After hearing what the girl said, Zhao Mingyang stood up and walked directly to the audience. He walked to the two boys in the back row and said, "I hate these two boys. They keep whispering and laughing from ear to ear from time to time because they influence them.
The rest of the people are listening, such as the people around him, so I hate these two classmates.
But the two of them are me at a certain period. I hate them, and in fact I also hate the me at that period. I have learned to reflect and self-reflect, and I believe they can do the same.
I hate the student thinking of many people here, because I have lived the same life as you, I am your forerunner, and I will share with you what I have experienced.
I once had blind self-confidence, I once had ignorance, I once had narrow thinking to speculate on others, I also used to hate the smell of copper, and people who are better than me, why? Because I live in self-awareness
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I also hope that you will not be like me. This world is cruel. I would like to ask everyone here, which of you has studied in college for four years without relying on your parents’ money? Don’t say that your parents should do this. All of you here have lived it.
I'm of compulsory education age, right?
Have you ever thought about how you should consider supporting your parents and what you are going to use for retirement? I am not trying to make you think that having money means you are a master, but you must also have an understanding that money can solve most problems.
For example, medical care, education, elderly care, improvement of living environment, improvement of quality of life. How many of your parents here have flown and can travel every year? Even if some of your parents have wealth and rights early on, but you are
Do you just want to inherit everything from your parents or do you want to do better than your parents?
You are about to enter the society. First of all, you must abandon the concept that I am a college student and I am better than you. This view is wrong because society often pays attention to comprehensive strength.
You should never use your own cognition to judge other people, because your cognition may be what you think is very powerful. Let’s put it this way, this female classmate, when you questioned me, did you fall into
Self-impressed, you feel that if you stand up, everyone will be drunk and I will be the only one awake.
You think you are different, and you expect me to be unable to get off the stage, and even the whole audience cheers for you, but have you ever thought about it, I also graduated from this school, and I have experienced and learned what you have experienced.
How old are you this year?”
The topic turned to the girl who asked the question again. I left out a lot of things before, including the previous answers. In fact, they didn’t answer what the girl wanted to know. Are you bragging? Zhao Mingyang’s Tai Chi turned into several questions and started over and over again.
Ask the girl.
Many people say that celebrities, entrepreneurs, and celebrities all answer by doing Tai Chi, and in the end it seems that they don’t answer anything at all. In fact, the problem lies with the questioner, because the question asked by the questioner is a question that the person being asked does not want to answer. Many people
The cost of answering the question is high.
For example, if you ask a star what he thinks of another star's work, if the other star's work is terrible, you can't praise it, let alone belittle it. The reporter who asked the question is looking for trouble. The starting point is to dig a hole for the person being asked, as before.
This girl, why on earth is she asking such a question?
Without any purpose? Zhao Mingyang didn’t believe it. Zhao Mingyang guessed with high probability that this girl was a self-media worker and might write some content to arouse Zhao Mingyang’s anger to gain traffic.
The girl looked at Zhao Mingyang and said, "I am a senior this year."
Zhao Mingyang nodded and looked at the girl and said: "I'm a senior and I'm about to graduate. When I was your age, I didn't think about issues like yours. I come from an ordinary family and I'm more realistic. What I think about is me.
How can I make more money so that my parents can live a better life?
For example, I set several goals for myself, which must be completed within three years. The first is to pay off all the debts of my family, the second is to buy a better house for my parents, and the third is to buy a car for my parents.
, I completed it two years after graduation. If you don’t believe me, the premise is that you think it’s impossible.
But you have to know that many entrepreneurs are much better than me. They were able to achieve my goals when they were in college. After graduation, they would have an annual salary of one million. I had no other ideas at the time. I only had one idea, I also want to be that person.
part of a crowd.
After I graduated, many people around me would ask me which school I graduated from. When I mentioned the school, I saw a few people with frivolous expressions on their faces. It seemed that this was the school.
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I secretly swore at that time that I would tell my school that I would never be treated like this again. It was not for me, because I no longer care about these things. I can go to a world-famous school to study, and I will talk about those things from now on.
I graduated from school, but I didn’t want to do that. Wherever I went, I was told that I graduated from a school of finance and business.
Why? Because I got to know many of our seniors, including Principal Qi Changan and my senior brother, because they are all working hard to contribute to our alma mater. Their dedication makes me feel the benefits. For example, most people know that our school has
It’s amazing. Many jobs were offered to me through the school.
Like Senior Brother Qi Changan and others, I want to make our alma mater better and become a world-class university. From now on, every child who goes out from here will be held in high esteem, and students who go out will have more success.
Opportunities, every student who graduates from here will be proud of graduating from here.
Maybe you think I'm whimsical, but I can't. There are you, and there are thousands of juniors and juniors. I hope we all work together, and one day our school will be a world-class university."
The audience became very quiet, and then there was thunderous applause. Zhao Mingyang's speech made the people present excited. No one cared about the problem of the girl before. They even thought that the girl was arrogant, brainless, and small-minded.
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Many classmates complained about the girl who asked the question in the WeChat group. The girl was speechless by Zhao Mingyang's speech instead of answering. She felt that if she said one more word, she would be a sinner through the ages and would be criticized by thousands of people.
, surrounded by unfriendly eyes, she was so scared that she even started to reflect on herself after being told by Zhao Mingyang.
Zhao Mingyang could have quarreled directly, but Zhao Mingyang did not do so directly. If it were like this on the Internet, Zhao Mingyang would probably quarrel directly, and the ire would be so violent that the other party would not use a single curse word.
For example, Zhao Mingyang replied to the other party: Your phenomenon can be attributed to educational errors in childhood. Your parents mistakenly believed that humiliating and suppressive education could make their children progress. Unexpectedly, because of their educational errors, it was buried in your heart.
A seed of low self-esteem and deformity has been planted. Perhaps this is also caused by the way your parents were educated in the past. You cannot blame them. It may be that your ancestors’ education had problems, which caused your family to fall into this deformed cycle.
You have been growing up under this kind of education for a long time, and when you grow up, you like to use the method of suppressing and humiliating others to gain a kind of abnormal and inferior self-esteem. This is a manifestation of external abnormality and inferiority, and it is also a way of life.
The unsatisfactory portrayal is a tragic manifestation of the lack of correct education, which ultimately leads to the need for you to release and obtain happiness in this way.
If I can make you happy by commenting like this, I will be happy to help others. I hope you will not let your tragedy happen to your descendants, and don't hate your family. After all, they also have tragic lives. Promise me.
Don't let your family's deformed and low self-esteem mentality of becoming a child be passed down from generation to generation. Wouldn't it be great to stop becoming a child from your generation?
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You see, evaluating someone in this way is more infuriating and unacceptable than directly scolding someone. If you don’t use curse words, you have to find ways to mentally attack the other person. This involves the other person’s family education, growing environment, and family status.
The other party's family is said to be deformed, has low self-esteem, is very dark, and has an unsatisfactory life. It is commonly known as the attack on the ancestors' graves.
But for Zhao Mingyang to scold the other party like this in front of so many people, it is inappropriate, dishonorable and unworthy.
It is better to instigate hatred to the other party in disguise, which will make her feel more uncomfortable than slapping her. She will be discussed by her classmates, junior students, teachers, and even after graduation.
"If you have no questions, classmate, I will ask my next classmate to ask questions." Zhao Mingyang said with a smile, and then handed the girl's microphone to the hands of the two boys who had been scolded by him before, and asked very random questions.
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The two boys stared at each other, why did they suddenly ask questions?
The entire audience's attention was focused on them, and they didn't know what to ask at this time, because they were afraid of being laughed at for asking a childish question, but they couldn't think of what to ask?
"I'll give you three minutes to think." After Zhao Mingyang finished speaking, he walked back to the podium, picked up a bottle of pure water and took a few sips.
The two boys had a brief exchange and then asked the surrounding students what they wanted to ask.
This phenomenon made many people at the scene feel that it was very real, especially the scene where two boys were communicating with a group of people. Everyone felt that Zhao Mingyang was very real and did not play tricks. He just asked random people to ask questions.
This kind of random questioning made everyone present feel as if everyone had a chance to be asked a question, so everyone listened very carefully, fearing that Zhao Mingyang would call him by name.
After waiting for a while, the taller boy among the two boys looked at Zhao Mingyang with a microphone and asked: "Senior Mingyang, we want to ask you a question. We are all freshmen, studying international trade.
First, what we want to ask is, in the next few years, what will be the direction of the domestic economy and the foreign economy, what changes will occur, and how should we prevent it."
