If there are many brothers and sisters in the family, one problem that cannot be avoided or ignored is competition with each other. Most outstanding children will be praised by their parents.
In fact, many parents do not say who they particularly like or dislike. After all, they are all their own children. However, they will have a sense of neglect and use outstanding children to motivate relatively mediocre children, which will cause mediocre children to have a psychological
of discomfort.
For example, if a family has three children, or two children, many times the child is not very outstanding, but in the end he does well.
This has a psychological explanation. Children who have been ignored and neglected by their parents since childhood want more attention and love from their parents. So most of these children choose to work harder to prove their existence value and attract their parents' attention.
focus on.
Wang Qi is like this. There are three siblings in their family.
My sister, Wang Yao, is good at studying. I have to say that many people who study well will be said to be excellent and good by many people, especially Wang Yao, a top student who cheats all the time. Wang Qi’s sister, Wang Yao, has been studying since kindergarten.
Xiao Honghua was a top student from elementary school to high school, and even got admitted to a key 985 university in college.
Wang Yao has been praised since she was a child. When relatives came to the house, they would praise Wang Yao, and her parents would also praise Wang Yao in front of relatives.
Everyone seems to have completely ignored the existence of Wang Qi. The most they can say is that this girl is really good-looking, and then they continue to praise Wang Yao.
When I was in school, the teacher would also say: "Wang Qi, look how well your sister studies. You study like your sister. Your grades are too bad. Go home and ask your sister to make up for it. You must have
You wouldn't get half as bad as your sister.'
Round after round of words made Wang Qi have no good impression of Wang Yao at all, and the gap between the two was almost five years old.
Wang Yao rarely had anything in common with Wang Qi. In addition, their family later gave birth to a younger brother, and Wang Qi felt that the whole family had ignored her.
She learned to watch people's emotions since she was a child. She wanted to please others and get compliments on her. The only thing that made her feel proud was her appearance. She was good-looking, much prettier than her sister. Many boys liked her, but her sister had few boys.
like.
However, she feels that being liked by a boy is not as good as being liked by a group of people. She also knows that if she gets along with a boy, a group of boys will not like her. She also wants gifts from boys. Sister, these things
No, my brother doesn’t have it, and her parents won’t buy it for her.
The books she reads are also very interesting. Although she is not very good at studying, she especially likes to read business books, such as some financial books, which she can read with gusto.
She prefers to read some psychology, how to observe and figure out other people, but she only read a little bit about psychology, and did not concentrate on studying and reading. However, she read and read business books, and she learned some useful things from them.
information, such as life planning and how to maximize profits.
After she graduated from junior high school, she really didn’t want to go to high school. She felt that math was too difficult, English was too difficult, and she couldn’t learn physics, chemistry, geography, etc. She could still read Chinese, politics, and history, but she still
Feeling a bit boring.
She knew what her advantages were, so after the high school entrance examination, she saw that there was a flight attendant training program, and she wanted to take it. She found that if you are not good-looking or have a bad figure, you will be eliminated as a flight attendant, so this is her
Why didn't she take advantage of it?
As for modeling, she also wanted to learn. When she was in their school, she often learned how to walk as a model and went to modeling classes to learn secretly. However, she found that modeling was not suitable for her because there was no professional bonus. She also learned dancing and singing.
In short, she wants to make herself a woman that men will like after seeing her.
She longed for the life of those big business people in shopping malls, dreaming of marrying into a wealthy family one day, having endless money to spend, and having a helicopter when going out, making her sister envious. What's the point of studying so well? If you can't do well enough like me, let your parents do it.
From now on, everyone will talk about how my second daughter is doing.
She knew very well that she had no business talent. She had tried to start a business several times, but it was not ideal. She was missing something. She did not rely on men to make money quickly.
So she adjusted her direction. She wanted to rely on a successful man. There was nothing wrong with that. Wu Meiniang also started out this way.
She was about to graduate in a year, and there was nothing she could learn in major schools. The most important point was that Wang Qi found that if she had not gone to this school, she would definitely be able to become a flight attendant.
She has a college degree, but many airlines require a bachelor's degree, and it seems that big airlines can't get into their school.
She felt that she couldn't do this, and she had to seize the opportunity. Watching TV and the news, it was often said that many female salesmen who sold houses found rich people, so she went to sell the house. For two months, she didn't find any rich people, or they were very old, I don't know.
Do you have money? It seems that few people who have money come to see the house in person.
To be precise, no one with money comes to see their property. This is not a villa area, and there are not many rich people in their hometown. They have all seen rich people from their hometown listed in Forbes and Hurun Rich List.
The rich seem to live in big cities, which is why she wants to go to big cities.
My sister came back and talked about what she saw in Shanghai. There were many interesting things. She said that tickets for celebrity concerts in big cities are not expensive, and there are many concerts where you can often see celebrities and people filming. What kind of things are there in big cities?
There are many things that are not available here, especially when my sister said that Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are 20 to 30 years ahead of her hometown. This sentence touched Wang Qi very much.
After my sister started working, her whole demeanor changed. She felt more and more beautiful, and the clothes she bought were really good-looking. The latest mobile phone only cost her half a month's salary. The things she bought for her parents were all big-name brands.
I gave Wang Qi a bag worth more than 5,000 yuan. Wang Qi has never carried it. Although she likes it very much, she has only carried it out. She is afraid that others will ask you if this bag looks good and where did you buy it?
What did she say? It was given by my sister. Will the sister who has always been excellent still be excellent when she grows up?
Wang Qi also knew that she sold three houses in two months, and it is very likely that she will not be able to sell one house in the next few months. This is not unprecedented. I heard from old employees that this is normal. Such an unstable income proves
This is not normal for Wang Qi.
Her sister earns a stable salary of about 17,000 yuan a month, and there is also a year-end bonus. She can earn 30,000 to 400,000 yuan a year, which is very easy, unlike her who stands here every day.
Zhao Mingyang just said that he knew Wang Yao. Although he didn't say it directly, he also meant that I found you to buy a house because of the face I gave to Wang Yao.
Does your sister know that you are selling a house? Did you ask this person to buy a house specifically?
"What are you thinking about? Can you get in the car? Wang Yao and I are not familiar with each other. Don't think so much. I ask you one last time, can you get in the car? If you don't get in the car, don't regret it." Zhao Mingyang said, sometimes, psychological games
, it all depends on who has the deepest morals. If Zhao Mingyang can't win this little girl in the game of his heart, he might as well kill her head-on. He has been a man for two lifetimes, but he can't win this little girl.
"Wait a minute, I'm going to change clothes." After Wang Qi said that, he went back. Zhao Mingyang squinted at the girl, very smart, so that her colleagues would know that Wang Qi went out with her.
If Wang Qi doesn't agree with what Qi does, he doesn't dare to do anything. There are so many witnesses.
This girl is not simple. Zhao Mingyang showed a smile, which was interesting.
Let's see if I can steal this big tomb of yours. Zhao Mingyang suddenly thought of another thing. This woman might be his cash cow.
