"Spiritual entropy is an excellent metaphor in psychology. To put it simply, 'entropy' refers to the degree of chaos of a system. The more chaotic, the higher the entropy value. On the contrary, the more regular a system is internally, the more structured it is.
The clearer, the lower the entropy value." Ning Youguang briefly explained to his brother, "The thoughts in the human brain are just like the molecules in the system, with thousands of horses galloping all the time. The more chaotic your heart is, the lower the entropy value will be.
High, for example, your evaluation of others is concerned about gains and losses, and careful calculation of material gains and losses. These are all factors that cause your mental entropy to be high. Another definition of 'entropy' refers to the total amount of energy that cannot do work in a system. In short
, the higher your mental entropy value, the less energy you have to do things well, because you waste a lot of your own energy on internal consumption. On the contrary, when you focus on doing something, you feel that it is very important.
When it comes to meaningful things, all your thoughts support each other, are related to each other, work together, and move in the same direction in unison. This is a process of reducing entropy, also called 'negative entropy'. Negative entropy will
Make your mood peaceful, fulfilling and full of fun. With high negentropy, everything you do will be powerful."
"Sister, what you mean is that I don't actually enjoy things like going to nightclubs, getting drunk, racing cars, or getting tattoos, right?" Xie Yizun tried hard to digest the information Ning Youguang passed to him, "Compared to these, I enjoy dancing and singing more.
, play the piano.”
"Do you still need to ask me this?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"It seems like this." Xie Yizun said after thinking carefully, "In the company, I feel very fulfilled. I am making progress every day. I am constantly surpassing myself. I do a lot of things every day, but I don't feel tired at all.
I slept very well at night and woke up every morning full of expectations. Here..."
Xie Yizun showed some embarrassment on his face.
"Don't feel embarrassed." Ning Youguang said with a smile, "The more honest you are to yourself and to me, the more I like you."
"Here, you and your brother-in-law are very kind to me, and I live very comfortably, but I feel very empty, and my happiness is very short-lived. I don't sleep well at night, but I don't know if it's because I slept too much during the day, or
It's because of my mood." Xie Yizun scratched his head.
"This is the so-called "happiness logic" problem." Ning Youguang said, "In the company, you work hard to realize your dreams, everything you do can make you satisfied and grow, and the happiness you get will naturally be long-lasting.
, what I do here is meaningless to your true pursuit in your heart. It is a kind of self-consumption and boredom for you. It is strange that you can feel really happy."
"Thank you sister for telling me this." Xie Yizun smiled, "I understand."
When he smiled, the childishness of a boy could still be seen on his face, which was both pure and cute.
"Yiyi, sister thinks your smile is particularly beautiful."
Ning Youguang felt that she liked children to laugh, such as Yiyi, Ning Youyu, her students, and the children she saw walking aimlessly on the street.
A child's smile is different from an adult's smile.
She thinks their smiles are purer, more beautiful, and more touching.
Happiness is unadulterated and very real.
"Sister has a nice smile too." Xie Yizun lowered his head in embarrassment.
"Of course, we are siblings." Ning Youguang accepted generously.
The close communication between the two siblings went very smoothly.
Because of Xie Yizun’s honesty.
It was also because Ning Youguang and Shi Wangyue had indulged and tolerated him for so long that his negative emotions were released and relaxed.
That's how people are.
When you allow the other person to be themselves, the other person will also allow you to be yourself.
Good discussions are mutual.
If you are easy to talk to, the other person will be easy to talk to. If you are not easy to talk to, the other person will not be easy to talk to either.
Especially when facing teenagers like Xie Yizun who have not yet come out of the rebellious period of youth.
Ning Youguang always knows how to give patience, time, and respect.
He doesn't ask, she doesn't ask.
He asked and she answered.
These days, she has used all her actions to tell Xie Yizun——
"I'm here, by your side."
"When you really need me, I will never refuse you no matter what."
It was her tolerance and acceptance over the past many days that made Xie Yizun, an angry little beast, unknowingly tamed and became well-behaved and talkative.
Once people's hearts are opened, whether it's persuasion or education, it will get twice the result with half the effort.
Xie Yizun was also willing to listen to her.
Because he knows that his sister will definitely help him. She understands him from his perspective and helps him.
"Sister, I still want to sing, play the piano, and dance." Xie Yizun was lying on the table, his voice was soft, and he was as soft as if he had no bones.
"Then what?"
"I want to go to the company." Xie Yizun felt a little embarrassed.
After all, half a month ago, he was still clamoring not to go to the company.
"Then go." Ning Youguang knew early on that Xie Yizun was angry when he said he wouldn't go to the company.
If you really hate the company and don't like the life there.
In the previous life, the little bully lived day and night. How could he persist in this ascetic life for so long?
Since he was able to persevere, it was definitely not just because of the agreement or an invisible and intangible future. A large part of the factor was that he gained strength through his daily actions.
He really likes and enjoys doing these things.
"I'm very happy that you have persisted in practicing for so long without giving up or slacking off. After suffering some setbacks, you were able to sort out your mood and are still willing to go to the company. This is remarkable in itself. I am proud of you." Ning Youguang
Praising Xie Yizun, "Yiyi, whether you debut or not, whether you can become a big star or not, it is already amazing to be able to do what you have done in the past three years."
Xie Yizun covered his face with his hands and said nothing. He was a little embarrassed, but he felt very happy.
After a long time, he put down his hand.
Ning Youguang saw the corners of the young man's eyes turning red and smiled even brighter.
"I think I'm pretty cool too."
"I think so too!" Ning Youguang looked happy, and while Xie Yizun was in better condition, he mentioned the main purpose of coming to talk to him today, "Okay, let's talk about what you plan to do next? You and
As for the general reason for the quarrel in the company, I heard it from my mother. Now, I still want to hear what you have to say, okay?"
"Yeah." Xie Yizun nodded, "I don't think it's a problem with the inhumane living arrangements in the company and the high-energy exercises required by the teachers. What makes me feel most uncomfortable is that I joined the company three years ago.
They promised me that I could debut, but now they haven't fulfilled it. When I think of this, I don't want to do anything else, even if I don't hate doing it myself." 1314