Also, the more people around him don’t let him do anything, the more he will do whatever he wants.
Ning Youguang understands very well Xie Yizun's mentality of wanting to get satisfaction from resisting the other party because his needs cannot be met in the company.
This also led to - "But when you focused on fighting them, you also forgot your true purpose."
"I know I was wrong." Xie Yizun admitted his mistake obediently.
"It's okay if you're wrong. Let's just get on the right track." Ning Youguang comforted him, "When problems arise, solve them. Think about the results and be guided by your own goals."
"I understand." Xie Yizun said, "When I encounter problems again in the future, I will think carefully about what is the most appropriate thing to do."
"It's very good that you can think of this." Ning Youguang thought that his younger brother was very smart and understood everything at once, "When do you want to go to the company?"
"Let mom contact the company in the next two days." Xie Yizun said, "However, I want to change dormitories."
"Did you change dormitories because your roommates and friends cheated on you?" Ning Youguang asked.
"Yes." Xie Yizun frowned and said, "I don't want to face them anymore."
"You can change dormitories." Ning Youguang said, "But if you don't want to face them, there's nothing you can do unless someone helps you drive those people you don't want to face out of the company."
Xie Yizun knew this was impossible, and the entertainment company was not run by his family.
"Then what should I do?" He said a little irritably, "I don't want to deal with them anymore."
"If you don't want to get along with them, you can choose not to get along with them." Ning Youguang said, "You have the right to choose to make friends."
"Then who should I get along with?" After Xie Yizun was bitten by a snake, he had a shadow.
"I don't know about this, but I can share with you my principles for making friends."
"What are the principles for making friends?"
"Get along with people who are not tired and meet people you like." Ning Youguang has a very free and easy attitude.
"I probably know if you like her." Xie Yizun asked seriously, "If you weren't tired, I wouldn't understand."
"If you don't understand, you can do this." Ning Youguang said carefully, "No matter who you play with in the future, if that person makes you feel uncomfortable and consumes you, stay away from him."
"What if they come with good intentions?" Xie Yizun asked again, "Sometimes some people do mean good for me, but they are uncomfortable to be with."
"Then communicate with them well. Once you find that you are uncomfortable, tell them." Ning Youguang said, "People who really love you definitely don't want you to be uncomfortable. When you tell them, they will also be willing to
We will adjust the way we treat you in conjunction with you, and in the process, you must learn to be wary of those relationships around you that use the name of love to imprison you, whether they are family members, colleagues, friends, or your future lover."
"Yes, I remember."
"Not only must you remember it, but the most important thing is to learn to use it in real life."
"I know."
"It's good to know." Ning Youguang smiled and said, "But, Yiyi, do you really plan to stay away from others whenever you feel uncomfortable with them, and stay away from others when you feel uncomfortable with them?"
"Isn't it possible?" Xie Yizun asked.
"Okay." Ning Youguang said, "But with so many people in this world, there are always some people we are uncomfortable with and cannot avoid. When the time comes, what should you do?"
Xie Yizun was silent. After a while, he shook his head blankly, "I don't know."
Interpersonal relationships are always a big task that everyone has to face. Some people are born strong, and some people are not.
Xie Yizun, who has been a "left-behind child" since he was a child, is obviously the latter.
"Then let's discuss your decision to make a debut, okay?" Ning Youguang asked.
"Okay." Xie Yizun had no objection.
"Mom told me that your company thinks that you are doing very well in the company and that you have practiced all the basic skills well, but they still want you to go out later." Ning Youguang said what he got from Xia Youqing
The message told Xie Yizun, "Because they want you to consolidate your strength again."
"Why?" Xie Yizun didn't understand, "I've obviously learned everything I need to learn, and I know what I need to know. Those who are not as good as me in the company can go out to act, perform, and participate in variety shows. Why can't I?
"
"Others are others, you are you." Ning Youguang's clear eyes fell on Xie Yizun's impetuous face, "Every life has a different appearance, different potential talents, and different paths.
Of course they are not the same." Ning Youguang said, "You are jealous of that Internet celebrity who can debut, but have you ever thought that your original goals for joining the company are different? You are the one who dreams of becoming a superstar, what about them?
Have you ever tried to find out?"
"No." Xie Yizun shook his head.
"Okay, let me tell you now." Ning Youguang said, "Mom said that those who go out to take jobs before they have mastered the basic skills are just the company's way of cutting leeks and they themselves want to become famous quickly.
The idea is that they are all for immediate benefit, but in the long run, it is not beneficial to their development."
Sixteen-year-old Xie Yizun didn't understand the twists and turns in shopping malls.
But he understood what Ning Youguang said. He was no longer jealous of those who could make their debut as soon as they joined the company. He began to worry a little for them, "Can they not be like this?"
"I don't know about that." Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "If you are worried about them, you can give your friends some advice when necessary. As for whether they will listen or not, don't force them."
"I understand." Xie Yizun's heart felt a little heavy and depressed, "Sister, I suddenly feel that I am a little ignorant and very lucky."
"Why?" Ning Youguang asked softly.
"I suddenly discovered that although my mother said that I wanted to go to the entertainment industry, she would not help me, and I would enter on my own strength, but..." Xie Yizun gritted his teeth, "As long as I am Xia Youqing's son, I am destined to get
A lot of perks.”
"Yes." Ning Youguang nodded, "It's good that you can see this."
——"So, you are luckier than many people who have no background."
"I understand." Xie Yizun felt a little sad, "I originally thought I could do it on my own, but now I think about it, no matter what achievements I make in the future, I will never be able to do without the help of my family."
"Yes." Ning Youguang said calmly and objectively, "You are lucky to be cheating at birth. Don't think it is a burden or a burden. What is yours is yours. Just bear it well.
However, you can’t just be obedient when you get a bargain. You are clearly standing on the shoulders of giants and reaching for the stars, but it’s a bit unlovable to insist that the stars you can reach are all because of your own efforts.” 1314