"Actually, I found that I didn't really understand her or care about her needs. I always expected her to change, to become better, to grow up, and not to blame others every day. But it seemed to be all my wishful thinking, even if I
I tried very hard to support her, but I could only maintain it for a while and make her happy for a few days." The girl sobbed and said, "I tried my best to hear her so-called grievances and pains, but they were obviously very small.
She just couldn't get over it, and I tried to encourage her and praise her, but I could only make her happy for two days at most. But after that, it took me a long time to digest the negative energy transmitted from her."
"That's it." Ning Youguang said gently, "You haven't grown up enough to digest your mother's negative energy, but you have done very well."
"Teacher, can I hug you?" The girl suddenly felt very touched, sad and warm.
"Come on." Ning Youguang smiled and opened his arms.
The girl put down what she was holding and threw herself into her arms.
The teacher's embrace is very warm, very warm.
The waist is also very thin, and the body smells very good. It has a very light and comfortable fragrance.
The girl stood on tiptoes and rested her chin on the teacher's thin shoulder.
She took a long breath and felt that her heart suddenly regained its vitality as if its roots had been stretched out by drinking enough water.
Ning Youguang gently held the girl in his arms and smiled, "It's okay, don't be in a hurry, take your time."
"But I'm very worried about her." The girl muttered, her voice a little soft, and she sounded like she was coquettishly speaking. "Every time I get angry with my mother, I blame myself. I feel very uncomfortable. I obviously
I didn’t want this to happen at first, I just wanted to make her live a better life and be happier. Maybe it’s because it feels so difficult. Teacher, it’s because I don’t have the ability or wisdom to do this.”
"No." Ning Youguang said firmly, and then softened his voice, "It's because you love her very much. If you don't love her, how can you feel pain for her, anger for her, and worry for her? There is only love.
Only then will there be pain."
"Teacher." Tears burst from the girl's eyes instantly. She hugged Ning Youguang tighter, "But I feel that it is very unfilial to make my mother angry."
"Unfilial children will not think about problems like this." Ning Youguang laughed softly, his laughter was like the treetops blown by the autumn wind outside the window.
The girl felt that her heart was filled to the brim in an instant.
She suddenly wanted to laugh and cry.
Ning Youguang hugged the girl and continued to say softly, "Actually, it is difficult to find our ideal parents, but when we grow up, if we can do some inner work to grow spiritually, we can play the role of our ideal parents in our hearts.
The kind of model parents you want, give yourself the best support and care. Then, when you visit your parents again, you will find that you have more love and tolerance for your parents and forgive them.
The trauma it caused you."
——"You must always believe in yourself. You come from the source of life. You come from light. You originally have infinite awareness. You can create everything."
…
"Freud used the method of free association to treat patients and analyze their dreams. In the process, he discovered that dreams are a path to the unconscious..." Ning Youguang stood on the podium, not yet finished speaking.
The afternoon school bell rang on the National University of Science and Technology campus.
At the same time, the mobile phone she put in her pocket also vibrated.
She turned around from the edge of the blackboard and walked back to the podium. She threw the chalk in her hand into the chalk box and said, "That's it for today's class. get out of class is over."
"Happy Teacher's Day!"
"Happy Goddess Day!"
"Girls are always happy!"
"..."
In the audience, many students stood up with smiles.
There were also some students who swarmly took out their carefully prepared Teacher's Day gifts from their bags or desks and ran to the podium to give them to Ning Youguang.
"Thank you..." Ning Youguang has received many Teacher's Day gifts from students today.
But at this moment, her hands and arms were still filled with gifts given to her by enthusiastic students.
There are flowers, scented tea, coffee, small table decorations, cultural and creative bookmarks, notebooks, and cards made by the students themselves... There are really only things she can't think of, and there is nothing the students can't give.
The problem is that there are still a lot of them in her office.
Ning Youguang held a bunch of small gifts in his arms and looked at the pile of small gifts on the podium. He felt a little headache, "I really can't take them anymore. I have received your thoughts. Just take the gifts back."
"Teacher, I have a big bag here."
The students also quite understand the difficulty of the teacher.
Several students took out bags from their bags and neatly helped Ning Youguang on the podium and transfer the small gifts in her arms to the bags.
Some even stretched out their hands to help her hold part of the gift in their hands, "Teacher, where are you going? I'll help you deliver it."
"I'll give it away too, I'll give it away too."
"And me, and me!"
Ning Youguang couldn't help but look at the students who were helping her pack the bags.
I think these children are really naughty when they are naughty, but they are also really cute when they are cute.
At this moment, several more female students came to her holding a big cake.
"Teacher, happy holidays!"
"Wow!!!"
The students around them were surprised when they saw the gifts they gave them, "You are doing such a big thing?!"
"You guys are awesome!"
"666..."
"..." Ning Youguang also looked at such a big cake being held in front of him and didn't know what to say.
Several students holding huge cakes said with smiles:
"Teacher, don't accept this cake because it's expensive. We made it together, so you must accept it~"
"Yes, yes, even if we count the price, if we split it equally among so many of us, each of us would not be more than fifty!"
"We went out and worked for several hours today at noon. Teacher, you must accept it!"
Ning Youguang was speechless for a while, then thought for a while and said, "I can accept it, but you can't have any objections to how I deal with it, okay?"
"Of course~" several young and fashionable female students said with a sweet smile.
"Then open the cake now and divide it here and eat it. Everyone has a share." Ning Youguang decided immediately.
"Wow!!!" The students in a circle around them immediately became happy, "Teacher, we will take advantage of it."
Ning Youguang looked at the female students with clear eyes and smiled. After the female students who were delivering cakes looked at each other for a few times, they very obediently placed the cakes on the podium.
The other students around were very sensible and quickly helped clear the stage to make room for their cakes.
Even Ning Youguang’s teaching aids and laptop have to make way for this overly large cake——
A girl picked up the knife and took on the task of distributing the cake. "There are not too many plates. Some people may not have plates."
"It's okay, we can share it."
"I brought my own cutlery."
"I can use my hands."
"..."
Ning Youguang watched in amusement as the students enthusiastically divided the cakes, and warned from the side, "Don't waste food, don't smear your face."
"I obey, Your Majesty the Goddess..." The students laughed and said that they would be obedient.
A few students who originally wanted to make fun immediately stopped and thought about it.
While waiting to share the cake, Ning Youguang packed up all the gifts, his notebooks and teaching aids with the help of the students.
Then, she shared the cake sweetly with the whole class, and finally carried the gift to her office with the help of several students.
"Bye bye, teacher!"
"goodbye."
Ning Youguang stood at the door of his office, smiling as he sent away a few students who were noisily leaving before taking out his cell phone from his pocket.
After turning on the phone, she quickly found that she had a missed call and immediately dialed the number——
"get out of class has just ended, so I can't answer your call."
"Have you encountered something good that makes you so happy?"
Shi Wangyue heard Ning Youguang's voice full of smile on the phone.
"I just think the students are pretty good." Ning Youguang asked, where are you? Have you got off work?"
"It's time to get off work." Shi Wangyue's voice was gentle and low, "Where are you now?"
"In the office, why did you call me?" Ning Youguang asked smoothly.
"I miss you." Those three short words, spoken by Shi Wangyue, were like a seductive tail feather, gently rubbing the listener's heart.
"I'm off work now. I'll see you soon."
"Well, it's really fast."
Ning Youguang suddenly heard the other party's footsteps on the phone.
"Are you home? Or did you just get off work?"
"Smart Professor Ning, guess again."
Ning Youguang was slightly stunned, and then the other party hung up the phone because the signal was not good.
Standing at the door of the office, Ning Youguang looked at her phone and felt that the other party had entered the elevator. With this thought, she turned and returned to the office.
Unexpectedly, as soon as she walked to her desk, there was a knock on the door behind her.
"Teacher Ning." Along with the knock on the door, there was an all-too-familiar gentle male voice.
"Why are you here?" Ning Youguang turned his head in surprise and looked at Shi Wangyue, who was standing against the door with the backlight.
"I told you, I miss you." Shi Wangyue walked into Ning Youguang's office with a chuckle, and gently closed the door behind him.
"Tell the truth." Ning Youguang smiled.
"To be honest, I just miss you." Shi Wangyue hugged his girlfriend, who was pretending to be angry, in his arms, "Also, I want to come over and pick up Professor Ning to spend the festival together."
Ning Youguang raised his head and looked at his boyfriend who had a nice and gentle smile with a sweet smile, "What holiday are you celebrating, Teacher's Day?"
"What else?" Shi Wangyue raised her eyebrows slightly and looked at the person in her arms with a smile, "If you don't mind, we can go out to spend Valentine's Day together." 1314