we talked about before."
"What topic?" Xiaotian asked puzzledly.
"It's the one we wish we had a better life for."
"Didn't we finish talking?"
"No." Ning Youguang shook his head, "Those we discussed before are all external conditions. If people want to live well, in addition to external conditions, there are also internal conditions that need to be met. Do you know what this internal condition is?
?"
"Being loved?" Xiaotian replied.
"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "Internally, we all need love, respect, care, recognition, companionship, etc. Among these needs, some are allowed not to be met. If we have them, we can live better;
Some things must be satisfied in order to survive.”
Xiaotian said, "If you don't have these, you have to have money."
Ning Youguang smiled, "Like what Xibao said in Yi Shu's book, 'If you don't give me a lot of love, then give me a lot of money?'"
Xiaotian said, "Isn't it? Don't all girls nowadays think so?"
"Then do you think Xibao is really happy? Can money really solve all problems and make us live happily?"
Xiaotian nodded and shook his head.
Ning Youguang said, "We can see from Xibao that when we are relatively poor in material terms, we will think that if we get rich one day, all problems will be solved.
Apart from that, I don’t need anything. But in fact, when people really have money, they will find that many problems still cannot be solved. Happiness is not just about money. If that is the case, then all the rich people in the world
Everyone is very happy, but is that true?"
Xiaotian shook his head, "No."
Ning Youguang smiled softly.
"Let's talk about something else."
"What topic?"
“How about we discuss why so many people like to share their lives online these days?”
Xiaotian said, "Does this still need to be discussed? Aren't people like this now?"
Ning Youguang said, "Yes, since the day social media was born, everyone has had a tacit understanding that they like to share the good aspects of their lives and less or not share the content that makes them unhappy. Therefore, every time we
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